Would making an instagram where I post my grind and achievments aid my dating life?

[Professor Oak]

Recently I read an article "What Do Girls Look for? They Look for This (Part I)". It says that women want the most valuable man they can get their hands on and therefore you should be aiming to be a high value man.

It made me wonder if there is an advantage in making an instagram account then it comes to seduction.

So it got me thinking: Would an instagram account where I post myself grinding and my achievments as I acquire them (like posts of me working out and the progress of my physique for example) contribute to women in my life seeing more value in me than if I would be doing the same things and not posting it on Instagram?

Also women in my life which have seen the account could show it to their girl friends which may motivate them to seek me out and that would result in more lays with girls that I like.

There may be other advantages that I'm not aware of.

So would making an instagram where I post my grind and achievments have a positive effect on my dating life?

 

[ulrich]

No

 

[ulrich]

Thousands and thousands of guys are already doing that.
You would only end up wasting a lot of time creating something that gives you no competitive edge.

Also, women value the accomplished man over the “work in progress”.
If going the Instagram route, you will be more successful showing your developed physique and your lavish vacations than the process you went through to get them.

 

[Professor Oak]

Thousands and thousands of guys are already doing that.
You would only end up wasting a lot of time creating something that gives you no competitive edge.

Also, women value the accomplished man over the “work in progress”.
If going the Instagram route, you will be more successful showing your developed physique and your lavish vacations than the process you went through to get them.

Thank you for the reply That was lightning fast.

I have some questions:
1) So seeing that a man is hardworking doesn't increase a man's value in eyes of a woman? If so, then why?

2) How does the fact that I had a lavish vacation increase a man's value in female mind?

 

[ulrich]

1) So seeing that a man is hardworking doesn't increase a man's value in eyes of a woman? If so, then why?

It actually does increase your value slightly but “the process” is really eclipsed when compared against “the result”. It’s the law of least effort.

Also, say you got an OK body with an Instagram profile that shows how you work out, that’s cool.
But on Instagram, your profile is one click away from thousands of other guys who already have superb physiques, most of which also work out.

So technically, on Instagram, you all have the same attainability but your value is lower.
It’s kind of a waste of time.

Think about it, do you ever see a chubby girl on Insta working out and you think, “Mmmhh, I certainly like this one better than the other already sexy women I am already following”?

Now, outside of Instagram, it could be that you are the most successful / most handsome guy she can realistically get because you have access to her via social circle or cold approach so you are the best realistic option (those muscular guys on Insta can’t compete)… but, if that’s the case… then, why do you even need a profile for?

2) How does the fact that I had a lavish vacation increase a man's value in female mind?

You would be slotted in the “already successful men” group in her mind instead in the “work in progress men” group.

 

[Professor Oak]

It actually does increase your value slightly but “the process” is really eclipsed when compared against “the result”. It’s the law of least effort.

Could it work if I only post my achievments instead then?
Also the account could bring me more women into my life as a result of women that are already in my life showing it to their friends.

Think about it, do you ever see a chubby girl on Insta working out and you think, “Mmmhh, I certainly like this one better than the other already sexy women I am already following”?

I don't understand what you are trying to say here.

You would be slotted in the “already successful men” group in her mind instead in the “work in progress men” group.

So does that mean that in female mind having a lavish vacation= successful=high value man= wants to have a romantic relationship

 

[ulrich]

You could do it, but it is unlikely the effort will be worth for the results you will get.

 

[Fuck This]

Only if you post you doing something women would want to do with you. You will be doing it right when you get women in your social circle messaging you saying "oh I'd Love to go sailing/ wakeboarding/atving/motorcycle riding/ etc.do you go often?"

This is the Core of Boat Guy Game...

 

[POB]

What men value and respect: grind.

What women find attractive: acomplishment.

Mostly like:
"Attractive men have something in the corner of their eyes that they are always pursuing. And it's not me. But I need to see at least some of it's results, it cannot be just an idea."