Even for those of you who are skilled, why not share the one or two things you still aren't good at that gnaw at you, or share a situation or two that you've messed up lately. For some reason, it would motivate me if I heard the likes of Chase and Franco showing their frustration. Know what I mean?
One of my peeves: When it's the case that the girl has already made her mind up that she doesn't like you(in that way), but you don't know, and you keep dishing out all those tricks to try and impress her. Doesn't that just make you feel like shit. Because if you didn't know any better, you'd think it's because you're 'tricks' are useless.
Example(you mightn't need to read this):
Recently I went on a date. I didn't particularly like the girl personality wise, but I'd have been willing to do her. So I said that I couldn't afford to turn the situation down(it was me who set it up). She didn't seem like the sort of girl who'd be up for a shag either, but I said I'd better go along anyway because it isn't often I go on a date.
During the date, I was the one who made sure there were no silent gaps, and who made most of the effort to sustain the conversation and make sure it had a natural flow. Any time there was a silent gap, she'd laugh, highlighting any small amount of awkwardness it had. I felt like saying, "we should be well enough acquainted with each other at this point not to feel awkward if there's a small silent gap". It seemed so girl-like, and I let this put pressure on me to fill the silent gaps. At one point I said, "what's funny?" and she didn't really have anything to say, so I said "I can only imagine how much you'd laugh if I told a joke". I mean I guess it's good that I can improvise, but after so much I began to just felt like I was her lap dog, attending to all her needs. I'd have preferred to just stare at her and put the pressure on her to talk. And she expected me to pay the bulk of the bill at the end.
She then went to go to the bathroom again become we left, and she took a long time for whatever reason(not sure if this relevant or if it means something for girls). She was due to meet her friends afterwards, and I was going back to my car, so we walked a certain amount of the way together. I felt like I should try and do something, but didn't really know what. I said, "are you going to walk me back to my car". She said no, and I joked "I might get mugged". As we said goodbye I gave her a kiss on the cheek and she sort of laughed, and I thought to myself "well, that's all the effort I'm making".
Maybe I'd have preferred if we had just met up as friends, as that way, I would have felt more comfortable to poke fun at the things I didn't like about feeling nothing would be at stake, and this might have even led to banter!
One of my peeves: When it's the case that the girl has already made her mind up that she doesn't like you(in that way), but you don't know, and you keep dishing out all those tricks to try and impress her. Doesn't that just make you feel like shit. Because if you didn't know any better, you'd think it's because you're 'tricks' are useless.
Example(you mightn't need to read this):
Recently I went on a date. I didn't particularly like the girl personality wise, but I'd have been willing to do her. So I said that I couldn't afford to turn the situation down(it was me who set it up). She didn't seem like the sort of girl who'd be up for a shag either, but I said I'd better go along anyway because it isn't often I go on a date.
During the date, I was the one who made sure there were no silent gaps, and who made most of the effort to sustain the conversation and make sure it had a natural flow. Any time there was a silent gap, she'd laugh, highlighting any small amount of awkwardness it had. I felt like saying, "we should be well enough acquainted with each other at this point not to feel awkward if there's a small silent gap". It seemed so girl-like, and I let this put pressure on me to fill the silent gaps. At one point I said, "what's funny?" and she didn't really have anything to say, so I said "I can only imagine how much you'd laugh if I told a joke". I mean I guess it's good that I can improvise, but after so much I began to just felt like I was her lap dog, attending to all her needs. I'd have preferred to just stare at her and put the pressure on her to talk. And she expected me to pay the bulk of the bill at the end.
She then went to go to the bathroom again become we left, and she took a long time for whatever reason(not sure if this relevant or if it means something for girls). She was due to meet her friends afterwards, and I was going back to my car, so we walked a certain amount of the way together. I felt like I should try and do something, but didn't really know what. I said, "are you going to walk me back to my car". She said no, and I joked "I might get mugged". As we said goodbye I gave her a kiss on the cheek and she sort of laughed, and I thought to myself "well, that's all the effort I'm making".
Maybe I'd have preferred if we had just met up as friends, as that way, I would have felt more comfortable to poke fun at the things I didn't like about feeling nothing would be at stake, and this might have even led to banter!