Observations White"Lady". The Female Equivalent of WhiteKnight

[trashKENNUT]

I notice this.

There are girls who are good people but they like to hang around "broken" guys and girls. The reason you can never help this girls is because she innately believes that she is a saviour.

Sounds offensive,judgemental.... but she believes she is a saviour.

I dun really understand why, actually. I can't bring this girls away to stop mixing with those people too much, because she will no longer need to "save" anybody (which is me of course), thus her life purpose is gone.

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[Inferno]

I agree zack, that's why bryonic men are appealing to some women. Im curious, what bought you to your conclusion?

 

[PinotNoir]

I've always been a little curious what the Lady version of a WhiteKnight would be.... but I'm not sure if this is it.

For a WhiteKnight, he is only this way for girls. He sees women as needing to be saved from evil men. He sees men that move fast as pigs and ungentlmenly and wanting women only for their vaginas, and he views women as unsexual delicate flowers.

In your example, it sounds like an overly helpful woman drawn to the need to help others and a need to be noticed as a "good" person without taking her needs into consideration, and she is wanting to help "broken" men and women. I feel like a man could be this too, and I'm not sure if I'd consider this a WK. Although, I see this more with women than men.

If a woman wants to be with a broken man... wouldn't that be similar to a man with Byronic traits? Our tragic hero that has a mysteriously dark past? But, surely all women can be wooed into liking a man like this, while I view WK as a certain mindset of ignorant or inexperienced men.

I'm not sure on this, just trying to understand. Can you elaborate?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Inferno,

Im curious, what bought you to your conclusion?

Simply put, I used to be that guy. Like Franco, i noted that he keep negative friends for about 4 to 5 years (in his recent comment). I did that, but unlike Franco, I used to do a whole lot, this "saviour" thing, and i feel very damn proud of it.

I have meet relatively enough individuals, to observe and note that there are people who believes they are such things.

PN,

In your example, it sounds like an overly helpful woman drawn to the need to help others and a need to be noticed as a "good" person without taking her needs into consideration, and she is wanting to help "broken" men and women. I feel like a man could be this too, and I'm not sure if I'd consider this a WK. Although, I see this more with women than men.

If a woman wants to be with a broken man... wouldn't that be similar to a man with Byronic traits? Our tragic hero that has a mysteriously dark past? But, surely all women can be wooed into liking a man like this, while I view WK as a certain mindset of ignorant or inexperienced men.

I'm not sure on this, just trying to understand. Can you elaborate?

I wouldn't say overly helpful but she's going there. It's more of the friends she mix around with. She's playing the therapist, and keeps going back onto friends who has problems. It's like friendships who keep quarrelling and going back and forth. The reason why White"Lady" is well liked within her social circle is because all her friends are negative!!!

and recently, a girl bestfriend is a guy, and he's those guy who have this "quarreling back and forth friendships".

I know that having Byronic traits has good points, because if a girl likes to play therapist, that will be heck lot of shit going on later. So the key here, i will assume is that your friends really tell a lot about your personality. If i want to pick a girlfriend who wants to so called play the therapist for me because i have Byronic traits, i must make sure her friends aren't as negative or probably crazy.

(and I honestly wouldn't mind NOT having a lot of friends if people judge me that way. and i contradict myself because i said i don't know why, but oh well.)

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