I lost my virginity when I was 13 to a girl who was two years older than me. Had sex with her quite a lot for about 6 months, and then didn't have sex again until I was 16 or so. Then, I racked up quite a few during my last two years of high school. I'd say I was close to 20 by the time I graduated (our school was about 500 students total).
Then throughout college I racked up probably another 20-25 or so. After college, I met my ex-wife and had sex with only her for the next 9 years.
Then, after marriage I couldn't get laid at all for about a year and a half, found this place, and [rather quickly] sort of "re-figured out" all the things that used to come to me naturally as a younger male. (I think when I was younger I was just naturally more aggressive, didn't care much about rejection, and had a very high sex drive; I still have a very high sex drive, but my marriage conditioned me to be a giant pussy and to be anti-social around women).
In the two and half years I've been here learning, I've added probably another 60 or 80 lays.
If I had to guess, I'd say my total # of lays is somewhere around 125, give or take some.
PS, I'm 35.
J.J.