The question is literally in the title. I've been reading chases articles, doing my research, and in no other words, working smart!
I've also been doing cold approaches as often as possible, and I've realized I'm no longer as nervous as I used to be, and instead it's the women that get a little nervous.
I know that most guys plain and simply DO NOT do cold approaches, and if/when they do, are pretty lame at it.
Now... I can't say I'm great, but I sure as shit know the basics. I make little mistakes here and there, the kind that I think happen because I'm in the moment, enjoying myself with this girl. I always realized afterwards would I could have done better... and the truth is, I for some reason have really high standards for myself, but these mistakes are small.
Yet women decide to themselves they don't want to see me anymore.
Is it because of these little mistakes, or am I still a complete and utter newbie (I don't feel like it......)
Like I don't know what kind of example I can give, they seem extremely irrelevant to me:
- A girl didn't have a number of her phone yet, and I asked for her home number, she insisted I gave her mine instead, and I did, then I realized that's not what she wanted, and get her my cell instead.
- I texted another girl to call me, she said she would try to remember, told her not to forget, she did, I called her a few days later, no answer, no text follow up, haven't txted her since. Can tell she liked me in person and on the first phone call, apparently not?
- Got a girls number at the gym and a date set up (she asked me if I wanted her number), txted her sayin lovely to meet u, blah blah, said she should be studying too but was at a friends place instead, I said bad girl, someone outta put u in your place ; ), no txt back
I think I'm just a little rejection sensitive due being romantically rejected so often, and because of how I was bullied on and off in middle school and high school.
Nevertheless, this is usually what happens and am confused... like I want to fuck a chick so bad, I've been withdrawing from PMO (porn addiction, etc), which may sound stupid, but it's a real fuckin thing. I'm on like day 20, I got so much built inside me, the next chick I get in bed, I swear her brains going to release so many pleasure chemicals shes not going to be able to speak for a day.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
WHAT THE FUCK!
Why do girls interpret little fucking mistakes for the entire personality of an individual, it blows my fucking mind!
I've also been doing cold approaches as often as possible, and I've realized I'm no longer as nervous as I used to be, and instead it's the women that get a little nervous.
I know that most guys plain and simply DO NOT do cold approaches, and if/when they do, are pretty lame at it.
Now... I can't say I'm great, but I sure as shit know the basics. I make little mistakes here and there, the kind that I think happen because I'm in the moment, enjoying myself with this girl. I always realized afterwards would I could have done better... and the truth is, I for some reason have really high standards for myself, but these mistakes are small.
Yet women decide to themselves they don't want to see me anymore.
Is it because of these little mistakes, or am I still a complete and utter newbie (I don't feel like it......)
Like I don't know what kind of example I can give, they seem extremely irrelevant to me:
- A girl didn't have a number of her phone yet, and I asked for her home number, she insisted I gave her mine instead, and I did, then I realized that's not what she wanted, and get her my cell instead.
- I texted another girl to call me, she said she would try to remember, told her not to forget, she did, I called her a few days later, no answer, no text follow up, haven't txted her since. Can tell she liked me in person and on the first phone call, apparently not?
- Got a girls number at the gym and a date set up (she asked me if I wanted her number), txted her sayin lovely to meet u, blah blah, said she should be studying too but was at a friends place instead, I said bad girl, someone outta put u in your place ; ), no txt back
I think I'm just a little rejection sensitive due being romantically rejected so often, and because of how I was bullied on and off in middle school and high school.
Nevertheless, this is usually what happens and am confused... like I want to fuck a chick so bad, I've been withdrawing from PMO (porn addiction, etc), which may sound stupid, but it's a real fuckin thing. I'm on like day 20, I got so much built inside me, the next chick I get in bed, I swear her brains going to release so many pleasure chemicals shes not going to be able to speak for a day.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
WHAT THE FUCK!
Why do girls interpret little fucking mistakes for the entire personality of an individual, it blows my fucking mind!