Why do I do well with other girls, but TERRIBLE with British girls?

[killerman]

So I'm 29, done around 2000 approaches, fucked 23 girls and one thing I've noticed is I've always done TERRIBLE with white, British girls. I always do well with Asian girls (Chinese, Indian) but when it comes to white british girls I just can't seem to attract them. Sure I've fucked a few of them, but on average I do far worse with them than with foreign girls. I've also had girls from all over the world chase me for a relationship yet ive never had a relationship with a british girl, which is strange as I live in the UK. Last year I went on dates with 40 different girls but only 9 of them were with white british girls which is saying something.

Why is it so? I know everybody here always says girls are girls and they're all the same but why my terrible track record with attracting British girls but great track record with foreign girls? I'm also 6 foot 3, tall and handsome so i fit the bill of a "classically handsome guy" and have a very well spoken british accent so why the constant success with foreign girls but never with white british girls? Could it be my voice? I know that well spoken voices are seen as "unsexy" usually so maybe that's the problem. I also look really Italian, which is even more confusing as white British girls say they love italian guys, yet maybe that's part of the problem as maybe on a deep, primal, psychological level white british girls just want to be with another white, british guy as they want "someone just like them". This could all be bullshit though, I don't know, just trying to figure it out. Anyway, I don't want to sound bitter about the situation, I just want to know why I do badly with british girls so that I can identify the problem, fix it, so that I can then get results.

 

[Fuck This]

Few Questions:

Is there something about a white British girl that other ethnicity's don't give you?
If you knew there was one or two or three things you do that preclude attraction from White British girls would you change them? Like religion, accent, clothing style, career field? I think many of us like those aspects of ourselves, and would like to find someone to fit into our life, not the other way around.

 

[killerman]

There's nothing about white british girls that other ethnicity's don't give me. Except that they dont look the same. But that's not my point. My point is that I'm trying to figure out WHY i'm not getting the same attraction from white british girls that i get from other girls. And I'm absolutely willing to change what it is about me that needs to change for me to get white british girls. But the problem is that I dont know what it is that needs to change for me to get them.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I do see these questions come up a good bit, why do I not do well with (insert type of girl here). What I have found is that as a whole, different types of girls tend to want different types of things, even though exceptions do exist.

I've found that British and just Anglo white girls in general tend to be choosy and crave excitement a lot more. Asian and Indian girls love you because as a white guy who is tall and handsome, you show stability and have marriage material written all over you. I have found that girls raised in more traditional cultures and/or working class backgrounds tend to crave guys that bring them stability. Based on you asking us about your Tinder photos and your posts, I can see you as being a gentleman. The kind of guy that isn't exactly a "nice guy" but is sophisticated, classy, worldly, and an overall friendly guy.

Now British girls and white Anglo girls in general tend to have inflated egos and they see guys like you as doormats. A lot of these girls tend to like the overly aggressive, very cocky, bad boy, take shit from no one, and brute type of guy. The kind of guy that sets the tone early, is ready to call them out on the drop of a dime, rarely smiles at them, really pushes their buttons, and puts them in their place.

Imagine a Michael Bisping type of guy or a guy who is more of an aggressive shit-talking type. The kind of guy who can excite her, put her in her place, and let her know he is not fucking around. I feel like nice guy game works well on East Asian girls and girls from non-Anglo cultures but with British, American, Canadian, and Aussie women you absolutely need that type of an aggressive, classless, and in your face type of approach.

 

[killerman]

Thanks Fuji Follower! This is helpful, I did have my suspicions that I was too much of a "gentleman", so good to get the confirmation! Just thinking though, do you think it would be a good idea with White British girls to NEVER smile? Also about putting her in her place and not fucking around, could you give me some examples? I'm thinking that when she looks flattered when i give her the compliment on the initial approach I could then say "yes but don't get ahead of yourself, you're cute but you're no penelope cruz" or something like this. Or when she says that guys always chase her you could say "oh really? you're cute but you're no supermodel, don't flatter yourself". What do you think?

 

[Virgin101]

Are you sure you don't know what it is deep down?

I'm 26, live in Ireland, and I have the same problem with Irish girls. I think me situation might be sort of analogous to England. Irelish and English are quite similar in comparison the the US for example. When I get with a foreign girl (even if she's hot) I sort of feel as if that didn't really count. Foreign girls perhaps don't pick up on the social nuances that the Irish girls wouldn't approve of... they just see a talkative, tall, well dressed good looking guy. However, the Irish girls can detect that I'm a little out of the loop, as well as knowing that I don't have a lot of friends. It's as if they can sense that I read girlschase and don't approve. The few Irish gals I've gotten need to be well drunk, or that I need to bump into them abroad!

American girls I found are more likely to be willing to engage, before rejecting, giving me the impression they're more confident. But with Irish girls, the very fact they're not willing to engage (at all) confuses me. On the one hand, I can say to myself "yeah but if I got to talk to them, I'd play them so easily", but then again you see, I don't know if that's even true!

I think it's a lot to do with cliquishness. You can have all the good qualities in the world, but they want to see what clique you belong to more so than foreign girls. It's not that they're any better or worse looking, but I can't deny that I desperately grave native girls, and I feel like I'm a long way away from getting. There would be a far greater mental turn on to being accepted by an Irish girl. With me, in a small way, I always feel as if it didn't count for some reason! Even if I get a hot 'sober' Irish girl, it'll be because she was silly and had poor judgement. The cynical good looking girl, I don't feel as if I've a chance with!

I don't know if you can relate to that, but I think it's cliquishness and the Irish alcohol issue. Ever have any luck wit Irish girls?

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Thanks Fuji Follower! This is helpful, I did have my suspicions that I was too much of a "gentleman", so good to get the confirmation! Just thinking though, do you think it would be a good idea with White British girls to NEVER smile? Also about putting her in her place and not fucking around, could you give me some examples? I'm thinking that when she looks flattered when i give her the compliment on the initial approach I could then say "yes but don't get ahead of yourself, you're cute but you're no penelope cruz" or something like this. Or when she says that guys always chase her you could say "oh really? you're cute but you're no supermodel, don't flatter yourself". What do you think?

Bad idea, never insult her directly. I don't know how to approach it naturally, it is one of those things that comes to you. I used to have struggles with American girls all the time but not anymore. What I've done is call them out whenever they say something stupid or outrageous. If they say "well all men are this way", I will say "oh okay, I didn't know I was like that but thanks for telling me something about myself".

Sarcastically toy around with them and never take them seriously.