Young guy gaming older women... how plausible?

[Mr.Rob]

I personally like and am more attracted to older women like 4 years plus, and I feel like I can decently attract older women (I went on a date with a cute 26 year old when I was 19). When in conversation age gets brought up, by her, they usually think I'm 22-26. I usually reveal my real age (because I don't want to lie to women, as age is a legitimate concern... or isn't it, either way I don't lie) and I feel like I lose a bit of attraction because of it. I tell them to guess and they keep guessing upwards in age and when I tell them I'm 20 I get the feel that they're disappointed. Is it realistic for a 20 year old to pick up age 25+ women and I should work on my sexual vibe/fundamentals more or is it somewhat of a lost cause. Any words of wisdom on the subject appreciated guys!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Mr.Rob,

Is it realistic for a 20 year old to pick up age 25+ women and I should work on my sexual vibe/fundamentals more or is it somewhat of a lost cause. Any words of wisdom on the subject appreciated guys!

You can. I dated a 28 year old when i was 22. I am 24, and i will have occasional interest from women older than me by 3 to 5 years more, this days. In fact, it's a lot more than younger girls. I think being reserved, laid back, calm, projecting a quiet demeanor tends to help me in getting interest from this group of women. Although i have to note that you must sincerely tell them that age is just a number (if you don't want to lie, or you in a social circle where you cannot lie).

because they go into auto-rejection fast.

Zac

 

[The Tool]

indeed you can. I'm 21 dating a 25 year old

 

[Richard]

18 dating a 22 year old

 

[hillshift]

You just gotta be confident - it will almost always play to your advantage if she is attracted to you, you are confident, and you can make light of your age somehow. I say go for what you are attracted to.