Socializing wingman expiration dates

[Swati]

Thanks, @Teevster for the Wingman series. The series is pretty good for dynamics. NOW.... I come to think some of these dudes reject the wing relationship because they can't keep up.

Almost hitting the 4-year mark of being in the game, having met with so many infields. There are good dudes left, I don't know how long those guys will last for me, being that they aren't close in proximity, right now.

Feel like in any field, where there are sharks, that want you to not succeed, there's also the lower-positioned dude trying to pull you down.

This year MAN!!! It has been eye-opening, having wings behave weirdly as fuck, falling out, back to back to back. I think ALL started to grow jealous, then started be a total faggit. I'd probably have stricter rules about winging with people from now on. I understand some of the top-level dudes avoid people generally unless vetted over a long period.

As for my wings...I'd sometimes tease them or flat-out tell them what they are doing wrong. Some of their egos get involved, raise their defense mechanism, or start seething and shit.

"OH that's just what I prefer"
A weak move to not acknowledge their shortcomings.

Out of the blue time, after a fielding, pulling no girls
My wing:
"JUST TO LET YOU KNOW DUDE, YOU SAID PEOPLE WHO TAKE NUMBERS ARE LOSERS"

There is a 1-3% I would say that, if I was drunk, btw I didn't drink during that period when we were winging, then when I asked him when I said

I calmly replied: "I don't remember, when did I say that?"
(in an annoyed tone)
wing: "I don't know man, you just said it today or yesterday in the morning"

Me:
"but we only talked close to the time when I was about to leave for the field"

It was quite an interesting case, cause he started trying to gaslight me and in other areas be super passive-aggressive, very aggressively saying not to make too much noise typing on the computer, when there isn't noise, etc. Not looking to debrief after fielding, avoiding conversations, being very short in responses when having to talk.

When we departed, I guess said my "goodbye", honestly, no plans of seeing the idiot again. The energy is definitely off.

Just an FYI, my wing, didn't pull for like 2 whole months, fucking up interactions one after another, whereas I close 6x, only 1x he was involved and his girl got drunk because of his stupid drink-buying habits, the girl ended up wasted.

The Gap Before the Finish Line & the Warrior’s Smile

Blistering snow whips at your face. Your skin slowly cracks and numbs by the moment. And with every step, your body begs you to slow down and rest for just a moment… But if you stop, you die. Your tribe was just exterminated in a raid and you’re the only one who escaped. All that remains is you...

www.girlschase.com

Good article to refer to.

Met some OGs this year, "OG", and had a good time seeing these legends just a new period for me, along with these references. Hope you guys find it helpful. GC 2024

 

[isildur1]

managing individuals is difficult - people are different and every situation is different- i also believe post covid people appear more tense and under pressure - i definitely felt more conflict or a weaker aura with wings post covid

and yeah good dudes are more prone to leaving as they're usually getting more women therefore have a higher probability of ending up in an LTR or Marriage - i definitely treasure the high quality wings i had in the past i owe them a lot for how they enhanced my seduction skills.

But i wouldnt be so harsh on them - daygame is tough - its mentally exhausting for the majority of men , i've seen male models quit , people who got good dates just then also quitting, few survive long term - and only a handful of men even make it to 1 lay out of it. So i understand ontop of all the pressures post covid that face many men that a lot of them will turn weird- its also a much more competitive and overstimulating dating world now than what it was back when "Sarging" started in the early 2010s.