Would you ever go to an unpullable date?

[Ree]

99percent of my gals come from colleges.....when dating such things i often get dates that r unpullable....like tmrw i have one....the gal wants us to meet during her lunchbreak,then she goes back to class.....is it worth it..?...to go on a first date tht i cant pull from...most of .my experiences where i couldnt pull at date 1,gal went cold on me.....daygame cold approachers.(i think the rules for social circle and nighgame r different here)....wud u ever go on a date that u cant pull from?

 

[Troy]

Ree,


Well if you have seen the majority of my field reports you might realize I go on 99% dates without getting the opportunity to get laid ( awful logistics no matter what I do ) until I rent somewhere or buy.

I'd suggest you go on these sexless dates. It will give you experience and even better if it doesn't get you even a kiss, these girls could be life long friends...accept the friend zone if you won't get obsessed about her in the future ( if not then cut contact).

For me, Ive grown tired of dating girls if I won't get laid ( more often)... But I won't comment there. That's my feelings and my decision. I really advice you to do go on go no where dates if you won't feel pathetic. What I did when new to going on dates was setting goals on each date. What could I improve. My conversation, humor, eye contact, etc... You must always have goals or else you will wonder if it is worth it going on such dates. Set goals for every date. First goal I'd tell you to aim for is have fun for YOU. That's fundamentally important if you want want to get anywhere with any girl .

Finally I'd suggest you get a social job / business. Find a network marketing company and get business " dates " from it. You can earn money while still spending time with great men and fabulous women.

Best

Troy

 

[Ree]

Good advice....il just go....but let me narrow the question
A gal might be free for a date,but i cant pull because she has to be somewhere after the date..in such a scenario...there is an option of waiting for a day shes really free....in other words...is there any harm in going to an upullable date,?

 

[HellAtlantic]

Thing is - you're not going on a date. You're basically meeting her for lunch or during her break. She's probably not that interested which is why it's going to be during this time. This way she has the excuse to leave at a specific time. If I were you I'd test her to see how invested she is: ask to reschedule and this time do it during a time when you can spend more time with her without her having to go somewhere. If she refuses she's not interested in you and just cut bait. There's so many girls out there with more interest in making real time for you that there's really no need to waste time with the possibly uninterested ones.

 

[Lawliet]

Informational date this is called.
Worth checking out, get to know each other.

Lawliet