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Why do women not dress nicely for a date?

killerman

Cro-Magnon Man
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Yeah, so you've seen the title, I absolutely hate when the woman doesn't dress nice and sexy for a date. Especially as these days I ALWAYS make sure to dress well. Chelsea boots, tight V neck, blazer, dog tags, well groomed tight hair cut, cologne etc etc The question though is why are these girls not bothering to make an effort to dress well as well? Now the other day I had a coffee date and the girl just dressed like a slob. But I get it, it was just coffee. But then I've also had dates recently where I said "let's go for a glass of wine", implying we're going to go somewhere nice and they STILL turn up in baggy jeans, no heels, just making NO EFFORT to dress nicely. I just find it so disrespectful and the way I see it is either they see me as low value and are low interest or they're just lazy. One girl last year turned up in clothes so sloppy that they resembled pyjamas! I said "lets get drinks by the sea" and it was in the summer, quite chilled but she could have put in a bit more effort. So why is it this is happening? I remember I used to go on dates in london and the girls would dress up to the nines but here where chicks are very feminist, left wing, socialist and woke most of them are just not bothering to put in the effort, why is this? Sorry if this comes across as a rant but I would like to know why chicks do this? Appreciate your input!
 
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trashKENNUT

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Is her face still nice?

What I mean is that does she put makeup? If she does, then it's still normal.
She doesn't put makeup due to men who failed her, school, Woke-ism, family habits and more.
There's many and all reasons.

but... Here is really why.

I'm sorry that my blueprint is still in the works but man cannot see past his own state. And women cannot see before causality.

To make it simple: She can't look backwards. Thus Man need to inspire women more. Yes, you guys read that. :) Men need to "inspire" women today thru many mediums. You need to be more proactive in today's world. (But you can always don't marry women. That's your right, forever)

Customers are also in debt because they can't look backwards due to causality.

(Maybe I should not reveal too much. This Covid secrets and parts of the blueprint, can be use for good or evil)

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sab

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I avoid labels. Not very helpful in offering insights in people's behaviors. Prefer explanations that inform at a deeper level. Sense of dress depends on the culture of the country, the girl's milieu, her upbringing, the level of competition from other girls. A girl in a upscale neighborhood in Paris will make a serious effort to dress well. A girl in a rural small town in Arkansas, probably not.
 

Vision

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Are you in America? Because that's pretty normal for American men and women... even office dress is becoming more and more casual.

I had a job in Tempe, AZ about 10 years ago and we were allowed to basically wear gym clothes to the office... and I've been seeing that going further and further.

It used to be that the East Coast of the USA was better dressed and the West Coast was more relaxed. I don't spend much time on the East Coast but I'm pretty sure standards are getting more and more relaxed everywhere, especially now that people rarely go into an office.
 

trashKENNUT

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standards are getting more and more relaxed everywhere, especially now that people rarely go into an office.

In hot sunny Asia,

-flip flops,
-t-shirt/singlet
-short shorts
-occasional yoga pants (evil smile)

Guys be like "how do I know if she likes me?!"

This is where her makeup, matters. :)
Because that's where the psychology nuance, is.

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Skills

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Yeah, so you've seen the title, I absolutely hate when the woman doesn't dress nice and sexy for a date. Especially as these days I ALWAYS make sure to dress well. Chelsea boots, tight V neck, blazer, dog tags, well groomed tight hair cut, cologne etc etc The question though is why are these girls not bothering to make an effort to dress well as well? Now the other day I had a coffee date and the girl just dressed like a slob. But I get it, it was just coffee. But then I've also had dates recently where I said "let's go for a glass of wine", implying we're going to go somewhere nice and they STILL turn up in baggy jeans, no heels, just making NO EFFORT to dress nicely. I just find it so disrespectful and the way I see it is either they see me as low value and are low interest or they're just lazy. One girl last year turned up in clothes so sloppy that they resembled pyjamas! I said "lets get drinks by the sea" and it was in the summer, quite chilled but she could have put in a bit more effort. So why is it this is happening? I remember I used to go on dates in london and the girls would dress up to the nines but here where chicks are very feminist, left wing, socialist and woke most of them are just not bothering to put in the effort, why is this? Sorry if this comes across as a rant but I would like to know why chicks do this? Appreciate your input!
if in USA after corona as vision explain the dress code is gone you can go to office in gym clothes etc....

However, this is a cause of low investment/exictment.
 
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