Where to go from here

[Whizzy]

Hey all!

This one girl that I've been talking to lately wants a relationship, then when I ask her out just says she only wants to be friends. She is afraid that I still have a girlfriend, which I do not, and I think this is what is causing her back and forth emotions. Any advice on how to handle this? Last night she pulled the I'm not ready, let's be friends, etc card. I would normally just say forget about her, but I'm looking at this as an opportunity to improve my game since the situation is easily salvageable.

 

[Chase]

Whizzy-

The easy thing to do is say, "Great! Friends it is,'" and then set up a date. Then build up investment and sexual interest, and pull her at the end of the date to do some of those things that good opposite sex friends do together - purely on a friendly basis, of course.

Chase