Hello once again,
I thank all of you who took the time to answer my previous questions.
Here's one I've been pondering for a while.
Before I get into it, I'd like to preface this by saying I'm not a woman-hater or redpill crusader. It's just easier for me to empathize with women and accept the way things are if I can figure them out.
One thing Hector mentioned in his article is that female morality revolves around her sexual strategy.
Keeping this in mind,
I've seen countless cases (like on the show "Cheaters") where the woman is cheats on her boyfriend, and then gets caught. At this point, she either leaves her boyfriend for the new guy OR she ditches the new guy and goes back to the boyfriend, telling him she was still in love with him.
I can't count the number of times I've seen girls change their stories to make them look good and again...avoid responsibility.
This is what I picked up from those episodes -
1. If the girl knew or had the feeling that the new guy would commit, she'd leave the boyfriend without hesitation.
2. If the girl was sure that the new guy was just someone on the side and not someone who would commit, she'd go back to the boyfriend so that she gets her security.
So, this way she gets both the essentials that Zan Perrion says are a woman's core needs - Security and her need for adventure.
All this made sense to me after using "Is it good for her sexual strategy" as a starting point to understand all this.
Now, my questions are as follows:
1. Do all girls avoid responsibility?
2. Should we NOT expect women to take responsibility (the same way we know how they backwards rationalize everything)?
False rape cases, for instance. They ruin dudes' lives and I've never seen a woman take responsibility and say "I falsely accused him" OR "I cheated", etc.
Somehow it's always someone else's fault.
3. If we can't expect them to take responsibility, how do you take women seriously and not look at them as children? Because it's responsibility that separates children from adults.
I've been having a hard time wrapping my head around this. I'm sorry if I've been unclear in my question. I'll do my best to explain my position better if you want me to.
Thanks in advance.
~Aashish
I thank all of you who took the time to answer my previous questions.
Here's one I've been pondering for a while.
Before I get into it, I'd like to preface this by saying I'm not a woman-hater or redpill crusader. It's just easier for me to empathize with women and accept the way things are if I can figure them out.
One thing Hector mentioned in his article is that female morality revolves around her sexual strategy.
Keeping this in mind,
I've seen countless cases (like on the show "Cheaters") where the woman is cheats on her boyfriend, and then gets caught. At this point, she either leaves her boyfriend for the new guy OR she ditches the new guy and goes back to the boyfriend, telling him she was still in love with him.
I can't count the number of times I've seen girls change their stories to make them look good and again...avoid responsibility.
This is what I picked up from those episodes -
1. If the girl knew or had the feeling that the new guy would commit, she'd leave the boyfriend without hesitation.
2. If the girl was sure that the new guy was just someone on the side and not someone who would commit, she'd go back to the boyfriend so that she gets her security.
So, this way she gets both the essentials that Zan Perrion says are a woman's core needs - Security and her need for adventure.
All this made sense to me after using "Is it good for her sexual strategy" as a starting point to understand all this.
Now, my questions are as follows:
1. Do all girls avoid responsibility?
2. Should we NOT expect women to take responsibility (the same way we know how they backwards rationalize everything)?
False rape cases, for instance. They ruin dudes' lives and I've never seen a woman take responsibility and say "I falsely accused him" OR "I cheated", etc.
Somehow it's always someone else's fault.
3. If we can't expect them to take responsibility, how do you take women seriously and not look at them as children? Because it's responsibility that separates children from adults.
I've been having a hard time wrapping my head around this. I'm sorry if I've been unclear in my question. I'll do my best to explain my position better if you want me to.
Thanks in advance.
~Aashish
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