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This is from last week, already have it in my journal, but thought it could be useful to post here too.
Approach
This girl was fairly older, in fact I had approached her when she was together with her daughter.
I was coming back from a night out, about two months ago, around 2am, and inside the bus I had entered they were sitting together at the rear. I don't remember exactly what I said, but it was probably a comment about their energy, and I somehow felt that the mother looked like she was into me so I got her number, before they got down at the next station.
I also remember that the daughter helped translate, and was also the one that wrote her mother's name in my phone, so it was an interesting experience, that I didn't think too much of back then.
Time passed, I travelled, she travelled, I had sent a message ping, she mentioned to meet when we were both around and it happened this week.
Date
Only thing is, when we met, she couldn’t speak English, almost not at all. Our options where either spanish, since she was from Ecuador, or the local language of the place I live, both of which I almost don’t speak at all. We stayed with the local one and it was a really surreal date.
She couldn't even speak that language extremely well, and we ended up talking about super basic things about where we are from, where we travel and what we like, using a bit of whatever language we could come up with.
I was feeling that this would lead nowhere verbally, we were also sitting opposite to each other so we didn't have much physical contact either. However, she was playing with her hair, she was receptive to the few touches I tried, and also had this constant slutily happy look at her phase.
So at some point that we were talking about foods we like, I just mentioned I have some nice sweets from my country back home we could try. She went a bit shy, but didn't say no in any way, and that's when I thought, ok this is possible.
We finished the drink at the bar, and I proposed a walk towards another place with good view. My plan was to at least get some more proximity, before going for the pull to my place nearby.
We then realised that the park I was taking her to had become an open air cinema on that night, so I just proposed walking for a bit and going to chill to my place.
LMR
She didn't resist at all, we arrived at my house, sat together, I brought out the sweets and put on some salsa music.
We had discussed earlier that she likes dancing, and I thought it would be a great way to bring us closer and escalate.
After some moves, I brought her in and went for the kiss, she pulled a bit to the side, but I could feel it was token resistance and manhandle kissed her. She reciprocated and we made out.
Then she got all about how we shouldn't do it, and that it is fast, but I could still feel her excitement and that she wasn't truly opposed to it.
I took a step back, sat at the couch next to her, gave her some of the sweet and asked her to give it back to me with a kiss which she did, told her to relax and that we don't have to do anything.
Then I started taking off my shirt and told her that it was too hot which was true.
Then I also took her hands and put them on my body.
She was still shyly resisting, so I stood up, took her hand and offered to give her a massage.
She went and sat at my armchair, and I lowered myself between her legs, with the idea to start pleasuring her and get her excited.
She was still pulling away though, and it wasn't a very comfortable position, so I decided to pick her up and throw her to the bed.
From then she seemed to let go more.
I went towards her breasts, pulled them out of her bra and attacked them. She was enjoying it a lot so I knew we were getting there.
Then I started unzipping her pants while sucking her breasts, she eventually helped me with the belt, and I took them off.
From there, there was a bit more pussy licking, getting her more excited and when I went for the condom there was no resistance at all, she simply took me happily.
Takeaways
I’d say the main one is to look beyond words and settings and more into the feeling.
If she seems excited and you cannot even talk about anything, it’s the perfect time to communicate with your bodies.
It makes things simpler in fact, and lets you get in touch with your raw energy and how it is projected to the woman, without any verbal frames or techniques.
Approach
This girl was fairly older, in fact I had approached her when she was together with her daughter.
I was coming back from a night out, about two months ago, around 2am, and inside the bus I had entered they were sitting together at the rear. I don't remember exactly what I said, but it was probably a comment about their energy, and I somehow felt that the mother looked like she was into me so I got her number, before they got down at the next station.
I also remember that the daughter helped translate, and was also the one that wrote her mother's name in my phone, so it was an interesting experience, that I didn't think too much of back then.
Time passed, I travelled, she travelled, I had sent a message ping, she mentioned to meet when we were both around and it happened this week.
Date
Only thing is, when we met, she couldn’t speak English, almost not at all. Our options where either spanish, since she was from Ecuador, or the local language of the place I live, both of which I almost don’t speak at all. We stayed with the local one and it was a really surreal date.
She couldn't even speak that language extremely well, and we ended up talking about super basic things about where we are from, where we travel and what we like, using a bit of whatever language we could come up with.
I was feeling that this would lead nowhere verbally, we were also sitting opposite to each other so we didn't have much physical contact either. However, she was playing with her hair, she was receptive to the few touches I tried, and also had this constant slutily happy look at her phase.
So at some point that we were talking about foods we like, I just mentioned I have some nice sweets from my country back home we could try. She went a bit shy, but didn't say no in any way, and that's when I thought, ok this is possible.
We finished the drink at the bar, and I proposed a walk towards another place with good view. My plan was to at least get some more proximity, before going for the pull to my place nearby.
We then realised that the park I was taking her to had become an open air cinema on that night, so I just proposed walking for a bit and going to chill to my place.
LMR
She didn't resist at all, we arrived at my house, sat together, I brought out the sweets and put on some salsa music.
We had discussed earlier that she likes dancing, and I thought it would be a great way to bring us closer and escalate.
After some moves, I brought her in and went for the kiss, she pulled a bit to the side, but I could feel it was token resistance and manhandle kissed her. She reciprocated and we made out.
Then she got all about how we shouldn't do it, and that it is fast, but I could still feel her excitement and that she wasn't truly opposed to it.
I took a step back, sat at the couch next to her, gave her some of the sweet and asked her to give it back to me with a kiss which she did, told her to relax and that we don't have to do anything.
Then I started taking off my shirt and told her that it was too hot which was true.
Then I also took her hands and put them on my body.
She was still shyly resisting, so I stood up, took her hand and offered to give her a massage.
She went and sat at my armchair, and I lowered myself between her legs, with the idea to start pleasuring her and get her excited.
She was still pulling away though, and it wasn't a very comfortable position, so I decided to pick her up and throw her to the bed.
From then she seemed to let go more.
I went towards her breasts, pulled them out of her bra and attacked them. She was enjoying it a lot so I knew we were getting there.
Then I started unzipping her pants while sucking her breasts, she eventually helped me with the belt, and I took them off.
From there, there was a bit more pussy licking, getting her more excited and when I went for the condom there was no resistance at all, she simply took me happily.
Takeaways
I’d say the main one is to look beyond words and settings and more into the feeling.
If she seems excited and you cannot even talk about anything, it’s the perfect time to communicate with your bodies.
It makes things simpler in fact, and lets you get in touch with your raw energy and how it is projected to the woman, without any verbal frames or techniques.
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