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i dont know maybe i should quit talking about specific things, honestly,
cause its just shit that works for me & i have no idea if it will even help anyone else. I dont know how to put it in that form. SOrry!
cause its just shit that works for me & i have no idea if it will even help anyone else. I dont know how to put it in that form. SOrry!
that's ok no problem at all !
i'm pretty new to all this and being for a conservative culture, kino is one of my sticking points - i have never really touched a girl that way and for now, in the back of my head i always fear if a girl would accuse me for sexual harrassment and tarnish my reputation if i try to touch her through kino
This is probably what i would call " newbie fears " or " newbie jitters "
i haven't gamed yet - so i can't really speak even for myself right now
soon as we have permission to go out as we please - i'll try to do daygame + nightgame , preferrably with a wing
P.S : one more thing - i'm not averse to touch but i do have one bad memory about it. In grade 8 and this was a good 12 + years ago .. i tried to get a girl's attention, who was sitting in the row in front of me , by tapping her shoulder. After our conversation ended and she turned around .. i saw her ' dusting off ' her shoulder , the one which i tapped , as if there had been some filth on it . This really badly hurt me and gave me the impression that me touching that girl felt disgusting to her .. which is why i often subconsciously maintain my physical distance from girls , out of fear of being considered disgusting or filthy by girls .. obviously this is utter bullshit , but it's something that hit me when i was a kid and this can show you where i'm coming from ..
