Why do I ignore girls after I apporach them?

[GeneralFap]

This attitude is like a routine for me. I go through all the effort to approach and talk to a girl (whether it be in my classroom a school club, or cold approach), then I ignore them. I never push it to the next level. For example, if I talked to this girl in my class and we flirt a little and it went well, then I just ignored her the next day. She even sat next to me and started giving me a hint by talking about blowjobs. I don't know if it's that I'm afraid to disappoint women because deep inside I feel like I am chode who's masquerading as a cool guy/seducer, or because I'm afraid to talk to her, although I don't know if the latter is right because I believe I already did the hardest part which was approach.

 

[PinotNoir]

Mmm, my assumption is that it's probably related to the crash of adrenaline. When you first approach a girl, there is tons of adrenaline pumping and rushing through. Then the next day, you don't have that rush anymore, so you feel like it's over -- mission accomplished and time to sit back and relax.

I think this is why it's important to close the deal early -- on the first approach. Don't wait until the next day.

The first day you approach, ask her on a date. Period. Why wait until the next day anyway?

As for this girl talking about blowjobs, WTF man? She's dropping hints on you like Atom Bombs on Hiroshima. Talk to her tomorrow and ask if she wants to hang out one-on-one after school.