Which is the BEST way to make friends with a woman in your experience?

[Ryan]

Which would you say is better?

• Approach with sexual vibe ---> one-time casual sex ---> set out expectations for a platonic friendship ---> friendship with girl
  
  Approach with sexual vibe ---> multiple occasions of casual sex lasting weeks/months ---> set out expectations for a platonic friendship when you find a girlfriend/other ---> friendship with girl
  
  Approach with a non-sexual vibe ---> friendship with girl

Or any other method.


Which is your preferred route to get the most rewarding and close friendship at the end? (i.e. which route means the woman values your friendship most?)

 

[Supah]

I can tell you this, casual sex has never led in to long lasting friendships for me, some even started to despise me after i told them i just wanted to be friends. (because i just wasn't ready to have a relationship with them)

Just act like you, be yourself and be a nice guy to her, talk about common interests ask her advice even, but above all be a listening ear. If you want to be friends with a women i don't think you have to tell her explicitly that you just want to be friends, women are experts in friendzoning

I think chase wrote an article about just being friends, i haven't read it yet though, you could look it up if you want

 

[Thedoctor]

Ryan,

I imagine many guys will have very different insights on this one. I already replied to a similar topic before and here was my input:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=2949&p=13255#p13255

-Doc

 

[trashKENNUT]

Which would you say is better?

Approach with sexual vibe ---> one-time casual sex ---> set out expectations for a platonic friendship ---> friendship with girl

Approach with sexual vibe ---> multiple occasions of casual sex lasting weeks/months ---> set out expectations for a platonic friendship when you find a girlfriend/other ---> friendship with girl

Approach with a non-sexual vibe ---> friendship with girl

Or any other method.


Which is your preferred route to get the most rewarding and close friendship at the end? (i.e. which route means the woman values your friendship most?)

Love to answer this Ryan, but unfortunately, there's so many ways life goes. Friendships can be form platonic first, and she will suddenly "fall in love". Sometimes you find her sexy, you make a move on her, and it can work, and sometimes it doesn't because her friends intervened. Sometimes she's a party girl, or a girl that doesn't match you in any way.

So the best rewarding friendships you can find? Time and Value, whether a person looks for you even when you don't have anything.

Zac