This is like three short interactions in one along with what I'm gonna work on at the end enjoy!
Walking to the customer service desk, I spot this blonde in leggings with glasses with her long hair In a pony tail I FUCKING LOVE GLASSES I say fuck customer service I wanna talk to her instead. I say hey want any help and I close the distance about 2 to 3 feet I think but I'm more to the side than head on, I can smell her and Damn it's amazing. She looks at me with bambi eyes and says yes then I proceed to show her the stuff bantering with her along the way. At the end of the interaction I think I said hey I know this is random but you cute I'm Raqimus she says her name which I immediately forget. During this she's blushing and looks down and I know she likes me I ask if she's single and I decide to wave her away as soon as I hear that and i say sucks well nice to meet you and then she leaves. I could of persisted but I decided against it because I've persisted before at work and have had mixed results but in the setting I don't think it's a good idea.
Next was this really hot blonde girl in leggings and a jacket nice little round ass and tasty thighs. I notice her a I'm goin to customer service but I was busy so I leave it alone, then I'm covering a register and she's walking down the wood towards me and I ask if she's checking out she says no not yet but thank you with a genuine smile but from her tonality I felt like she wanted me. Anyway she later comes back and is checking stuff out at a Column while I'm ring in another chick out, I see ioi's hair flipping , positioning. She steps up and I go through the process she's a little aloof so I scale back a bit and while I'm not looking she's doing alot the hair flips and shit.when we finally do make eye contact she breaks down after like 3 to 4 seconds. I know she's attracted and I'm not nervous to try to bag but my brain just says no. I come from a place of not getting women in my life but attracting them and my mindset towards hot girls is to immediately dismiss them I guess it goes back to high school. Anyway I check her out then as she's leaving I immediately start to think I'm Fucking silly so I go clock out for break and rush to grab my shit so I can catch her on the street and I don't find her.
Next ones on thte street trying to find previous girl I'm walking past the center and this chick pops out I glance out the side of my eyes and see her looking so I look away then I look back with the same eye contact and we hold it for like 7 seconds and I look away and smile. I'm ahead of her and I keep my pace as I'm approaching the stairs this other chick walking towards me but from below on me right is looking at me I think she's cute kinda, we lock eyes for a few Then she submits and looks down and touches her chest I don't approach. I go down some stairs and im close to the street I use my peripherals and see the hair flip so I wait a sec then just say hi. She says hi back with a big smile then I fuck up. I glanced away to make sure I don't walk into anyone and when I look back I say I just thought you were cute and I realize she has both her headphones in so I shrug my shoulders and say fuck it and cross the street. She rushes to cross at the cross walk cause light was gonna change and we end up standing next to each other on the island and I reopen. With a smile playful tone and a bit of a lean forward I say. I said I thought you were cute she's all smiles again and again I glance to see if I can cross and headphones are back in... She's in a rush cause she kinda bolted across the street and I walked briskly but definitely slower and I still managed to beat her into shaws. I win bitch! >
Takeaways from these interactions would be that I need to stop doubting my skills and myself when it comes to talking to hotter women not like makeup wise just beautiful girls that know it. Then there's persisting which I didn't do because of the setting, over coming the whole boyfriend thing. Maintaining a sexual vibe or at least transitioning into one. I think I come off to friendly or platonic. But I've been told by girls they always think I'm being flirty even if I'm just talking to them without trying to flirt because I'm not interested. Gonna work on my verbal skills too along with some non verbals. Thanks for reading.
Walking to the customer service desk, I spot this blonde in leggings with glasses with her long hair In a pony tail I FUCKING LOVE GLASSES I say fuck customer service I wanna talk to her instead. I say hey want any help and I close the distance about 2 to 3 feet I think but I'm more to the side than head on, I can smell her and Damn it's amazing. She looks at me with bambi eyes and says yes then I proceed to show her the stuff bantering with her along the way. At the end of the interaction I think I said hey I know this is random but you cute I'm Raqimus she says her name which I immediately forget. During this she's blushing and looks down and I know she likes me I ask if she's single and I decide to wave her away as soon as I hear that and i say sucks well nice to meet you and then she leaves. I could of persisted but I decided against it because I've persisted before at work and have had mixed results but in the setting I don't think it's a good idea.
Next was this really hot blonde girl in leggings and a jacket nice little round ass and tasty thighs. I notice her a I'm goin to customer service but I was busy so I leave it alone, then I'm covering a register and she's walking down the wood towards me and I ask if she's checking out she says no not yet but thank you with a genuine smile but from her tonality I felt like she wanted me. Anyway she later comes back and is checking stuff out at a Column while I'm ring in another chick out, I see ioi's hair flipping , positioning. She steps up and I go through the process she's a little aloof so I scale back a bit and while I'm not looking she's doing alot the hair flips and shit.when we finally do make eye contact she breaks down after like 3 to 4 seconds. I know she's attracted and I'm not nervous to try to bag but my brain just says no. I come from a place of not getting women in my life but attracting them and my mindset towards hot girls is to immediately dismiss them I guess it goes back to high school. Anyway I check her out then as she's leaving I immediately start to think I'm Fucking silly so I go clock out for break and rush to grab my shit so I can catch her on the street and I don't find her.
Next ones on thte street trying to find previous girl I'm walking past the center and this chick pops out I glance out the side of my eyes and see her looking so I look away then I look back with the same eye contact and we hold it for like 7 seconds and I look away and smile. I'm ahead of her and I keep my pace as I'm approaching the stairs this other chick walking towards me but from below on me right is looking at me I think she's cute kinda, we lock eyes for a few Then she submits and looks down and touches her chest I don't approach. I go down some stairs and im close to the street I use my peripherals and see the hair flip so I wait a sec then just say hi. She says hi back with a big smile then I fuck up. I glanced away to make sure I don't walk into anyone and when I look back I say I just thought you were cute and I realize she has both her headphones in so I shrug my shoulders and say fuck it and cross the street. She rushes to cross at the cross walk cause light was gonna change and we end up standing next to each other on the island and I reopen. With a smile playful tone and a bit of a lean forward I say. I said I thought you were cute she's all smiles again and again I glance to see if I can cross and headphones are back in... She's in a rush cause she kinda bolted across the street and I walked briskly but definitely slower and I still managed to beat her into shaws. I win bitch! >
Takeaways from these interactions would be that I need to stop doubting my skills and myself when it comes to talking to hotter women not like makeup wise just beautiful girls that know it. Then there's persisting which I didn't do because of the setting, over coming the whole boyfriend thing. Maintaining a sexual vibe or at least transitioning into one. I think I come off to friendly or platonic. But I've been told by girls they always think I'm being flirty even if I'm just talking to them without trying to flirt because I'm not interested. Gonna work on my verbal skills too along with some non verbals. Thanks for reading.
