Won't stop hitting me up

[Marcellus]

Guysss,

I talked to this chick at the gym for about a minute, A MINUTE. Got the number and now she won't stop texting and snapchatting me all the time, she's always trying to talk to me and Bitch I Don't Fuck With You. I've gradually stopped responding to most of her texts, and she's not as cute as I first thought she was when I saw her again just before( I have no idea what I was thinking). This shit is awkward and I'll probably have to pass by her at the gym or whatever since she's usually in when I'm in.

I'm not sure which route to take, I want to tell her to stop texting me all the time since I'm not interested anymore, But that is too cold and I don't wanna hurt anybody's feelings. Maybe I should just stop responding?

What would you guys do in this situation?
Marcellus

 

[DonAngelo]

It's easier to tell her to stop texting you and being honest than having to deal with this kind of woman. Something similar happened to me: approach a girl at first i saw hot, then i changed my mind when she was wearing shorts and top. The girl was so into me she sent the gym trainers to try to convince me to take her out. I told them not to keep trying and i told her i'm not really in the mood for datinG her. She just stopped. Remember the gym is a social venue, if you do something that will hurt your next moves just try to stay low, if she makes too much noise just cool her down.

Look, it's not being cold it's just that the "anyone's feelings" is so wrong.
When women feel insecured or change their mind on any man they don't hesitate and just next you.
If you care it's ok but you are the one who you should be taking into consideration: Don't open her texts, don't respond calls, don't open snaps, just be polite to greet but that's it.

Don't worry it happens, just don't drown in a glass of water (just if it has protein in it) >

 

[.....]

I guess, that's what chase meant when he says :

GET GIRLS TO CHASE YOU.

Lol.

 

[Franco]

Marcellus,

When this happens to me, I just slowly start withdrawing my texting to the girl to a very low amount -- if she keeps going even after that, I just stop texting altogether. The girl will eventually get the hint, but how long it takes depends on her personality and her level of attraction for you.

This method is safe because a girl like this won't usually "auto-reject" and be a bitch to you if she happens to see you later or if you happen to run into her. If anything, she might even get a little excited and attempt to text you again (which you may or may not like).

If you really just want nothing to do with her, then letting her know you aren't interested in talking to her is the way to do it. However, keep in mind that this will likely send her directly into auto-rejection, and she will probably treat you very coldly from there on out if she ever runs into you. When you tell a girl this directly, you are cutting to the core of who she is and telling her she's not good enough for you, so she'll do anything to protect her reputation at that point. This is obviously not a problem if it's a girl you don't really plan on seeing very often (or at all).

Anyway, those are your two options. Choose the one that best fits your end goals with this girl. =)

- Franco