FR 07.08.2019 Short approaches and looking at online game

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I started to get a bit disheartened with cold approach. A couple of years ago was so much easier. Now there seems to be day gamers everywhere, a guy that just taken a bootcamp and opening the way I'm opening. The blow out are a lot harsher. Girls seem intrigued by how confident I am but don't want to take things further. Online has given them too much options and I feel they prefer that than a cold approacher. Even HB5 turns me away lol. I guess I'm complaining about the blow out rate. Girls that are fresh of the boat, the responses are so much better. These are just rear and doesn't happen often. The problem are some of them are tourist and will be leaving soon.

I'm looking to combine online with day game, so in the last 10 days, i didn't approach anything until today. A lot of things, i learnt from the online course links in with cold approach. Online looks like the way to go for me, it might work out more productive if I can screen them before sex and put them through a funnel. Optimise my online profile and send templates responses to most all the matches. There is a far greater reach with online, even though the girls might not be so hot. I feel like in order to get good online, you still need your cold approach skills. The key is to send massive amounts of templated response to girls and not treat them like human being until you meet them in person and move them through a funnel. It can be quick or take 3 months, 6 months or a year. It doesn't matter because you haven't spent much time on them, your putting them through a process and moving them slowly or quickly depending on the response. If you spending too much time on a girl then you are doing it all wrong. You should send only 3 to 10 templated messages. Your messages should only be screening only for sex and should be done in a way that doesn't trigger anti slut defence. You should also be able to pass her shit test and take her number.

You create these templates and your profile by actually cold approaching. It has to be you and congruent. You have to keep optimising your profile and template.
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[fearlessuk]

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HB: excuse me

F: I think you look pretty

NOTE: a bit rusty as i haven't sarged for 10 days.

HB: ahhh (smiling)

F: haha where are you from, you look like your from China?

NOTE: I felt she gave me an ioi smile. It's not the normal smile I normally encounter. Because I felt it was an ioi smile, I' invade her personal space and kino her arm. She was liking it

HB: I'm from Korea

F: Onion eye seye O

HB: where you from?

F: where you think I'm from (long pause) India or Africa?

NOTE: Nice long pause. Makes you seem high value. Good job

HB: India (gives me a big smile)

F: India no, I was born here but my parents from HK, have you been to HK?

HB: yeah one week or so

F: really (pause) why is your English so good?

NOTE: the pause is really good

HB: um not really (giggles)

F: haha

NOTE: I knew she was attracted, so it kind of put me in a good state

F: You look like a tourist, are you a tourist

NOTE: checking her up and down with my eyes.

NOTE 2: next time say " I really like your shape, do you work out?" This will be an light soi, which is acceptable for all girls. And check her out with your eyes for 2 seconds and and change topics. On and off

F: shall we cross the road

NOTE: we were standing near some traffic lights. It turned green. I had my body close to hers and I put my hand on her shoulder at first and then behind her back, leading her across the road. There was no resistance and I also released

F: why is your English so good, why

NOTE: good break rapport tonality

HB: huh emm

F: you been practising haven't you?

NOTE: I been also going over some old school, deep inner game product, which helps with the interaction. I'm more assertive. Working on your inner game or working on being a man works really well and shows in your interaction with people and women. Inner game creates attraction and value. You come across like a high value man because of your boundaries and decision making skills. Your the leader taking the lead and she is the follower. Working on inner game helps with all of this and much more. One word, it's important even though some might disagree

F: you been practising to try and meet guys on London Bridge

HB: no blah blah

F: haha I'm just kidding

F: so? are you the only one in the family?

F: you look like the youngest in the family

NOTE: nice statement

HB: yeah

F: your the baby

HB: I have an older sister. ( she really digging the interaction. just smiling. I feel she doesn't get approached often in Korea.

F: You have an older sister, okay, so your the naughty one. your the one misbehaving, naughty naughty.

HB: no no no no

F: haha

F: My name is F, what's your name?

HB: Terry

F: Terry nice to meet you

NOTE: I shock her hand and held onto it for a long time before I let go. I also tried Todds man to womans hand shake. I should do this hand shake more often, i believe it can fit in with my game. Not everything fits but this fits in perfectly.

+ It's too bad the girl didn't really understand it. I think it's because I did the normal handshake and left it too late. Next time, I need to do the man to woman handshake as soon as our hands touch

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HB: Terry

F: Terry nice to meet you

F: Terry is not a korean name

HB: Terri, my English name is Cherry

F: do you know what, I feel like a cup of coffee right now, I want you to join me. Only for 10 minutes and I have to get going. But there is a coffee shop down there. Shall we go for a coffee. okay lets go

HB nods

F: so how long are you staying for Cherry?

HB: this is the second day

F: do you like it in London

NOTE: I'm stand quite close to her side by side. Some times touching her on her back or shoulders. Every time a girl moves away from me, I would move closer.

F: I thought South Korea is cold as well, no?

HB: no it's really hot in the Summer

HB: it's hotter than in Europe

F: yes (pause) so it's better haha

F: Do you have any brothers?

HB: brothers

F: do you have any siblings?

HB: just one older sister

F: so why you decide to stay in UK?

HB: I'm just travelling the whole of Europe in 2 months, so

HB: I like Harry porter

F: Harry porter

HB: I want to visit the Harry Porter museum

F: okay, did you go or?

HB: I will go maybe 3 days later

F: haha 3 days later, sound like fun

F: you should get a tattoo on your head, you should get a scar

NOTE: I touch her forehead for about 2 seconds. Great job

HB: ah no

F: and then you should have a Harry Porter haircut

HB: haha

F: and a Harry porter glasses

HB: haha oh no

HB: so how old are you?

F: how old do I look? (pause) guess

HB: ha

HB: 24 or 25

F: I'm actually 29 how old are you

HB: 21

F: 21 oh your very young but you come across mature

HB: mature

F: I don't know if you mature or not but you come across mature

NOTE: This is good but what would be better is: You know what, I don't normally date a girl so young...... but for you, I make an exception. I like what I seen so far

HB: so you work in London?

F: yes I work in london

HB: ah

F: I work in property management

HB: umm

F: the building work

HB: so now it's a holiday

F: yeah, right now it's like a holiday for me

HB: I'm a university student right now

F: what do you study?

HB: I'm a technical engineering and mechanical engineering. I have both majors

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F: what do you study?

HB: I'm a technical engineering and mechanical engineering. I have both majors

HB: main major is mechanical engineer and second major is computer science

F: wow so your into technical stuff

HB: yeah

F; anything and I can get your help, so anything space or spaceships

HB; haha (shakes head)

F: no haha

HB: your very cute, I don't know why. Err can you drive? do you actually drive?

HB: I passed my driving license but did drive every since

F: you can't not drive anymore, why?

HB: I forgot to drive

F: don't worry, one day there will be driver less cars, so you don't need to drive. it be done by computer

HB: haha

HB: maybe it's 10 years later or 20 years later

F: 20 years later, really, wow

HB: I don't know

F: so where about are you staying now, are you staying in London

HB: zone 1

F; ahh ok

HB: in a hostel

F: in a hostel

NOTE: this is important for the next girl. Her English seems to be good but she didn't understand my questions properly. She is from oversea so don't assume she is answering correctly. i was confused but it didn't register with me until later on in the interaction. A good question to ask is where are you studying, in Korea or London? Don't always assume she is studying in the Uk.

NOTE 2: the purpose is to see if she is staying in the Uk for a long time. If not, you have to escalate hard. Each girl has different purposes. Sometimes it's just to experiment on them. Just to push your game higher. Sometimes it's to kiss them asap. Sometimes it's to play a solid game.

F: do you like latte, you look like a latte girl

HB: I like americano more

F: so you like strong coffee

HB: do they have ice amercano here?

F: Ice Amerciano, I think they do

F: actually there is one down there that has it (points somewhere far) lets try down here and see what happens (point some where nearer

NOTE: this is good you went for the nearest one. instinctively you knew, you didn't have enough compliance. You haven't moved her up the compliance ladder yet. it's always best to go to a coffee shop and them test for compliance. If it was a number farm, it would be different. You have more compliance with a girl because she decided to meet with you anyway, even though you are a stranger

NOTE 2: maybe you can test for compliance before going to a coffee shop.

F: Here, Prett, is it popular in Korea?

HB: I never heard about it

F: it's very popular in the Uk

+ in coffee shop

F: what would you like to drink?

HB: just amerciano

F: okay

+ order drinks

F: why you like black coffee so much

HB: because my aunt is owner of a coffee shop. I drink many

F; so you steal the coffee, you drink every single bit of it and there in nothing for the customer.

F: do you have any tattoo, you look like you have some tattoos

F: I think it's quite popular in Korea

NOTE: it's good you mentioned tattoos. It sets of a bad girl frame.

HB: tattoo is illegal

F: in Korea really

+ we get our drinks

F: shall we go over there

F: I didn't know it was illegal, that's interesting, do you want to sit here

F: only few people have tattoos

HB: yeah

F: what kind of people

HB no sure face

F: before you go back to Korea, lets get you a tattoo. We get you a Hello Kitty tattoo. Right here

+ I kino her right arm

HB: oh no, it hurts

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NOTE: I waited for her to sit down first. I even gesture my hands for her to sit down. 80 percent of the time, girls will just sit down if you were leading them properly right from the beginning. Sometimes the girl waits for you to sit down. If that happens, a good technique is just stand up and sit back down closer to her.

You can also make an excuse to go toilet and then sit right next to her.

I choose a seat where I can move the chair right next to hers. Choosing the right table and seats is very important for escalation. There were a couple of seat behind me blocking my way, so I moved them out of the way also. (good do whatever it takes)

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F: only for 5 seconds it will hurt

HB: oh no

F: put some mayonnaise on it.......and them mayonnaise will make it not hurt

HB: I think I can not huh

F: you can not (pause) I'm just kidding haha

HB; so do you have tattoos

F: me, I have one on my bum

HB: which?

F: Hello kitty

HB: oh really haha

F: no

HB : haha

F: I'm just kidding, yeah

F: but i would like a tattoo, what I'm worried about is, if i get a tattoo and I don't like it, then I need to remove it

F: I don't know, I thought Koreans like tattoos and i watch a lot of movies. Most of them have tattoos

HB: most of them are scary men (gangsters)

HB: gangs

F: gangs

HB: they have tiger or dragons

F: maybe we can get you a dragon or a

HB: haha

F: or a tiger, that would look so good on you

HB: oh it's terrible

F: it's terrible haha

F: what would happen if you mum and dad found out you had a tattoo?

F: would they be happy. Would they go Cherry, it's okay we love you.

HB: I think my dad don't like

F: we can get one secretly, don't let him know

HB: oh no, I don't want

+ i ask about her studies again because it wasn't clear at that moment. Writing the report, I realise she is a tourist and wouldn't be staying for long

F: so have you been to Big Ben and London Eye

HB: blah

F: so you went to Big Ben and London Eye and what else did you see

F: why you don't go to River Thames. It's really big

HB: maybe tomorrow, I'm not sure

HB: i'm planning shopping today because its cold

+ she means it cold when you visits other countries. She going to travel again soon and be back in Korea once she finished.

F: but you wear too much.

NOTE: touching her jumper and arm

F: why you feel cold today

HB: because I was in Croatia before and i feel like cold

F: your English is very good by the way. Yeah it's very good

HB: thank you

F: it's interesting you understand me

HB: yeah I understand you but I can not say proper English

F: basically when you speak, you slow down. It's very understandable because you speak slowly. that's why i understand you a lot more

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F: can I see you hands, go like this

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F: can I see you hands, go like this

NOTE: I like the way you moved your hand for her to see, so she did exactly the same.

F: why are our hands so small

NOTE: I put my hand over her hand and tried to interlock my fingers with hers. She didn't interlock so she failed my compliance test, which means try again later

NOTE: your 14 minutes and 42 seconds into the interaction. Your already doing palm reading. Well done. You didn't feel comfortable in palm reading but you did it any way. This girl is leaving soon so you should push the interaction as far as you can go. this is very good news and you should continue down this road.

NOTE FOR NEXT TIME: the way you moved your seat next to hers is perfect but when you do palmistry. You should move your chair closer for the second time. You should move the chair 2 times in the interaction and get as close as you can get to the girl as possible.

NOTE: your feeling scared at the moment because of your mindset. The more you do this, the more comfortable you will get

F: let me see, I know a little bit about palmistry, so in the future you will have 3 boyfriends

HB: only 3

F: yes only 3, you want more?

HB: yeah haha

NOTE: this means she wants more men in her life. If you can turn on properly, you can get her. Knowing this and her reaction towards me, I should have pushed for a kiss.

F: how many do you want? do you want 10 or 20?

HB: 6, 5

F: 6, 5 omg your so greedy

F: how many husbands would you like 6 or 7?

HB: only one

NOTE: I think I could have created a lover frame or a boyfriend GF frame. It's can be self amusement with these 2 frames in mind.

An example is: you can be wife 752. you be the main one, telling all my other wives what to do. We can have 13 to 14 babies together. One every year until your 40. ( and just keep talking in this frame. On and off) You can always refer back to this frame any time.

F: and 6 or 7 boyfriends

HB: haha um

F: here is your life line. the good thing about the life line is over time, your life will change. Basically it depends what you do right now. It will effect the future. If you eat right and exercise. This will be longer

F: this is your career line, so far because you line is long you career is good. you quite a smart intelligent girl kind of thing

F: go like this

HB: okay

F: shut your finger

NOTE: I didn't do this palm reading well. I think maybe because she didn't have much lines on her hands and I was too focused on touching her hand. I focused on touching her hand because the more opportunities I can touch a girl, the more likely I will get laid. obviously this will add my game for the next girl. For what ever reason, I wasn't doing it this very well.

F: this means you can save a lot of money

HB: oh (interested)

+ looking at the holes at the back of her hand

+ i compare my back of hands with hers

F: I spend a bit of money and you save a lot of money

HB: which

F: because there is no holes in you hands

NOTE NEXT TIME EXPERIMENT: Try and slow down the palm reading and look at her when giving the reading

HB: bigger holes means using more money

F: yes, you got piano hands, do you play the piano?

NOTE: you forgot to read how many babies she has. Do that for next time

HB: yeah, how can you

F: because it's really, the way it looks

NOTE: I hold her hand and I gently stroke her hand with my other hand

F: or something. you don't do manual labour. Obviously your still young but your hands are really soft and they look like good piano hands

F: like it's really small, that means it's harder to move you fingers to press a key

HB: I just pay for 5 years

F: but here your ears are really small

NOTE: I touch her ear. Very good. I like the way you are finding more and more ways to touch a girl. This will really help you to improve your game. She is smiling because your touching her

F: this means in the future you might not be super rich but you be okay. it seems like you be happy

HB: ahh

F: why you don't paint your nails

+ I grab her hand and touch them. Good and other kino move

F: a lot of girls, like to paint there nails

NOTE: if a girl has long hair. You can brush her hair to one side and say "I really like you hair"

HB: i painted my nails a month ago but its hard because I'm travelling

F: do you paint your toe nails as well

HB: yes a little bit left

F: oh you do, I was kidding

HB: haha

F: wow, I didn't know that

HB: hard to maintain because I'm travelling

F: so what kind of music can you play

HB: I learnt mozart.

F: you can play mozart, wow

HB: i can not play any more

F: we should film you and then you can play on youtube

HB: I learnt but can not do any more

F: you can't do anymore, really?

HB: I can only do some easy songs

F: what kind, happy birthday

HB: harder than happy birthday

F: that's good

NOTE: for some reason i don't feel comfortable with silence. I think i should look through some inner game products. Because she is showing ioi I feel bad if I don't continue the conversation.

HB: can you play any other instrument

F: I can whistle. ( I start whistling)

NOTE: this is very bad. Don't do this again. Just say no i can't

F: no i can't haha

F: you know in a lot of Asian family, the women they. the mum and dads get them to play the piano when they were younger. so i kind of guess maybe

HB: that's why

F: you hand is really smooth, so that kind of gave it away

F: do you like travelling?

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F: you hand is really smooth, so that kind of gave it away

F: do you like travelling?

HB: my first time in europe

F: really

NOTE: sometimes you cut the girl of, try and let them speak. It's important to listen and try and understand them.

F: you like the way here, do you like me

HB: ha (smiling)

HB: I think the Europeans are really kind and nice

F: yeah we are very multicultural. there is a lot of nationality in the Uk. the thing about Uk, there is different types of people. it makes it interesting for me anyway

F: do you miss bibibap

HB: I just tried korean food today, did you try

NOTE: you cut her off again.

F: I had katsu curry (Japanese dish, not korean. Got it mixed up

F: what where you doing today, just shopping?

HB: shopping and national museum

F: did you see anything you like

HB: I will go

F: no it's late. It's shut. i believe it shuts at 6 o clock

HB: oh

F; because museums don't really open late

F: if you go, next time you have to go early

F: I think the rest of the shops close at 7 o clock

F: what about South Korea, does it open a long time?

HB: opens at 8am and shuts at 12 pm

F: wow yeah Asian people work hard

F; why you want to buy British clothes and why not go back to Korea

NOTE: I feel like I'm running out of things to say and I'm trying to feel in the gaps. I feeling like I'm asking too many questions again

HB: I need some clothes here and it's cheaper than Korea

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HB: I need some clothes here and it's cheaper than Korea

F: onion eye seye O

HB: how did you know that

F: basically my ex girl friend is from Korea as well, her name is Yumi. She taught me a little bit but not much. I forgotten most of it. yeah

HB: any other Korean things you can say?

F: bibibap, kimchi

HB: haha

F: nah i don't know

F: can you teach me, how to say pretty girl

F: how to say, Cherry is very pretty

NOTE: very good soi

HB : emm ( a bit of sexual tention)

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NOTE: you should pause a lot more and look into her eyes through her soul, like you not kidding.

+ the part where you say: Cherry is very pretty. ( this is the part when you should be serious and look straight in her eyes and let it sink. Breath heavy and relax the jaw line)

+ use you gut to know when to be ON and when to be OFF

+ if you HAVE the balls, you should grab her hand and say it and the same time. You should switch gears and be real. There has to be a moment when you stop self amusing.

+ the first 10 or 15 minutes is self amusement and the next part is being real. When you soi a girl in the last 15 minutes, that is when you have to be real. Use you gut feeling to make a judgement call on when to switch gears

+ in fact this should be part of your routine (how to say pretty girls in your language) while hold a girls hand

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F: I'm just kidding

NOTE: this is bad. You miss your chance to show her you serious

F: I think the Asian men in Uk is very different to the men in Korea. Maybe I'm more forward

F: in Korea, does anyone tell you are pretty

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F: I think the Asian men in Uk is very different to the men in Korea. Maybe I'm more forward

F: in Korea, does anyone tell you are pretty

HB: not many

F: really, you joking. Did you go to an all girls school

HB: yes, i went to a all girls school

NOTE: I went china before and hardly any guy approaches. It's the same in Korea

F: you should stay here longer

HB: yes, i want to

F; why you don't stay here longer?

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NOTE: I think I'm still playing it safe. I kind of mastered the small escalations technique which works for the first 15 to 20 minutes. Obviously, I can still improve and I will. I need to know when to be more real and when to switch it up a gear.

+ only self amuse from the start. Let her know your sexual intent by serious facial expression and body language.

+ be more ON and OFF. When I mean ON. I'm mean really ON. SERIOUS ON. ( No joking around)

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HB: because I have to go Switzerland and Spain

NOTE: it goes down hill from here because there is no sexual tension . She likes you but you didn't switch it up a gear. You did NOT give her a SERIOUS Statement of Intent. YOU DO THIS BY giving her a straight face and delivering your SOI.

Your sticking point is: you been doing self amusement through out the whole date for over the 20 minutes mark. Sometimes 2 hours or 6 hours. If your lucky you able to do the boyfriend/girlfriend frame or the lover frame. This is a hit and miss approach because she doesn't know if you like her or not. She want some one who has balls to be serious with her.
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+ like romance novels. the main character is a badboy who ends up falling in love with her. Normally is a couple of times they meet each other in a certain circumstance. In the end they fall in love with each other because he has balls. He demonstrates courage, honestly, is a man, some one who has ambition (not necessary rich) ain't scared to speak his mind, share his life stories with her and is a bit broken (his is not perfect). Because he is a bit broken and he needs her in her life.

HE is not someone who self amuses himself for 20 hours. The problem with self amusement is after a while it can be a front. The girl will ask, what is he hiding. You can pass all her shit test but she still feels, she doesn't know you.

If you can transition from self amusement statement of intent to serious statement of intent, you can solve all your problems. She still might not know you that well but you she can get to know you over time. All she has to know is your serious (from you non verbals). You communicate your statement of intent or sexual intent with a seriously face.

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F: when are you going?

HB: 7 days later

F: 7 days later, that is plenty of time. then you have to buy your coat and then you have to keep warm

HB: yeah

NOTE: I know it's going downhill lol. I'm so glad I was able to figure why for the next girl

NOTE 2: the conversation is spiralling down and there is nothing I can do to stop it lol. My conversation skills is going down and dragging the interaction with it. It's so difficult to listen to. It's like a car crash but I have to finish my report and learn from it

F: Spain, Madrid is like. Madrid is Spain. Have you been to Prague?

HB: yes I just been there 2 weeks ago

F: really

HB: i really like Blah blah beer

HB: I drink 2 times a day

F: wow, I can tell your very good at drinking

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NOTE: you should have teased her. I can tell your very good at drinking, you're naughty girl.

NOTE 2 : you can bring up the conversation of dancing

NOTE 3: you can bring up the topic of, what is the craziest thing you have ever done in your life. This is good because she will ask you the same thing and she gets to know your story a lot more.

NOTE 4: you can ask questions, where she would want you ask you the same question. When you answer, this will build up so much comfort and hence tighten your game a bit more. She would think it's her idea because she is asking the questions but really you just planted the seed in her mind. Very good for shy girls

NOTE 5: what is the most naughty thing you have ever done in your life

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HB: it was very nice

F: i think in the British culture, we like drinking as well

NOTE: good. Your letting her know you like a drink as well

F: In Korea, what kind of drinks do you drink?

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F: In Korea, what kind of drinks do you drink

HB: soju

F: soju, is that similar to vodka?

HB: yeah, do you know?

F: i heard about that, it's similar to vodka

HB: it's cheaper than vodka

HB: it's like cheap vodka

F: cheap vodka

HB: yeah

F: maybe we should go for a drink later, if you don't mind

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NOTE: this is kind of good but the way you are asking, is not so good. It's like your asking for her permission. you should be leading instead

Next time say: lets go for a drink later on. Nice weather. Good looking guy and good looking girl, what can be (pause) more perfect than that.
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F: I can take you to a pub in this area, they have one in blah blah round the corner. It's very famous, it's like an Irish pub

F: it's been around for over 300 hundred years and it's very popular

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Next time say: there is this very popular pub in the area, you would love it and lots of tourist goes there (obvious bullshit) it's extremely famous and you must go. It's called waxy. They have all the popular drinks. The environment is great as well

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HB: whats the difference between British pub and Irish pub

F: the people are different and then the pub will look a bit different. It's kind of like, you got Koreans, you got Japanese, you got Chinese. there are slight differences, But we are all similar, we like rice.

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NOTE: you made it sound very similar which not a good thing. You should make it sound different. you're trying to get her down there and now she is not convinced lol

NEXT TIME SAY: they are very different pubs. Irish pub has music and atmosphere is different. The one I want to take you to is very special and famous. i even recommend you taking picture down there.

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F: what do you do for fun apart from partying

NOTE: good

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F: what do you do for fun apart from partying

NOTE: good

F: you look like a party girl

NOTE: it's good you are trying to put her in the naughty girl frame

HB: oh no

F: you don't party, is it illegal in Korea?

HB: oh no

HB: my friends are coming tomorrow, I should go round

+ she means she needs to go shopping

HB: i can't go to a party

F: have you partied before? maybe your age, have you been to a disco, club or a pub

HB: I went to a club before

HB: I went club in HK. It was nice. that was my first time. When i went to club in Korea, it was really boring so

F: you like the HK men, so that's why you go HK

HB: oh no no no

HB: many other countries people where there, it was fun

F: it was fun, too much fun

both smile

F: in Hong Kong you can play dice. You put a dice in there and you can roll it around. Whoever loses has to drink

F: did you do that, it's very popular in HK

HB: oh no

HB: just a lot of free drinks

NOTE: because she is pretty, guys buy her free drinks in Hong Kong.

F: your very lucky because you a woman haha

HB: haha

F: woman get free drinks all the time, yeah

+both giggle

F; how many bottles of suju can you drink?

HB: i can not drink well so

F: 20 or 30

HB: I think I can drink 2 liters

F; why you decide to study science

HB: i don't like books

HB: calculating

F: calculating and making things better

F: I would love to go Korea one day, I never been. Whats it like?

F: you look like you got muscle, do you train

NOTE: i pinch her muscle. (Good excuse, she doesn't look like she have muscle, doesn't matter)

F: you look very toned, good shape

+ I gesture with my hands good shape

F: do you work out, do you do pilates

HB: no, just walking

F: walking

HB: just walking yeah haha

F: your very lucky, you have good shape

NOTE: talking about her shape is good. it's kind of sexual and she can't reject it

F: and you don't have to exercise

HB: I don't like to exercise

F: really, you don't exercise

HB: do you like

F: I like tennis. for fun. I don't really play often

NOTE: do not try and agree with her on everything. it's important to have you own opinion

HB: I like swimming

F: i can imagine you

+ flapping my arms around

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MISSED AN OPPORTUNITY

IF SHE TALKS ABOUT SWIMMING

NOTE FOR NEXT TIME

You can pretend you don't know how to swim.

F: if I drown, will you save me.

F: will you do mouth to mouth resuscitation.

F: if you drown I promise you I will save you, I will do mouth to mouth

+ obviously make it fun and exaggerate.

+ you can can ask a girl if they swim or not

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F: do you wear a hat, a harry porter hat

HB: I like to swim in the sea

F: like a fish

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NEXT TIME ASK:

If can ask if she likes singing

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F : I like playing around in the water more but my favourite is swimming

F: are you go at using your legs?

HB: no

F: how do you swim then?

F: when you were younger, did you learn English in Korea?

HB: from elementary school to middle school blah blah

F: did you speak English when you were younger. I feel you can understand a lot

HB: Philippians

NOTE: this is a really smart and cheap way to learn English. Any one who wants to learn English. This is the best place.

F: oh is that good fun

F: that a good idea

F: how to say smart woman in Korea

HB: duk duk dock car la

F: you are duk duk dock car la

HB happy face

HB: I really need to go shopping

F: you have to go shopping, really

HB: yes

F: when are you next free? when are you next free?

F: maybe we can go out sometime

NOTE: it's good to take her number but the way you are doing is supplicating

F: will you be free tomorrow?

HB: cause my friend will come tomorrow

F: yeah, what about this week?

HB: my friend and I stay in the same hostel, i think I need to spend time with him. He will come tomorrow

NOTE: She did mention hostel before. It seems real but who knows. it's not as bad as I thought it was. I did most things well, which is good. Especially the kino. You have discovered some break through which is good

+ I question her a bit further to see if there is anything we can do. She will feel bad to leave him alone

F: do you do whatsapp or kakao talk?

HB: do you have kakao talk?

F: do you use line?

HB: no

F: why, wechat, whatsapp. I tell you what, let me get your number and I try and get kakao talk later on

F: yeah, it be good to see you again. i know you be busy and then you have to fly away

F: are you coming back to the UK?

HB: no?

F: and i never see you again and you break my heart

HB: haha

F: why, why you break my heart. (sad face)

HB: hehe

F: tell you mum and dad you want to stay here

HB: i think i should go back to my university

F: oh the one in Korea

HB: yeah

F: why, here is more fun

HB: haha

F: there are better looking Asian guys down here

HB: emm

F: no haha

both giggle

F: yeah no problem

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NEXT TIME IN A PLAYFUL FUNNY WAY: Marry me

+ then spin something from this

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F: well, I had fun today

+ I continue to plow but decided to let her go shopping

F: do you need to go now?

HB: do shops close at 7?

F: I would say yeah

+ I walk her out and chatted a bit

HB; so where are you going now

F: I probably go home now because you broke my heart and cry in my bed

HB: haha

F: you're meant to spend time with me, maybe go but your too busy

NOTE: NEXT TIME: role play: we were meant to marry each other, have a family, have lovely little kids. My dream is washed down the drain. I will never be able to love a girl again. I'm so sad

HB: I'm sorry

F: that's fine. i think you have 10 boyfriends already. 10 or 20 husbands

HB giggles no no no

F: 10 or 20 babies

+both giggle

F: nah just kidding

+ she is going different direction

F: you take care yeah

+ I give her a hug and she accepts

F: bye bye

HB: yeah bye

+ I give her a tighter hug and continue to hug her

F: can you stay here forever

HB: ah hahaha

F: okay you take care

+ I stopped hugging her. I felt she felt something. I believed I could have kissed her. (sort of like a club make out)

HB: sorry thank you

F: how do you say , oh onion

F: onion pretty girl. how do you say pretty girl

HB: blah blah

F: e ban your jaw

HB: blah blah (happy face)

F: no I don't want you to go

+ hug her again

HB: I'm sorry

NOTE: you should of went for the club make out kiss. Your never going to see her again anyway, so might as well

F: bye bye

Total minutes is 45 minutes

NOTE: sometimes the best material is develop right towards the end of the interaction because you got nothing to lose. It naturally becomes more boyfriend/girlfriend frame or love frame. It's because you stop caring and giving a fuck. I think to develop much better material, is to try and get the girl to stick around as long as possible. Plowing and changing topics. Eventually try and put these idea at the beginning of the interaction with new girls, right from the start

I think you have to get to the point of just not giving a fuck, this is when your best game will comes out. Not giving a fuck eventually gets you the highest level of game

NOTE 2: It's time to go for a make out, especially if she is a tourist. If you gut feeling tells you can do this, you have to pull the trigger. I'm giving you permission to do this!!
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