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Words of encourgement for a shitty day

josephjo

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space monkey
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Apr 4, 2013
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I've been doing pretty well recently. I've been doing pickup only for a few months and I am making so much progress. God I was on a date just on Saturday with a cutie. I have a girl that I sleep with consistently and for the last two weeks I've been on over 7 dates. I am peaking in my pick up career so far and today it just crashed horribly. For the girls that I could actually stop today, either they had boyfriends or weren't interested. I am talking over 10 approaches with no results. After another fresh rejection my wingman told me that if I continued today, it wouldn't be healthy since I was taking the rejections personally. So after arguing a bit, I listened to his advice and now I am home, "taking it easy".
So I feel like shit, like something is wrong with me and that the rejections were justified. I know this mindset is bullshit but I can't help but feel this way. Any other guys go through this, going through this? Any advice on how to get past it and get even better?
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

mkivtt

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space monkey
Joined
Jul 29, 2013
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It's OK to feel like shit. I know I do. I wonder "what's wrong with me? why can't I get a girl?" and see all these dorks with OK to hot women knowing that I am a better guy, but am somehow unable to pull them in, or I am indifferent, don't try enough, waste my time with trivial activities just so I don't have to face the truth.

The only cure is either time, or success. So you sulk for a few days / weeks / months, and eventually you'll have renewed energy to go out and try, or you suck it up and land a few numbers and realize it's just a lottery where you have to put in 10/20/30 tries for success... Good luck.
 
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