When to use Screening-Qualifying-Challeging

[Witcher]

Hi all
In pick up there is that old stuff of Screening/Qualifying/Challenging girls.

But how to best use them, in term of timing??
I know what to do with them, but i don't see exacly in wichpart of the interaction that we should use them.

I have an idea.. just befor going deep-dive, to reward a girls who chase me . but it's just my current thinking.

THX!!

 

[Chase]

Witcher-

You want to start using these as soon as a girl's showing some interest - i.e., as soon as you start thinking she's more likely to qualify herself to your screen than not.

Deep diving itself functions as a screen - that's a big part of what makes it work so well... it's one long screening and investing process in which the girl just qualifies herself further and further to you, and works quite hard to do so.

Chase

 

[Witcher]

Thank you for the asnwer.
I was alos thinking like that.
IMO the easiest and most useful way to sue it, is for skiping into deep dive, and encouraging the chase, as you say in your book. With a qaulifiucation question it seems less "chasing her", she showed interest, so you start looking for some of your standards in her , she meet the, now you can deep dive, she desereved it. did i get it ??

 

[Witcher]

Hi
Studying the investement section from the book , so other questions of one mind:

1)So if i ue deep diving i do'nt have to go trought the "traditional" way of screening/qualifying?
2)I'm asking question 1 becasue i do'nt find a smooth and natural way of incorporating the "traditional" way of screening in my conversation witout that seems wierd or too challenging.