Why are you girls trying to bump into me..... (The need for Superiority)

[trashKENNUT]

I have a problem.

Now i know why guys who are good with girls tend to have the need to have this "fucker" attitude, sometimes with friends and ugly girls. Because if you don't, people are just going to throw away social grace, calibration and just flock onto you like nobody else matters.

Example like i was at the supermarket, this staff girl just push dirt nearly onto me with her sweep! and she went nervous. I was like *facepalm*. I just walk out of that area after that. I feel bad for her though. I have girls trying to bump me on the streets with their boyfriends. I don't know whether this is to test the boyfriend's self esteem or whatever. I have an unattractive girl standing near me, knowing i was checking my phone.. Girls blatantly checking me out, trying to get my attention, creating at times, awkward situations. Another pointer Chase noted on unattractive women throwing everything they can at you.

Chase, now i know why you say i need superiority without being too aloof.

Zac

 

[Oskar]

need superiority without being too aloof.

Yes. This is gold, Zac. This jives nicely with my own experience. In your opinion, what's the difference between being aloof and being superior?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Oskar,

Yes. This is gold, Zac. This jives nicely with my own experience. In your opinion, what's the difference between being aloof and being superior?

Aloof means neutral. There's no positive or negative emotion. It's like pretending the other person is not there, without the facial expression of feeling pissed off.

Superior means body language. It's more of a belief and body language combined. You can see when someone thinks he is better than the rest.

But now that you bring this up, I have a problem deciding to adopt this, full time. Because one of the few examples of not being superior is David Beckham. For people around the world, English people from England are viewed as tend to think highly of themselves. They are this sort of like still living in British Empire. David Beckham is the opposite of that. He is good looking, he has fundamentals and he's grounded. So when i look at David Beckham, he is one great example of being a guy who has fundamentals and doesn't need to be superior.

But David do need to be superior, at times (like Chase noted as well), in this interview. David Beckham, Letterman.

You can see David is more neutral, knowing that Letterman is very sarcastic at times. But the key problem is i will get flocked like David if i get popular or fame (probably lesser girls since i am not good looking. HAHA!) and not use superiority or aloofness.

Zac