Which Articles Had The Biggest Impact on You?

[Franco]

Hey everyone,

I'm looking to compile a list of articles that I think are the most influential to readers who might be coming to this website for the first time. These don't necessarily have to be articles for beginning seducers (such as things about fundamentals or overcoming approach anxiety) but articles that made you feel like you were learning from a website that really was giving you valuable information. These are the articles that left you wanting more from Chase and the other writers here.

For example, a few articles that come to mind from my personal perspective are:

• Do You Really Need to Learn Game to Get Girls?
• How to Master Anything
• How Victim Mentality Can Stifle Your Life - and Luck With Women
• Your Mental Model is Flawed
• Can't Stop Thinking About Her? Here's Why You Need to Meet More Girls

So, which articles are the ones that changed the way YOU think and live your life because of this website?

- Franco

 

[Marty]

My personal favorites:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/7-app ... -get-girls
https://www.girlschase.com/content/using ... s-debunked
https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-it’s-bad-want-be-liked-too-much
https://www.girlschase.com/content/sprez ... -investing
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... youll-need
https://www.girlschase.com/content/attra ... ation-date
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... ore-lovers

That'll do for starters

(Sorry I don't know how to make it show title instead of URL)

 

[Marty]

Also:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/genui ... t-dynamite
https://www.girlschase.com/content/turn- ... hat-not-do
https://www.girlschase.com/content/elite-eye-contact
https://www.girlschase.com/content/nonve ... munication
https://www.girlschase.com/content/smile ... smile-sexy

I love the way Chase connects everything together like a fine piece of architecture.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Franco,

This my first impact, kick my a$$ article.

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... -ever-need

Zac

 

[Zoro]

Any and all on-
Fundamentals
Approaching
"the last post you'll ever need"
conversation and deep diving

 

[Franco]

Great suggestions so far!

I'd love to hear more from other members as well! Feel free to share which articles had the biggest impact on you.

- Franco

 

[Eternity]

"Can't stop thinking about her" article. I was still thinking about a one itis from the past. Opened my eyes big time to how things really run. These days i really do not care what women think about me. I say what i want and could care less about saying the right thing to them. No one woman has any hold on me, if i dont make a good impression i shrug it off and know ill meet someone hotter sooner than later. A one in, one out mentality is very liberating to me. Also, the nice guy/bad boy articles Chase wrote. It's the real deal in life, ive seen it too many times...

 

[The Tool]

I Honestly cant decide because I took and read every single article so many times That each has provided about the same amount of useful knowledge for me. But If I had to choose it would be (cant go to them used up my 10 this month)

Manhandle Kiss #1
Yes ladder article/pulling #2
Deep Diving. #3
Chase Framing/ Sexual Framing #4

 

[Flames]

Bra's, wait you meant articles of clothing right?

 

[BarryS1]

#1 https://www.girlschase.com/content/just- ... -nightmare[/b]

First article I found on the site after an emotional incident. Spent a whole week pouring over paragraph by paragraph and comparing to my own experience. I wrote a two page analysis about the friendzone incident using Chase's framework.

#2 https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant- ... more-girls

Found the article a couple months after the first and during dire need. Transitioned my opinion of GirlsChase.com as an informational website to a motivational, one that would make me ACT.

#3 https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... etter-jerk

Another article that inspired me to write an analysis about my own life on the subject. I cannot count the number of times on my college's Facebook confession page of "nice guys" frustration over "bad boys" getting the girl.

#4 https://www.girlschase.com/content/break ... ls-instead

I broke my porn addiction cold-turkey two months ago and still going strong after reading.

 

[Marty]

Good point BarryS1, I also love "Better than Jerk", meant to include it myself but forgot.

I think most beginners have never really thought about the pushover/asshole/gentleman distinction, or are only vaguely aware of it at best.

 

[Franco]

#1 https://www.girlschase.com/content/just- ... -nightmare

First article I found on the site after an emotional incident. Spent a whole week pouring over paragraph by paragraph and comparing to my own experience. I wrote a two page analysis about the friendzone incident using Chase's framework.

#2 https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant- ... more-girls

Found the article a couple months after the first and during dire need. Transitioned my opinion of GirlsChase.com as an informational website to a motivational, one that would make me ACT.

#3 https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... etter-jerk

Another article that inspired me to write an analysis about my own life on the subject. I cannot count the number of times on my college's Facebook confession page of "nice guys" frustration over "bad boys" getting the girl.

#4 https://www.girlschase.com/content/break ... ls-instead

I broke my porn addiction cold-turkey two months ago and still going strong after reading.

Great suggestions here, Barry! These are the types of articles I was referring to, particularly. It's good to see that they've all had a positive effect on your life. I'll definitely keep these ones in mind!

- Franco

 

[Richard]

For Approach Anxiety:
Anxiety In Men
How to Demolish Approach Anxiety
Are You Nervous With Women, Stop Overthinking

For Approaching and Conversation:
How To Talk to Girls and Make Them Want You
How to Pick Up Girls
Pre-Opening
How To Get Girls
How to Act When a Girl Rejects You
Game Openers

 

[Desert Eagle]

Law of Least Effort - Great primer on understanding how to cut out the nonsense and hit escalation windows!
Chase's view on Purpose of Life - Got me thinking about my overall life purpose and lead me into understanding on how to enjoy life rather than fretting about things I can't change.

More recently:

Recent article that I've been paying attention to; can't wait to actually date multiple women.

And Chase's and Ricardus's articles on sex technique have gotten rid of my anxiety that I faced the only time I got even close to sex. I realize now that I was fumbling around with things and not really thinking proactively to get sex. I was scared about knowing what exactly to do during sex, and now I have a strong mental image about how to give a woman pleasure.

 

[Mr. Wes]

The article on why relationships without sex do not work.
I don't remember the title but I think it can leave very great impact on deeply religious individuals.
I started off reading Chase's articles last summer, as a way to help me find "the one". I remember always being frustrated with Chase's constant emphasis on taking women as your lover, as I believed in having sex until after marriage.
I was determined to improve with women without having sex with them.
One by one, my previous beliefs were wiped away. I no longer believed that some girl was "destined" for me and that I had to deny myself pleasure.
One day I decided to have a conversation with my mom about sex. I tried to make it as un-awkward as I possibly could.
I asked her if she was a virgIn before she married my dad and if my dad was a virgin before he married her.
She was un detailed with her answer but the overall impression I got was that they were "getting it on" before they had met each other. And here I was, following the churches teachings, thinking that my parents did the same thing.
My mom explained to me that during her youth, it was normal to be having sex but then once STDs started rising in the (80s I believe?) the church took it as an opportunity to say: "SEE?! THIS IS WHY GOD SAID WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE."

I think Chase's reasoning behind why we should actually be having sex makes perfect sense and I wish that it could be a belief that is dominant in the west right now. ESPECIALLY amongst women. The females in my town are annoying the living crap out of me with this too. ALL they seem to believe or care about whether or not they're religious or not is "relationships" and "finding their one true love" (actually I can't seem to find one girl who just wants sex, aside from my best female friend)

Last summer I snapped out of this and realized that I only wanted marriage and relationships so that i can find out about this amazing sex that everyone keeps talking about. I realized if I kept following the road I was on, I was going to rush into marriage all for the sake of having sex.
The conservative west seems to be brainwashed that they can only have truly deep, intimate, and fulfilling relationships by tying the knot. This isn't true.

That's all before I start rambling.

 

[steff]

The article that brought me here was:

The Ultimate Guide on How to Get a Girl Back

What I saw behind this article was something like this (forgive me if I am wrong): "This is the last thing you should do, but if you really want to do it, here are some tips (but you will regret it)"!
I used all the tips and tools and they actually worked. And I do regret it now, but the lesson was learned.

The one that I found completely mind-blowing was this one:

How to Get Girls: The Last Post You'll Ever Need

I could relate to pure Pete, as I was exactly in the same situation with a girl I was pursuing 3 years ago (back then, I said that she was the girl of my dreams)... except for the fact that I am not an investment banker. At that point I said, I will never understand women, and never going to become good with them. This article helped me alot to change my perspective, actually that love story has become something like a saint scripture to me.

Some more that I really liked (although I think these are materials for the more advanced ones):

Secrets to Getting Girls: Staying Out of Auto-Rejection
Escalation Windows
Just Friends: A Man's Worst Nightmare

 

[Thedoctor]

Hey Franco,

I read this article and instantly became hooked on the site:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-t ... techniques

I was looking for an answer as to why texting wasn't working for me. I came across a lot of BS on the internet, but as soon as I read this article, it made perfect sense. To be honest, I was a little wary of this site at first. I understand why the site is set up the way it is, but at face value it just seemed like another one of those "trick drunk girls into having sex with you" sites. When in reality this site should be called "understand all aspects of human behaviour". The articles on "depression" and changing your "mental model" did a lot in allowing me to view the world in a new positive way.

So thanks to Chase and the rest of the guys here at Girls Chase!

-Doc

 

[Nuncle]

Anything along the lines of: lover/friend/provider; not hunting laughs; results over reactions; not over-providing good feelings and so on.

I think these are essential basics for a beginner as the media provides such confusing ideas about what is sexy in a man (eg films where a guy attracts a woman by being a lovable goof ball). In my case, as I am naturally quite goofy and like to entertain, these sort of things gave me "permission" to continue acting like that around girls, which compromised another side of my character which is more serious and alpha.

Can you believe I have actually read magazine articles where women describe "kindness" as "a turn on" or "the biggest turn on"?

The articles on this site, by contrast, really helped clarify my thinking about who I wanted to be where women are concerned.

 

[metomeya]

I have to smack my forehead for not searching before starting a new thread.

Here are mine:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/make-her-orgasm-hard-sex-8-minutes-or-less Really opened my eyes how to give a woman an orgasm
https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-i-quit-dating-girls-who-club-party-or-drink Something I already realized a long time ago but glad to hear it from a pro
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-move-faster Not only opened my eyes but also made me excited to the possbilities

 

[Michael]

How to text a girl - https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl

The article that brought me to the site. Plus, I used it in the last couple of days, texting with only one of two goals in mind: getting to a meet, or building rapport, and never at the twain shall meet.