"Will you call me tomorrow if we have sex ?"

[johnydones]

Hey guys , this is the line that few girls gave me recently when they are on edge, asking themselves "should we have sex now or wait" . One girl said , "if we have sex now you will never call me, just like other girls" , the other one said "will you call me tomorrow if we have sex now?"

I know that LMR is something that you battle from the beginning, i see that now, but this line looks very common and i think i will hear it in future again, so i decided to ask for your opinion on this.

How would you answer this question , and how would you convey that you will call her after you had sex (if you want more than ONS)

P.S.
Something that my friend suggested , answer like this:
"of course i will call you ,i am not a big fan of one night stands , i would prefer it to be 10 night stand instead and after that we will know if we like each other for something more"
What do you think?

-JD

 

[Flames]

Replies.

"How about I call you now and have sex tomorrow?
"Depends how good you are"
"Why, do you want sex tomorrow as well?"
"No, but you can call me if you like"

Whatever it is make it short and sweet, she wants more comfort not an actual logical answer and you have to be wary of not spoiling the moment as it were. Plus it all depends wether you actually want to call her tomorrow too and the actual relationship your trying to setup.

There is no one good answer for LMR.

 

[Michelangelo]

I agree with flames. You want to give a short reply that gives some comfort without getting phased by the question and committing to anything.

This may seem counter-intuitive, but I think it's actually a good thing you have her wondering if you will be calling her back or sticking around. It's a funny thing, but scarcity and doubt actually build the flames of desire! If you comfort her that you will be around for a while, she may start to relax and slow down, considering you for a long term relationship and thus hurting your chances of actually getting together in the first place!

That being said, it's a good thing she's thinking that, but the fact that she said it was a way to test you. She's testing you to see if you're congruent with being a sexy man that gets what he wants. Women almost always test men by trying to make them commit to a relationship before sex. But, the time to reassure her that you will stick around is after sex and not before. Think of it this way, what if you asked her that question before you had sex? It sounds needy and unattractive!

Work on your sexy vibe and women will not try to test you out of fear of losing that sexy man! Like you said, its always best to fight LMR from the beginning so you don't encounter it in the first place. But if you still get that question, just give her a quizical look, then a quick sexy smile and then continue escalating!

Good luck!
Michelangelo