Why do Guys take breakups far worse than Women?

[LordOfCircles]

Firstly, the vast majority of breakups are initiated by women. If the guy initiates the breakup then it's usually a power play because his women has begun to treat him badly, isn't putting in the effort she was at the beginning of the relationship and isn't "giving it her all." A guy will then initiate a breakup as a powerplay to hopefully bring his woman into line. This sometimes works if the woman is still attracted to the guy, but in most cases she will just move on (especially if attraction has fallen - she was likely thinking about ending it anyway).

Secondly, women are evolved to move on very quickly after a breakup (See Rollo's "War Brides", Briffault's Law and the Lightswitch Effect). Women are, more than Men, "creatures of the moment". If they stop getting good feelings in the moment, then they immediately begin the process of mentally decoupling their emotional attachment to the man they once loved and respected. This is known as The Lightswitch Effect and it's often very confusing for men when this happens. They report feelings that their ex girlfriend is "ice cold" and has become a different person. It's like her love and affection has been "switched off" (and this is exactly what has happened).

Finally, the concept of "No Contact" as a strategic move to regain power after a breakup is a strategy that is extremely effective if Women use it on Men. It almost never works when Men use it on Women (the woman simply moves on to another guy who can give her the emotional "feels" that she was no longer getting from her ex boyfriend).If you want to regain "power" after a breakup then you need to re-attract your ex girlfriend and have her pursuing you (female attraction flourishes in a state of anxiety and uncertainty). The relationship dynamic that is most attractive to women is when they are in pursuit of a man who doesn't commit, is emotionally ambiguous and can't be "won over" emotionally.

I've made a youtube video on this process:

Thanks for reading

 

[Skills]

Uhmmm nah, the reason is really cause women have broken up with a dude at least 3 months to a year before the dudes realize is over and they just hibernate...

Women also have a major support groups of female friends, family members etc...

Also even though women appear to be the vulnerable, weak, delicate and sensitive sex, the dudes appear muscular, dominant, macho etc.... inside is totally the opposite

Finally women are buyers we are sellers, a women post break up have 50 orbiters, 5000 ims, and if she shows up at a club with cleavage and mini skirt 20 dudes fighting for her. Dudes after a break are at the most unattractive, un charismatic, pussy level, puas or not same shit I seen countless gurus take it worst than betas including myself

 

[LordOfCircles]

Uhmmm nah, the reason is really cause women have broken up with a dude at least 3 months to a year before the dudes realize is over and they just hibernate...

Women also have a major support groups of female friends, family members etc...

Also even though women appear to be the vulnerable, weak, delicate and sensitive sex, the dudes appear muscular, dominant, macho etc.... inside is totally the opposite

Finally women are buyers we are sellers, a women post break up have 50 orbiters, 5000 ims, and if she shows up at a club with cleavage and mini skirt 20 dudes fighting for her. Dudes after a break are at the most unattractive, un charismatic, pussy level, puas or not same shit I seen countless gurus take it worst than betas including myself

Yes, women have natural abundance and are natural "plate spinners."

Biologically, women are more valuable than men in terms of perpetuating the Human Species" - eggs are finite, sperm is infinite. Therefore, women who can move on from men quickly have been selected for through thousands of years of evolution. If a woman permanently bonded to the first Man she mated with then this would be a disaster for evolution because if that man dies or is infertile then that "bonded" woman would be permanently removed from the gene pool.

 

[DrexelScott]

Because by the time a woman breaks up with you, she's already begun her next relationship.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Because men always perceives a state driven by causality. That state (if he doesn't know himself) is women, the society.

All men must recognize that the city (state) is billions of them, but he is not them, ever.
I know this sounds 'out there' but i am just putting it out there

z@c+

 

[mrb54122]

I just feel that love may not exist. Come and talk to me, I'm so lonely.

 

[petabigboss]

Cmon lets be honest here. Cause men dont have line up of girls of same level waiting for them, and they dont have ability to go out and in a week have same quality girl as his gf was. Thats that... Its simply ineffectivity of finding attractive female partners...Thats THE ONLY REAL REASON. No point in lying to ourselves. If somebody (and there are guys like that) has ability to simply get another one of same level as gf was....they dont have any problems with break up;-).

 

[LordOfCircles]

Amen