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Will my results with the kind of women I get change based on location?

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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I know I have posted about my race many times before. I am a Korean male who was born and raised in America, tall for my race and reasonably good looking. Now I grew up in Louisiana and go to college in the same region. What I have found is that I do amazing with hot girls who are from minority groups but when it comes to hot white girls I have no luck. Now personally outside of a few rare cases I have never seen hot white girls date interracial and in all those rare cases the guy was Black.

Now I have a thing for White girls but I have noticed that most just don't date interracial in the region of the country I am in. Studies on online dating and such have proven that White women exclusively prefer White men in most cases. But then I read an article on Girlschase about an Asian guy that said his race had never been an issue and it kinda inspired me.

I have never been to California, New York, or a city like Chicago. My exposure to the world stops in the dixie and what I have noticed here is that most White girls are just not responsive to me at all while attractive girls that aren't White are very responsive and open.

It has been frustrating for me because most of the girls I see are White but none of the attractive ones are really open to going interracial. I have approached some sorority girls, girls found at parties, girls in bars, bookstores, etc. Have had success with my fellow asian girls and girls from other minority groups that look good but just not much success with White girls that are above average looking.

Could this potentially change if I move to another region? I find it confusing that girls who are from minority groups that are attractive love me but White girls hate me.
 
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I see where you're coming from mate, even though people can't tell me where I'm from as I do not fit the stereotypes of my country I still used to feel a bit hesitant to talk about my homeland when the ever-popular question "Where are you from?" came up. This is because I didn't want to be associated with the negative cultural stigma and all the stereotypes associated from my possible answer(which was all in my mind), but you know what? It's mostly a self-fulfilling prophecy, if you make[race/ethnicity/age/etc.] it seem like a big deal then this will show in your body language, voice and prevent you from projecting yourself as a sexy confident man. I think we're extremely lucky to be living in this day and age where even a middle class family can travel around the world and almost everyone else is exposed to different cultures by tv, film and the internet. Moving to another region because of ". . . White girls hate me" is not a very healthy thought process imho. Sure travelling is fun and something rewarding to do but I'm confident you can find a hundred more positive and reasonable reasons to travel.

I suggest you take this as a challenge which you must strive to overcome. Now, imagine if you traveled to one of those big international cities and discovered that yes, girls 'seem' more approachable at first, but there is much more competition between all the other men have the same chances as you do, are you then going to travel outside the US? I can go on and on with these, e.g. local girls supposedly "do not date expatriates" or "you must know the local language".

This is one my favorites, take a look at it every time you feel yourself becoming bitter about women: https://www.girlschase.com/content/most-important-thing-becoming-lover-women-dont-be-bitter

Good luck, and remember, girls are silly and cute!
 
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