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Why Even the Skeptical and Female Player fall for you.

trashKENNUT

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I remember when i was 20, about three years back, I was starting to take my higher education in Accounting. I just finish my National Service for two years after high school, and going back to school was as exciting as ever.

I enjoyed my time there. Skip aside the story that i was more of a show rather than substance during that time, i met a girl while we were having Sports and Wellness lesson. We were having inter-class sports, mixing with each other and playing captain's ball with some of the classes that were having the same timeslot as us. She was young, cute, great body with huge assets that God knows why sometimes she needs to relatively bend forward. (you get what i mean).

Apparently i didn't know game very well at the time, but i was more knowing about talking to women and decided to get to talk to her asap. It wasn't the most comfortable conversation i have, she give the notion like not interested and act dismissive but she was there. I got into telephone call and manage to get her out two weeks later.

She originally wanted me to meet her at her home before we go out, but yea moving fast was something i unheard off three years ago. I must really kick myself today. When i went out with her, she repeatedly me give me subtle hints during our journey that we didn't need to go anywhere. But i was the nice guy, treat her, call her, message her, needed to bring her out on a place, and i did, and i never slept with her.

Prior to that, she wanted to spend the whole day with me, and i blew it, i told i got other plans, when clearly i wanted her. Looking back, she was a strong girl, who really likes man but she is also skeptical and a female player. She knows the game well, after she put the blame on me when i went out with another girl who happens to be a friend a week after i went out with her. I broke my frame and leave my friend for awhile to court her back.

To not bed her and she frame me for doing this is somewhat illogical for me at the time. Somewhat it's like a girl's frustration of a man's ability to lead. I did manage to call her and talk to her for hours after persistent but not so creepy messages. She told me a lot of her real life story that i think most other men with her doesn't know while i was dating her. But I cut her off months later, knowing she dated other guys when i was trying to court her back, and i was like her backup plan.

It pains a lot to know i miss out on the opportunity but i also found out later things i didn't like about her. So don't worry if things are a fail, because you learn what you do want.

I learn a lot from my high school and tertiary education seductions, although i would say i was a natural back then, and there wasn't so much game. I can say what i learn from here,

Move Fast, Skip Steps (if she wants to),

and she's a Chinese girl, and yea i'm of a different race. :) Nothing is impossible.

i will like to hear if you guys have any thoughts. :) maybe you can relate here.

Zac
 

Nova

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I can relate to that. Thinking back there have been so many opportunity's with girls that have presented themselves to me but that I failed to act correctly upon. Its easy to think back with regret, and to think what might have happened if you only acted slightly differently. But that is the nature of life, you learn from your mistakes and become a stronger person. It may take a few mistakes and missed opportunities, but eventually you learn how to deal correctly with similar situations and you stop making those same mistakes.

In essence I guess mistakes etc are necessary for us to grow and learn, and whilst its hard, I always look back and try to be thankful for whatever happened. I try to turn the feeling of regret into something more positive. Without making those mistakes way back, I would be making them still today.
 

trashKENNUT

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Hi Nova,

Nova said:
In essence I guess mistakes etc are necessary for us to grow and learn, and whilst its hard, I always look back and try to be thankful for whatever happened. I try to turn the feeling of regret into something more positive. Without making those mistakes way back, I would be making them still today.

Yeap, Even when you a pro, they always emphasize on basics still. For dating and seductions, it's fundamentals. Practicing is a skill, Maintaining is a skill.

Turn regret into something positive.

Zac
 
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