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Im two weeks into college, had sex a few times. Hit up clubs, did homwork. All was well.
Second weekend of college im at a frat party, and I start talking to these two chicks with some random guy. It was a sloppy seduction, but I kept pushing to go back to my dorm hall and they all agreed.
Guy pairs off with his chick, and my chick says shes tired. I follow her upstairs (shes on the third floor) and tell her to give me a tour of her floor. She says im tired but I keep pushing and she agrees. We talk some bs and then I ask if shes seen my floor (4th).
She says no, and I tell she should come see it. Again the fucking "im tired" excuse.
We live with football players, and this big black dude is passing by and hears and says "no shes not tired". What a fucking bro!
She agrees and we go up to my floor, I give her a tour and suggest she see some of the cool posters in my room. Again the fucking "im tired" excuse.
I persist, but then I give up and say okay, walk her back to the elevator and say goodbye.
Im very pissed walking back to my room and two guys from my floor who were observing come to me as im entering my dorm and start talking shit.
What they said:
What the fuck was that?
You know Duke has a reputation for this?
Me: wtf are you talking about?
Them:
You tried to rape her
She looked freaked out
Me: buddy, i let her go, never once did I force her (i barely cupped her elbow)
Them:
WELL you were ABOUT TO!
Me: thats fucking bs! Good night!
Jealous white knights they didnt go out and get any. Fuck them.
I slammed my door shut and crashed my drunk ass to bed.
That was on a friday. Now flash forward to today (thursday, almost a full week later), I get an email from student services about a misconduct.
In summary, Im not allowed to be on her floor, or have any communication with her whatsoever. She has been informed of the same with you.
"you tried to make another student, XXXX XXXX, let you enter her room and then tried to force her to enter your room, both times without her consent."
I received this just before I was about to sleep, and i have an 830 tomorrow its 1am right now.
I am beyond livid, and I just need some advice on the next steps to take. I am already meeting with a school counselor tomorrow so I will try and keep a calm head and explain things thoroughly.
Thank you
Sincerely,
Eli
Second weekend of college im at a frat party, and I start talking to these two chicks with some random guy. It was a sloppy seduction, but I kept pushing to go back to my dorm hall and they all agreed.
Guy pairs off with his chick, and my chick says shes tired. I follow her upstairs (shes on the third floor) and tell her to give me a tour of her floor. She says im tired but I keep pushing and she agrees. We talk some bs and then I ask if shes seen my floor (4th).
She says no, and I tell she should come see it. Again the fucking "im tired" excuse.
We live with football players, and this big black dude is passing by and hears and says "no shes not tired". What a fucking bro!
She agrees and we go up to my floor, I give her a tour and suggest she see some of the cool posters in my room. Again the fucking "im tired" excuse.
I persist, but then I give up and say okay, walk her back to the elevator and say goodbye.
Im very pissed walking back to my room and two guys from my floor who were observing come to me as im entering my dorm and start talking shit.
What they said:
What the fuck was that?
You know Duke has a reputation for this?
Me: wtf are you talking about?
Them:
You tried to rape her
She looked freaked out
Me: buddy, i let her go, never once did I force her (i barely cupped her elbow)
Them:
WELL you were ABOUT TO!
Me: thats fucking bs! Good night!
Jealous white knights they didnt go out and get any. Fuck them.
I slammed my door shut and crashed my drunk ass to bed.
That was on a friday. Now flash forward to today (thursday, almost a full week later), I get an email from student services about a misconduct.
In summary, Im not allowed to be on her floor, or have any communication with her whatsoever. She has been informed of the same with you.
"you tried to make another student, XXXX XXXX, let you enter her room and then tried to force her to enter your room, both times without her consent."
I received this just before I was about to sleep, and i have an 830 tomorrow its 1am right now.
I am beyond livid, and I just need some advice on the next steps to take. I am already meeting with a school counselor tomorrow so I will try and keep a calm head and explain things thoroughly.
Thank you
Sincerely,
Eli