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So I had a 5 hour break between classes so I decide to head out and do some approaches, mostly to help overcome my approach anxiety. Case in point, I ended up not opening several girls I was interested in until I forced myself to open this girl walking past me. Here's the conversation:
ME: Hey, do I know you?
HER: No don't think so.
ME: You didn't go to X High School? On the swim team?
HER: No...
(Awkward pause)
ME: Since we don't know each other, let's get to know one another. What's your name?
HER: Steph.
ME: Nice to meet you.
(I ask about her major and try to deep dive but she's not complying)
ME: So what do you have going on today?
HER: I'm actually on my way to soccer practice.
ME: Okay, I won't keep you but we should get together sometime.
HER: Oh, sure.
ME: We should exchange contact info.
HER: Well, my phone is broken but I'll give you my email.
(The email she gave me was a school-provided one so no way am I getting a date.)
So I think there's a lot of ways I went wrong here. I don't have my process down yet so that was part of it plus I totally forgot to give her my name. I think I skipped a lot of steps like getting to know her but I think her telling me she's on her way to practice shook me up. I didn't have a sexual vibe going either so now I have a few questions. There's some articles on here that mentioned that girls looking down or to the side is a sign of interest but almost every girl I walk by does this so I doubt that there're actually interested. Going out to meet girls this way in college doesn't seem to work too well but I don't know how to pull off social circle game. I'm thinking of joining a fraternity so that might help but what advice do any of you have for getting laid in college?
ME: Hey, do I know you?
HER: No don't think so.
ME: You didn't go to X High School? On the swim team?
HER: No...
(Awkward pause)
ME: Since we don't know each other, let's get to know one another. What's your name?
HER: Steph.
ME: Nice to meet you.
(I ask about her major and try to deep dive but she's not complying)
ME: So what do you have going on today?
HER: I'm actually on my way to soccer practice.
ME: Okay, I won't keep you but we should get together sometime.
HER: Oh, sure.
ME: We should exchange contact info.
HER: Well, my phone is broken but I'll give you my email.
(The email she gave me was a school-provided one so no way am I getting a date.)
So I think there's a lot of ways I went wrong here. I don't have my process down yet so that was part of it plus I totally forgot to give her my name. I think I skipped a lot of steps like getting to know her but I think her telling me she's on her way to practice shook me up. I didn't have a sexual vibe going either so now I have a few questions. There's some articles on here that mentioned that girls looking down or to the side is a sign of interest but almost every girl I walk by does this so I doubt that there're actually interested. Going out to meet girls this way in college doesn't seem to work too well but I don't know how to pull off social circle game. I'm thinking of joining a fraternity so that might help but what advice do any of you have for getting laid in college?
