Would you teach your son game?

[Anonymous]

Hello Everyone,

I'm 26 years years old with no kids yet, but something popped into my mind yesterday. Would you teach your son all of the things you have learned about as far as women and seduction goes, and if so at what age? Not looking to have kids yet but it's a question that struck me.

 

[ray_zorse]

Absolutely man, my eldest son is 7 (8 in January) and actually, ATM he does not really need to learn game cos he's a bit of a natural (quite popular and adds value to his classmates' lives by helping them, caring for them, solving social problems etc) but I have explained some of the ideas and started working on his posture. My middle son is 6 (7 in February) and will benefit a lot from game as socialization does not come as naturally to him, although it's a bit early to tell as he has made huge strides this year. However he hasn't really got the idea of goal-directed behaviour yet, so I think I will do best by teaching him other stuff like bike or skateboard riding for the time being, till he starts to get the idea of practicing and developing skills. My youngest is a cheeky little bugger and will probably be a real ladykiller haha, he is great at lego (regularly builds models for kids twice his age independently) but otherwise falls back on manipulation to get what he wants, rather than goal-directed behaviour, so although it's too early to tell I hope he uses his talents for good rather than just being a total playboy haha.
Ray

 

[Lover]

Been thinking about this recently. I can't imagine me teaching my son seduction directly such as conversational or pulling techniques, but if he ever had questions about girls I would love to explain him the events that happened from the girl's view of point

Another thing I would love to teach my son which in some way or another is related to seduction, is that hard work pays off. You get what you work for. Instead of complaining about how nothing goes your way, take action to master certain skills. You want good grades? Become world champion? Be a master seducer? Work your ass off to get or become what you want

 

[Rage]

how could you not man? especially if you go far with this stuff, i would feel almost obligated to at least introduce it to him or be open about it.

Sexual dynamics, and the reality of men and women and the dating game and all this is something that is invaluable to learn, very few people do know of it, and you'd want your kids to know it i think son and daughter alike.

Same as if you're really wealthy you'd teach our kids how to better take care of their money, something like that.

-Rage

 

[Bboy100]

I'm only 21, so wtf do I know about parenting. But the way I see it now is as such:

I don't believe my father has any game whatsoever (to this day I'm pretty stunned at how he even landed someone like my mother...cause socially speaking, she's way "out of his league" so to speak). In fact, in my eyes, he lacks some very basic social skills altogether. But if he could, I would be absolutely furious with him if he didn't offer to teach me this stuff. On a macro level, its kind of silly to me that there is no formal education on how to socialize. Cause our ability to do so is super crucial if we'd like to find any success/happiness in today's world whatsoever. Because of this, I believe it is the parent's responsibility to impart this knowledge on their children.

So to answer your question, absolutely yes. Maybe I wouldn't talk about "game" and "cold approach". But I think teaching a child about socializing in general and some of the mindsets that go with it would be very beneficial. And of course, if he's interested in the topic, I would then move on to teaching more specific things such as "seduction/interacting with women" as opposed to only how to socialize in general.

 

[Rage]

another thign that ive thought about more than teaching a future son game, is teaching a future daughter what an attractive but also stable, proper, loving, and masculine man should be.

As dad, essentially youd be setting the stage for what her future relationships look like as youd be the first model fo what a man should be like.

There's a seducer or two i know of who have daughters (and they are older guys), and thats the thought that kept coming to my mind is liek what a beuatiful and wonderful thing it would be to master women, so that you can model that unconsiously for your daughter, so that when she goes into the world of dating she finds guys with those qualities.

A dad thaat will treat ehr like she is beautiful and emphasize that in what he says and does for her, one who will listent o her like he listens to all women he seduces and look into her eyes and hear her concerns and actually hear about her day concerns worries thoughts dreams etc. ; its a difference how an attrative guy who has seduction knowledge experience with scores with women and hard fundamentals and consious and unconsious understanding of feminine psychology does that.. vs. how a loving soccer dad say would do that.

Just some thoughts of mine; agree 100% though with you bboy I'm 21 and a shithead, wtf do i knw about being a dad now?

Can only theorize; but do want to work to be the best dad i can be to my kids one day

Rage

 

[lux7]

another thign that ive thought about more than teaching a future son game, is teaching a future daughter what an attractive but also stable, proper, loving, and masculine man should be.

Yeah, that's the more poignant question for me as well.

Daughter more than kids.
Yet I'm not sure many in here -me included- would be good there, both because of the different perspective and because many of us see seduction as a way of getting the next girl -and the scoreboard as the ultimate arbiter-

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Also many guys in here probably would want their sons to be exactly like them: driven, goal oriented, ploughing hours and hours into self improvement etc.
Many would ravel in seeing their some becoming great playboys, maybe surpassing them as well under their skillful tutoring.

That's dangerous mentality though: the chances our sons will be exactly like us are slim.

And the ultimate goal of everyone should be to be happy without hurting anyone -or even better, while helping others- so watch out you don't start projecting your own goals and dreams (and frustration) on another human being.