Ok guys, this has been discussed in several articles and is a well known topic, but I'd like to see your opinions on this "extreme" form of flaking.
A girl adds me on facebook. I propose to meet. she flakes. We reschedule. she flakes. that was 3 months ago.
After that we meet a few times in university, I never propose anything related to dates, we exchange a few text ones in a while. So a few days ago we met on the street and she proposed to meet. I wasn't interested to meet her after her flakes so I said something vague like "yeah we'll see".
A few days later, we met at uni and spoke for a few minutes, and I thought to myself "why not fuck her?.." So I proposed to meet for that drink she mentioned the last time. (I knew that most likely it wasn't gotta happen, so I planned loads of B-plans for the day. Good job there). We set up the place and time and walked our ways.
I told her I'd text her the date before to confirm and so I did. She confirmed the date. Ont the next day, the day of the date, I sent her a text 1h before the time to say "i was starting to get ready, see you at X", well guess what.. LOL she says that she forgot about the date. And asks if we can reschedule. I said "no, this is your last chance" she said she was ill. i said ok, get better and cut off the conversation.
So.. I mean is she crazy? I get when girls flake cause they didn't want to refuse the date in person when they met you. I understand when they do it ONES for legitimate reasons. I understand they may not be interested. but omfg, she reaches out to me, flakes twice, i archive her, she re-engages and proposes to meet again. to flake again? I mean aside of being super rude and disrespectful for my time is she nuts or something? This sort of chronic flaking only happened to me twice.
Are there girls that feed on this or what?
Cheers!
A girl adds me on facebook. I propose to meet. she flakes. We reschedule. she flakes. that was 3 months ago.
After that we meet a few times in university, I never propose anything related to dates, we exchange a few text ones in a while. So a few days ago we met on the street and she proposed to meet. I wasn't interested to meet her after her flakes so I said something vague like "yeah we'll see".
A few days later, we met at uni and spoke for a few minutes, and I thought to myself "why not fuck her?.." So I proposed to meet for that drink she mentioned the last time. (I knew that most likely it wasn't gotta happen, so I planned loads of B-plans for the day. Good job there). We set up the place and time and walked our ways.
I told her I'd text her the date before to confirm and so I did. She confirmed the date. Ont the next day, the day of the date, I sent her a text 1h before the time to say "i was starting to get ready, see you at X", well guess what.. LOL she says that she forgot about the date. And asks if we can reschedule. I said "no, this is your last chance" she said she was ill. i said ok, get better and cut off the conversation.
So.. I mean is she crazy? I get when girls flake cause they didn't want to refuse the date in person when they met you. I understand when they do it ONES for legitimate reasons. I understand they may not be interested. but omfg, she reaches out to me, flakes twice, i archive her, she re-engages and proposes to meet again. to flake again? I mean aside of being super rude and disrespectful for my time is she nuts or something? This sort of chronic flaking only happened to me twice.
Are there girls that feed on this or what?
Cheers!
