Alright Gents, it's been a really busy week but I've finally had a chance to type this one up. It's my date from about a week ago and even though things went south, I learned a lot. Its the follow up to FR: Young and innocent. Let's get started.
I met this girl in a bar with her friends and took her number in about 10 minutes. She's a petite little brunette with slightly wavy long hair and a tight little body abs and all (as I would find out later). When I say petite, I mean this girl is 4.10 and can't be more then 90 lbs but she has nice perky tits and a nice face to boot. White girl. If we are using the scale I would say 8.
Anyways we meet at the venue I planned on a Sunday. It's a wine bar with a nice ambiance. This is the place I take all my dates and I run a tight gameplan that almost never differs. Set the time for 7PM so she couldn't use lateness as an excuse to leave. She arrives late but moderately on time which I rib her for later in the date. We hug, exchange pleasantries, and I tell her we are sitting at the bar. (ALWAYS try to sit next to your girl and not across from them if possible. It creates a closer and more sexual feel where you can easily escalate kino.)
We order wine and she's visibly very nervous. I can tell she's been anticipating this. She proceeds to start absolutely pelting me with deep diving questions, just relentless. I laugh it off and I understand she's doing this out of giddy excitement. She wants to know EVERYTHING. I've never been on a date with a girl this attractive and as a second, I've never seen a girl losing her cool so obviously. I was glad about this, however, my redirection of focus and baiting is still in the works, so I didn't last as long in her question pelting as I would have liked to and didn't maintain as much mystery and intrigue as I would have liked either from the assault. We talked about our lives and I eventually went on the offense and deep dived her back with some light teasing here and there. I struggle with coming off sexually enough right now in my interactions but excel at identifying escalation windows and moving fast. This was my saving grace.
I noticed thay after approximately 20 minutes of talking she was literally slamming her wine in huge gulps. This was a very obvious sign that us having a drink was just a distraction and she was in a hurry to get to the next part, and we all know what that part is
ANYWAYS I do order her one more drink just to get her more relaxed and she continues to take it down like she was in some kind of drinking contest. I finish my first glass of wine just as she's done with her 3rd about 40 minutes in. I cancel the bruchetta we ordered and tell her I'm actually not that hungry and ask if she's fine with going for a walk instead. She agrees that that would be fine.
I pay my tab in cash which is something of a tactic here as with cash it takes less time then them to wander around, run your card slow as hell and just take forever. With attraction having an expiration, you need to move fast and cash with help a little on that front. I actually took out cash just for the date and don't normally carry it just FOR THIS REASON. We were able to get out of there quickly and we start walking towards a very intimate location nearby I like to take all my girls to initiate a passinate first kiss. It literally works every time. NOWS HERE'S THE DOUBLE EDGED SWORD WITH THIS TACTIC. If you choose to kiss the girl before taking her home as long as that's the very next step, she will just about 99% of the time give 0 LMR about going home with you. Kissing a girl for the first time is one of the biggest most anticipated events in dating for a woman. She will literally melt and just do whatever you say after that. I use this to make asking her home seamless. ALTHOUGH because I used this powerful tool to ask her home, I DO NOT GET TO USE IT TO INITIATE SEX LATER. This is the biggest drawback and I'm wondering if I should be saving this silver bullet. However, getting a girl home with you can also be a daunting task with some LMR and resistance so I don't mind the tradeoff.
Back at the fountain, I pull her into me and we kiss. I did this by grabbing her and positioning her the way we danced the night we met, looking at her in the eyes with a cheeky smile, and shifting to a passionate kiss seamlessly. Cheesy I know but women eat that shit up.
Directly after that I tell her we should go back to my place for a nightcap and call it a night (thank you for that one Chase) and she agrees without hesitation, still giving me sexy bedroom eyes from just having our tongues down each others throats.
I grab her by the hand and lead her to my car. We drive back talking about music and we sing a few songs together just having fun and shit. My place is only ten minutes away. Once we get there, she asks to use the restroom right away. I noticed that women always use the restroom first when anticipating having sex in order to be better prepped for it. I make us a some drinks and we have grab a seat on my bed. Now, here's were things get interesting and I have to shed light on my current situation in order to paint a clear picture. As it stands, I do not own any funiture. My ex girlfriend had her own house with top of the line funishings and so when we went and decided to move in together, I just sold all of mine. Fuck my life. So here we are, no where to sit and so I just lead her directly to my room and sit on my bed. Now I refer to it as a bed, but it's actually just 6 inch thick floor mat with a few layers of blankets. It's Eastern, or so I tried to convince her. In order for her not to have second thoughts about getting fucked on the floor basically, I just walked over, sat down, and acted really natural like "it's no big deal" and patted the spot next to me to sit down. She hesitatantly sat down and we talked for a little bit.
Now just to give you guys a picture, here I am, trying to get some action on a floormat with no time distraction like a TV for me to work my magic, and no plausable deniability filter like "hey, this is just my couch. Not like we are going to fuck on it."
So I just go for the burst of passion. She's receptive, but as I pick up her tiny little hot body and lay her down, she says to me "I don't have sex on the first date" in sort of a shy way. I tell her we aren't having sex we are just going to make out. She's okay with this answer. I try to escalate, by pulling her shirt up about 5 minutes later and she pushes my hands away and smiles. This happens about 4 or 5 times and then I go in from the top and she's receptive. I start to caress her perky tits under her shirt and she moans. I then lift her up slightly and undo her bra strap with one hand. (Guys if you can learn how to do this girls get very turned on by it I've noticed because in her mind there's no way you can do this unless YOU'VE DONE IT BEFORE and if you've done it before you are sleeping with other women. Trust me she will always make these connections in her mind) I get her top and bra off and I start to suck on her tits. I try to use this to escalate into her pants. She's now very resistant and I realise I just made big fucking mistake. I got distracted by her lovelies and forgot to always go BOTTOMS FIRST. If I had not forgotten this, I could be fucking her like a ragdoll right now instead of sucking on her boobs and now getting increased resistance. We continue like this for another 20 minutes. I'm working every angle here and trying to get into her pants. She's resisting relentlessly. She says she has to go pee and I tell her to wait a minute. I try a couple more times with no avail and let her go. I knew that was the turning point. She comes back out with her shirt and bra back on, still smiling very big from what we were doing and just lays down on top of me. I knew at this point it would take a herculean effort to get past her resistance now and so after about 20 minutes of talking and looking into each others bedroom eyes, I offer to take her home. She smiling a lot and keeps telling me ahe wants to do this again sometime.
As I drive her back to her place, she keeps looking at me and smiling and saying she had a great time. It definately looks sincere, but I start to wonder why shes trying to convince me so much. I take her to her place and we exchange some nice words about the date. She says "Thank you for everything and she would really like to do this again sometime." At this point I'm skeptical and say " Really?" Immediately kicking myself in the foot for saying such a stupid thing. She says "Yeah" with a confused look like " Why don't you believe me?" I say that I do and I would like that in a sexy tone. We share one last kiss, I make it a good one because I'm pretty sure I'm never going to see this girl again due to backwards rationalization. And I was right. 4 days later I text her for a second date ... today marks the 8th day with no response. When a girl slips through your fingers when you've already went 99% of the way, it doesn't just sting, it's more like whirlwind punch in the groin. These are the FUs you WILL REMEMBER and these are the FUs that WILL BRAND the lessons you learned from them into your brain. Because these FUs, they hit your ego like a freight train when you realize you were 99% of the way just to have it get turned around and lose EVERYTHING.
And with that I conclude. I don't plan on messaging this girl again because I refuse to chase. But I sure won't forget to go BOTTOMS FIRST again, and neither should you. Until next time ~ Peak
I met this girl in a bar with her friends and took her number in about 10 minutes. She's a petite little brunette with slightly wavy long hair and a tight little body abs and all (as I would find out later). When I say petite, I mean this girl is 4.10 and can't be more then 90 lbs but she has nice perky tits and a nice face to boot. White girl. If we are using the scale I would say 8.
Anyways we meet at the venue I planned on a Sunday. It's a wine bar with a nice ambiance. This is the place I take all my dates and I run a tight gameplan that almost never differs. Set the time for 7PM so she couldn't use lateness as an excuse to leave. She arrives late but moderately on time which I rib her for later in the date. We hug, exchange pleasantries, and I tell her we are sitting at the bar. (ALWAYS try to sit next to your girl and not across from them if possible. It creates a closer and more sexual feel where you can easily escalate kino.)
We order wine and she's visibly very nervous. I can tell she's been anticipating this. She proceeds to start absolutely pelting me with deep diving questions, just relentless. I laugh it off and I understand she's doing this out of giddy excitement. She wants to know EVERYTHING. I've never been on a date with a girl this attractive and as a second, I've never seen a girl losing her cool so obviously. I was glad about this, however, my redirection of focus and baiting is still in the works, so I didn't last as long in her question pelting as I would have liked to and didn't maintain as much mystery and intrigue as I would have liked either from the assault. We talked about our lives and I eventually went on the offense and deep dived her back with some light teasing here and there. I struggle with coming off sexually enough right now in my interactions but excel at identifying escalation windows and moving fast. This was my saving grace.
I noticed thay after approximately 20 minutes of talking she was literally slamming her wine in huge gulps. This was a very obvious sign that us having a drink was just a distraction and she was in a hurry to get to the next part, and we all know what that part is
ANYWAYS I do order her one more drink just to get her more relaxed and she continues to take it down like she was in some kind of drinking contest. I finish my first glass of wine just as she's done with her 3rd about 40 minutes in. I cancel the bruchetta we ordered and tell her I'm actually not that hungry and ask if she's fine with going for a walk instead. She agrees that that would be fine.I pay my tab in cash which is something of a tactic here as with cash it takes less time then them to wander around, run your card slow as hell and just take forever. With attraction having an expiration, you need to move fast and cash with help a little on that front. I actually took out cash just for the date and don't normally carry it just FOR THIS REASON. We were able to get out of there quickly and we start walking towards a very intimate location nearby I like to take all my girls to initiate a passinate first kiss. It literally works every time. NOWS HERE'S THE DOUBLE EDGED SWORD WITH THIS TACTIC. If you choose to kiss the girl before taking her home as long as that's the very next step, she will just about 99% of the time give 0 LMR about going home with you. Kissing a girl for the first time is one of the biggest most anticipated events in dating for a woman. She will literally melt and just do whatever you say after that. I use this to make asking her home seamless. ALTHOUGH because I used this powerful tool to ask her home, I DO NOT GET TO USE IT TO INITIATE SEX LATER. This is the biggest drawback and I'm wondering if I should be saving this silver bullet. However, getting a girl home with you can also be a daunting task with some LMR and resistance so I don't mind the tradeoff.
Back at the fountain, I pull her into me and we kiss. I did this by grabbing her and positioning her the way we danced the night we met, looking at her in the eyes with a cheeky smile, and shifting to a passionate kiss seamlessly. Cheesy I know but women eat that shit up.
Directly after that I tell her we should go back to my place for a nightcap and call it a night (thank you for that one Chase) and she agrees without hesitation, still giving me sexy bedroom eyes from just having our tongues down each others throats.
I grab her by the hand and lead her to my car. We drive back talking about music and we sing a few songs together just having fun and shit. My place is only ten minutes away. Once we get there, she asks to use the restroom right away. I noticed that women always use the restroom first when anticipating having sex in order to be better prepped for it. I make us a some drinks and we have grab a seat on my bed. Now, here's were things get interesting and I have to shed light on my current situation in order to paint a clear picture. As it stands, I do not own any funiture. My ex girlfriend had her own house with top of the line funishings and so when we went and decided to move in together, I just sold all of mine. Fuck my life. So here we are, no where to sit and so I just lead her directly to my room and sit on my bed. Now I refer to it as a bed, but it's actually just 6 inch thick floor mat with a few layers of blankets. It's Eastern, or so I tried to convince her
. In order for her not to have second thoughts about getting fucked on the floor basically, I just walked over, sat down, and acted really natural like "it's no big deal" and patted the spot next to me to sit down. She hesitatantly sat down and we talked for a little bit.Now just to give you guys a picture, here I am, trying to get some action on a floormat with no time distraction like a TV for me to work my magic, and no plausable deniability filter like "hey, this is just my couch. Not like we are going to fuck on it."
So I just go for the burst of passion. She's receptive, but as I pick up her tiny little hot body and lay her down, she says to me "I don't have sex on the first date" in sort of a shy way. I tell her we aren't having sex we are just going to make out. She's okay with this answer. I try to escalate, by pulling her shirt up about 5 minutes later and she pushes my hands away and smiles. This happens about 4 or 5 times and then I go in from the top and she's receptive. I start to caress her perky tits under her shirt and she moans. I then lift her up slightly and undo her bra strap with one hand. (Guys if you can learn how to do this girls get very turned on by it I've noticed because in her mind there's no way you can do this unless YOU'VE DONE IT BEFORE and if you've done it before you are sleeping with other women. Trust me she will always make these connections in her mind) I get her top and bra off and I start to suck on her tits. I try to use this to escalate into her pants. She's now very resistant and I realise I just made big fucking mistake. I got distracted by her lovelies and forgot to always go BOTTOMS FIRST. If I had not forgotten this, I could be fucking her like a ragdoll right now instead of sucking on her boobs and now getting increased resistance. We continue like this for another 20 minutes. I'm working every angle here and trying to get into her pants. She's resisting relentlessly. She says she has to go pee and I tell her to wait a minute. I try a couple more times with no avail and let her go. I knew that was the turning point. She comes back out with her shirt and bra back on, still smiling very big from what we were doing and just lays down on top of me. I knew at this point it would take a herculean effort to get past her resistance now and so after about 20 minutes of talking and looking into each others bedroom eyes, I offer to take her home. She smiling a lot and keeps telling me ahe wants to do this again sometime.
As I drive her back to her place, she keeps looking at me and smiling and saying she had a great time. It definately looks sincere, but I start to wonder why shes trying to convince me so much. I take her to her place and we exchange some nice words about the date. She says "Thank you for everything and she would really like to do this again sometime." At this point I'm skeptical and say " Really?" Immediately kicking myself in the foot for saying such a stupid thing. She says "Yeah" with a confused look like " Why don't you believe me?" I say that I do and I would like that in a sexy tone. We share one last kiss, I make it a good one because I'm pretty sure I'm never going to see this girl again due to backwards rationalization. And I was right. 4 days later I text her for a second date ... today marks the 8th day with no response. When a girl slips through your fingers when you've already went 99% of the way, it doesn't just sting, it's more like whirlwind punch in the groin. These are the FUs you WILL REMEMBER and these are the FUs that WILL BRAND the lessons you learned from them into your brain. Because these FUs, they hit your ego like a freight train when you realize you were 99% of the way just to have it get turned around and lose EVERYTHING.
And with that I conclude. I don't plan on messaging this girl again because I refuse to chase. But I sure won't forget to go BOTTOMS FIRST again, and neither should you. Until next time ~ Peak
