When woman qualify themselves

[andrewzx]

Now i understand that when a woman qualifies themselves to you it is generally considered a sign of interest, but what im still confused about is how your supposed to react when this happens. Do you reward them for qualifing themselves to you? Do you use this as a high note and escalate things toward a date/etc?

Also i read somewhere on GC about making the "qualifier" explain themselves and taking them down a notch, thus causing them to further chase. And that this was something successful seducers do by nature. How does this fit in with the above questions? Some further thoughts on those topics would be greatly appreciated.

Whata yuh think?

 

[The Byronic Man]

I think we should also be escalating. I'm nowhere as good as others here, but if you read the FRs/LRs of our veterans, their conversations are super efficient in escalating things. I don't mean transitioning every second, but the conversation and you actions should always be purposed towards your goal.

When a woman qualifies herself because she's chasing me, I reward her. The reward can be obvious (e.g. telling her you like that) or implicit (e.g. ask another question, leaning in more, opening up previously closed body language, etc.). These days, I'm trying to be more implicit because I feel it's smoother. Maybe throw in the obvious for big efforts.

When a woman qualifies herself because she thinks I'm chasing her (i.e. she thinks she's superior over me), I would playfully take them down a notch. You can also qualify her in a way that frames her as chasing you (this might be smoother). I haven't had this happen to me yet though, but that's what I would do.

 

[The Byronic Man]

Just discovered this:

"A Subtle Neg Embedded in Deep Diving"