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I see way too many guys around here, particularly the newer guys who will regurgitate something Chase or some other author wrote and religiously follow it like he's some sort of a cult leader or something. Guys...believe it or not, Chase is probably wrong about some things. He's not a deity of seduction. He's not omnipotent. He doesn't have all the answers.
In fact, my experience suggests that he might be wrong about quite a few things. Moreover, even if the concept you're applying is generally correct, the specifics and context of your situation matters. So don't take what he writes to be a hard rule. EVER. There are always exceptions. Everything you read here or anywhere else are guidelines at best.
So the bottom line is...you need to trust your own experiences above all else. See: https://www.girlschase.com/content/real-empiricists-test (I know, it's ironic and even humerous that I'm telling you Chase might be wrong, but also linking an article of his to support this claim. Just roll with it!)
Stop assuming that just because Chase or another author wrote something, it's automatically true. Especially since most of what's written is anecdotal and is therefore subject to confirmation biaas and a variety of other factors which might influence the writer to assert something which is objectively wrong.
And I'm not saying Chase is wrong in all cases. In fact, he's usually right. Otherwise we wouldn't all be here. But seriously...if something seems to intuitively make no sense for your situation, or your personal experiences dictate that what he wrote is wrong. Take this into account.
Edit: If you're completely new to the game and have no experiences with women whatsoever like I was when I first started reading this stuff, then perhaps its best that you DO follow all his advice as closely as possible to begin with. This is only because so far, you have no experience at all to back up any claims you might have against his material. The only thing you could possibly have is an untested theory. Which is pretty useless in something like seduction, especially coming from someone who has no experience. But once you have any sort of experience which calls into question something Chase or someone else wrote, I highly recommend you follow the advice in this post.
In fact, my experience suggests that he might be wrong about quite a few things. Moreover, even if the concept you're applying is generally correct, the specifics and context of your situation matters. So don't take what he writes to be a hard rule. EVER. There are always exceptions. Everything you read here or anywhere else are guidelines at best.
So the bottom line is...you need to trust your own experiences above all else. See: https://www.girlschase.com/content/real-empiricists-test (I know, it's ironic and even humerous that I'm telling you Chase might be wrong, but also linking an article of his to support this claim. Just roll with it!)
Stop assuming that just because Chase or another author wrote something, it's automatically true. Especially since most of what's written is anecdotal and is therefore subject to confirmation biaas and a variety of other factors which might influence the writer to assert something which is objectively wrong.
And I'm not saying Chase is wrong in all cases. In fact, he's usually right. Otherwise we wouldn't all be here. But seriously...if something seems to intuitively make no sense for your situation, or your personal experiences dictate that what he wrote is wrong. Take this into account.
Edit: If you're completely new to the game and have no experiences with women whatsoever like I was when I first started reading this stuff, then perhaps its best that you DO follow all his advice as closely as possible to begin with. This is only because so far, you have no experience at all to back up any claims you might have against his material. The only thing you could possibly have is an untested theory. Which is pretty useless in something like seduction, especially coming from someone who has no experience. But once you have any sort of experience which calls into question something Chase or someone else wrote, I highly recommend you follow the advice in this post.
