A super quick post on noticing how in my last seduction what was one of the brightest, clearest "wow" and "interest spike" moments from the woman was looking at a few pics of me being baptized and a couple pics of my father/family with me as a baby in it.
Of course, I'd have probably have had sex with her anyway -though, hey, who knows!-, but her grabbing and squeezing my hand in quick succession and going into a small frenzy was the clear sign of how a huge help the pics had been in giving further proof of me as a great sperm donor
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Indeed shortly before going for sex she'd excitedly blurt "do you wanna make Korean babies" (she's Korean).
I was just reaching for the condom in that moment lol, but of course don't ruin the moment saying you don't want babies
Your family
Helps a lot if your father was manly and/or handsome and your mom pretty. Helps a lot if you were a cute baby (curly dark blonde hair in my case was a big one).
The main point is it should be the image of a happy and united family with "strong" values.
When you can use
Of course don't go around showing those pics at random. And wait while you're both well connected before going for it: too early would be super weird.
In my case we were having food and wine on the desk and sometimes using the laptop to choose songs, translate words and look up random stuff so it was an extremely natural transition to move to Facebook to show and comment on some pics of yours and hers.
If you're in a similar situation, you can use it to make the mood even better.
When it works best
I have a feeling it will work the most if:
Other
You can also show pics of where you come from if it's an interesting area.
I come from a rural area, a house with garden and lots of flower. If you can show similar pics, it's a perfect occasion to start painting the possibility of you two having a great romantic time -and outdoor sex possibly- one day in some idyllic beautiful place away from the pollution and rat race of the town.
Just one more little thing you can add to your repertoire when the situation calls for it
Of course, I'd have probably have had sex with her anyway -though, hey, who knows!-, but her grabbing and squeezing my hand in quick succession and going into a small frenzy was the clear sign of how a huge help the pics had been in giving further proof of me as a great sperm donor
.Indeed shortly before going for sex she'd excitedly blurt "do you wanna make Korean babies" (she's Korean).
I was just reaching for the condom in that moment lol, but of course don't ruin the moment saying you don't want babies
Your family
Helps a lot if your father was manly and/or handsome and your mom pretty. Helps a lot if you were a cute baby (curly dark blonde hair in my case was a big one).
The main point is it should be the image of a happy and united family with "strong" values.
When you can use
Of course don't go around showing those pics at random. And wait while you're both well connected before going for it: too early would be super weird.
In my case we were having food and wine on the desk and sometimes using the laptop to choose songs, translate words and look up random stuff so it was an extremely natural transition to move to Facebook to show and comment on some pics of yours and hers.
If you're in a similar situation, you can use it to make the mood even better.
When it works best
I have a feeling it will work the most if:
She's coming from a broken family. (People from broken families appreciate and long for "happy" family the most)
She's in the "settling down age/mindset", though it can help with younger ones as well
She's already thinking of you as a potential (sexual) partner
She's still having a few little doubts about you (here she had a some qualms with the one time seduction danger, ie. me going soon and forgetting all about her)
Other
You can also show pics of where you come from if it's an interesting area.
I come from a rural area, a house with garden and lots of flower. If you can show similar pics, it's a perfect occasion to start painting the possibility of you two having a great romantic time -and outdoor sex possibly- one day in some idyllic beautiful place away from the pollution and rat race of the town.
Just one more little thing you can add to your repertoire when the situation calls for it
