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BACKGROUND
Hey guys I'm a huge lover of day game and I'm always on the hunt for new experiences. Unfortunately night clubs are way too loud for me these days
Anyways this report is a continuation of this thread. The TL/DR of it is that her ex tried to blackmail her to family and it sent her mood crashing
I'm currently in a medical programme that requires me going to the hospital. And if there's one thing I've noticed about hospitals, there's an enormous amount of nurses to run game on. (Let's not forget sexy patient relatives)
This girl, we'll call her Linda, had her sister admitted as a patient. Before we met she'd been there for like a week
THE MEET
I first saw her on a Wednesday. She was on shorts with gorgeous long legs... perky tips and firm big ass.
Not sure if she saw me but I was in a rush to meet up with a few consultants. The next day while I was eating at a restaurant inside the hospital, she orders her food and sits next to me
This was my chance. So I just opened her with a tease about how she was eating. We vibed on why she was here.. and then I transitioned to where she's from.
Turns out we went to a particular school together. So we vibed on that too. This aspect kind of brought us together cuz we felt a bit closer.
I set discrete and sexual frames by going quiet then going like this:
Me: These guys beside us have been trying to listen in on our convo. I'll continue that story when they leave
Her: haha well they can't help it
Me: I don't like people in my business... after all it's not like we're making out so no need for them to pay attention
Her: hahaha I get what you mean
Me: *while making eye contact... your smile is kind of inviting
Her: *smiles again... oh is that a thing?
Me: I guess now it is
We then proceed to vibe more while I sexualize a bit and set more discrete frames.
I also frame her as adventurous and spontaneous. And she eats it up. So I ask her what does she spend most her time doing. She says she's bored most of the time and she just walks around and watches Netflix. I tell her there's a bar in a hotel where I leave and we could spend some there. So we exchanged contacts
FOLLOW UP
I didn't hit her up that day. I usually do but I was soooo tired when I got home, I ate and slept off.
Next day, I was at the same restaurant and there she was eating. As soon as she saw me, she was making some serious eye contact. It was so hot. I figured she was interested so I decided to test compliance
I sat a bit far away from her, ordered my food. As she was getting done with hers I signaled her to come over and she did happily. Nice
THE FIRST DATE
i wouldn't really call this a first date but there's no where to put it.
As she came over, I directed her to seat beside me. She asked why I didn't call or text. I told her I was tired af. At this point, I now sense that's probably why she came to the restaurant again hoping to see me.
It's a Friday and since none of us have nothing doing at night, I invite her to my hotel room. She agrees
AT MY PLACE
Now, this is where things start to go downhill. When she arrives... I went downstairs to pick her up and over hear saying "Dad please don't answer that number. Just block it. It's not me chatting"
She seemed stressed, worried and sad. She explains her ex has been blackmailing her to her family and friends with her former whatsapp line. I don't speak much on it. Brush it off and walk her to my room
I'm thinking everything is back to normal. And 5 mins in her dad, mum and her older sis start calling her. At this point I'm fucked. She starts explaining, complaining etc
Then the ex calls and she starts raining insults and curses... telling him her dad will find him.
After all that things calmed a bit, we start vibing. 30 mins in her elder sis calls again then she says "im so so sorry i have to go"
To say I was pissed is an understatement. I didn't even know how to react or what to say. I just went quiet and walked her downstairs. She asked if I was angry cuz I was quiet. And kept apologizing but I didn't say anything and just fluff talked with her as we walked out.
THE FOLLOW UP 2.0
Usually, I tell their girl to text me when they get home. But with her I didn't cuz I was pissed. Probably wrong on my part.
But in the morning I was calmer after talking to @Dreamer in the chat and him encouraging me to check in with her again.
Next day, I send the following text happens;
Me: Hey I forgot to tell you to text me when you got home last night
Her: Of course you did when you were so pissed
Me: Well I won't say pissed tho
Then we continue to vibe via text. In our previous convo on the date she asked if I had smoked and I said yes.
So she texts me if I have any... I said I could get some. Prior to this, she was slow in her replies and I felt the vibe was off but I maintained my cool...
Until I asked where she would be smoking it and she said "hospital" Bruh I was like wtf why didn't she say my place like we originally talked about before the ex thing
So we traded a few text back and forth then I sent a text telling her I didn't want us to continue chatting. That the vibe from her felt off after her ex thing. And she's probably not in the right state of mind. That I understand that but I would like us to part ways on a friendly note.
I got this idea from @Chase article on putting the ball in her court text and ending things cordial. I know this is not the kind of situation he pictured but I didn't have any options
She responded with "what do you mean by the vibe is off" I tell her after that night she's been acting off with her vibe and all
She then sends a vn and tells me: "I don't feel the vibe is off. At least not from my end. If you don't want to stop talking to me it's fine but you'll know it's you that wants to stop talking to me."
She sends another one and says "If it's because I haven't been replying your text fast it's cuz of my sister and I'm doing things for her at the hospital"
I then send her a vn telling her that it's not cause of the slow texts but she wanting to smoke in a hospital rather than a hotel room. Like who does that lol
She replies "Ohhh for real? I just said that because I didn't want to stress you cuz you might be busy"
I ask her if she's still down to smoke, she says yes so I invite her over
ESCALATION AND CLOSE
The escalation was pretty straight book. As soon as she arrived, i held and hugged her then gave her a peck on the cheeks.
As we got in the room, we lit up.. took like three puffs then told her to blow it in my mouth and we started kissing from there
Then the rest is history
MY TAKEAWAYS
- Having a chill, laid back vibe especially early on is key. She had plans to stay celibate at the hospital but was low key looking to fulfill a fantasy of fucking someone at a hospital
I was her first since she came. She's really attractive. Like an 8. And having this vibe was very key to making it happen. She was like "You're naughty but not a pervert. Everybody I meet just wants to fuck me but i dont how you did it"
- Sexual frames are EXTREMELY important. With @Teevster collection I wasn't lacking in that aspect. So much so that she mentioned me being her sexual fantasy come true. And describing me like someone from a movie or novel
She let me into her world. Find out she's bi. And we ended up having a threesome with a FB of mine that's bicurious yesterday
- Persistence is usually a blessing in disguise
STICKING POINTS
- I have to learn how to handle wild cards better. In retrospect, the walkaway text could have easily back fired. And I could have been seen as needy
Also, I'd appreciate any feedback or insights you might have
Hey guys I'm a huge lover of day game and I'm always on the hunt for new experiences. Unfortunately night clubs are way too loud for me these days
Anyways this report is a continuation of this thread. The TL/DR of it is that her ex tried to blackmail her to family and it sent her mood crashing
I'm currently in a medical programme that requires me going to the hospital. And if there's one thing I've noticed about hospitals, there's an enormous amount of nurses to run game on. (Let's not forget sexy patient relatives)
This girl, we'll call her Linda, had her sister admitted as a patient. Before we met she'd been there for like a week
THE MEET
I first saw her on a Wednesday. She was on shorts with gorgeous long legs... perky tips and firm big ass.
Not sure if she saw me but I was in a rush to meet up with a few consultants. The next day while I was eating at a restaurant inside the hospital, she orders her food and sits next to me
This was my chance. So I just opened her with a tease about how she was eating. We vibed on why she was here.. and then I transitioned to where she's from.
Turns out we went to a particular school together. So we vibed on that too. This aspect kind of brought us together cuz we felt a bit closer.
I set discrete and sexual frames by going quiet then going like this:
Me: These guys beside us have been trying to listen in on our convo. I'll continue that story when they leave
Her: haha well they can't help it
Me: I don't like people in my business... after all it's not like we're making out so no need for them to pay attention
Her: hahaha I get what you mean
Me: *while making eye contact... your smile is kind of inviting
Her: *smiles again... oh is that a thing?
Me: I guess now it is
We then proceed to vibe more while I sexualize a bit and set more discrete frames.
I also frame her as adventurous and spontaneous. And she eats it up. So I ask her what does she spend most her time doing. She says she's bored most of the time and she just walks around and watches Netflix. I tell her there's a bar in a hotel where I leave and we could spend some there. So we exchanged contacts
FOLLOW UP
I didn't hit her up that day. I usually do but I was soooo tired when I got home, I ate and slept off.
Next day, I was at the same restaurant and there she was eating. As soon as she saw me, she was making some serious eye contact. It was so hot. I figured she was interested so I decided to test compliance
I sat a bit far away from her, ordered my food. As she was getting done with hers I signaled her to come over and she did happily. Nice
THE FIRST DATE
i wouldn't really call this a first date but there's no where to put it.
As she came over, I directed her to seat beside me. She asked why I didn't call or text. I told her I was tired af. At this point, I now sense that's probably why she came to the restaurant again hoping to see me.
It's a Friday and since none of us have nothing doing at night, I invite her to my hotel room. She agrees
AT MY PLACE
Now, this is where things start to go downhill. When she arrives... I went downstairs to pick her up and over hear saying "Dad please don't answer that number. Just block it. It's not me chatting"
She seemed stressed, worried and sad. She explains her ex has been blackmailing her to her family and friends with her former whatsapp line. I don't speak much on it. Brush it off and walk her to my room
I'm thinking everything is back to normal. And 5 mins in her dad, mum and her older sis start calling her. At this point I'm fucked. She starts explaining, complaining etc
Then the ex calls and she starts raining insults and curses... telling him her dad will find him.
After all that things calmed a bit, we start vibing. 30 mins in her elder sis calls again then she says "im so so sorry i have to go"
To say I was pissed is an understatement. I didn't even know how to react or what to say. I just went quiet and walked her downstairs. She asked if I was angry cuz I was quiet. And kept apologizing but I didn't say anything and just fluff talked with her as we walked out.
THE FOLLOW UP 2.0
Usually, I tell their girl to text me when they get home. But with her I didn't cuz I was pissed. Probably wrong on my part.
But in the morning I was calmer after talking to @Dreamer in the chat and him encouraging me to check in with her again.
Next day, I send the following text happens;
Me: Hey I forgot to tell you to text me when you got home last night
Her: Of course you did when you were so pissed
Me: Well I won't say pissed tho
Then we continue to vibe via text. In our previous convo on the date she asked if I had smoked and I said yes.
So she texts me if I have any... I said I could get some. Prior to this, she was slow in her replies and I felt the vibe was off but I maintained my cool...
Until I asked where she would be smoking it and she said "hospital" Bruh I was like wtf why didn't she say my place like we originally talked about before the ex thing
So we traded a few text back and forth then I sent a text telling her I didn't want us to continue chatting. That the vibe from her felt off after her ex thing. And she's probably not in the right state of mind. That I understand that but I would like us to part ways on a friendly note.
I got this idea from @Chase article on putting the ball in her court text and ending things cordial. I know this is not the kind of situation he pictured but I didn't have any options
She responded with "what do you mean by the vibe is off" I tell her after that night she's been acting off with her vibe and all
She then sends a vn and tells me: "I don't feel the vibe is off. At least not from my end. If you don't want to stop talking to me it's fine but you'll know it's you that wants to stop talking to me."
She sends another one and says "If it's because I haven't been replying your text fast it's cuz of my sister and I'm doing things for her at the hospital"
I then send her a vn telling her that it's not cause of the slow texts but she wanting to smoke in a hospital rather than a hotel room. Like who does that lol
She replies "Ohhh for real? I just said that because I didn't want to stress you cuz you might be busy"
I ask her if she's still down to smoke, she says yes so I invite her over
ESCALATION AND CLOSE
The escalation was pretty straight book. As soon as she arrived, i held and hugged her then gave her a peck on the cheeks.
As we got in the room, we lit up.. took like three puffs then told her to blow it in my mouth and we started kissing from there
Then the rest is history
MY TAKEAWAYS
- Having a chill, laid back vibe especially early on is key. She had plans to stay celibate at the hospital but was low key looking to fulfill a fantasy of fucking someone at a hospital
I was her first since she came. She's really attractive. Like an 8. And having this vibe was very key to making it happen. She was like "You're naughty but not a pervert. Everybody I meet just wants to fuck me but i dont how you did it"
- Sexual frames are EXTREMELY important. With @Teevster collection I wasn't lacking in that aspect. So much so that she mentioned me being her sexual fantasy come true. And describing me like someone from a movie or novel
She let me into her world. Find out she's bi. And we ended up having a threesome with a FB of mine that's bicurious yesterday
- Persistence is usually a blessing in disguise
STICKING POINTS
- I have to learn how to handle wild cards better. In retrospect, the walkaway text could have easily back fired. And I could have been seen as needy
Also, I'd appreciate any feedback or insights you might have
