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Hi gents I've hit a nice flow for sure - this is now my 4th new lay in 4 back to back weeks since the 20th December.
If I get one more it will be a personal record for the most amount of lays in a month and we've only hit the 10th Dec so I've got a good shot at it.
What's cool for me is that I've always liked to consider myself a balanced a.k.a "cross gamer" and /4 new lays -, x1 daygame, x1 nightgame and x2 online.
The quality has also been good with 3/4 girls I'd be happy to see again but admittedly 1/4 from online had too much padding lol (have to be honest with you guys).
Daygame Cold Approach:
Date 1 > I usually stick to 1 - 1.5 hours but I was enjoying myself and it ended up being 3 hours
By the time the date ends we had already set up the second "cocktails" date at my place for 2 days' time.
Date 2 > Straight over to mine for cocktails
We make cocktails in my kitchen and I make her my "assistant". I also manhandle kiss her 5 minutes into her being in the house/kitchen and the way she kissed back I knew she was DTF. She held my head in her hands and opened up her body to me. As well as peaked the tongue onto mine ever so slightly. Really good kisser actually thinking back at it.
In the past girls who've kissed me like that, I've slept with. Little tip actually kissing a girl before you get to your room makes means less defenses later on. As it's no longer a big event that will lead to sex. She's already kissed you before so it's no big deal when you kiss her on your bed.
We then make cocktails which is a fun easy date I do and we make strawberry daquiris while chit chatting.
When I take her to my room there's No LMR whatsoever. In fact she escalates on me by taking my jumper off asking for condoms etc.
Sex (Comments Welcome)
This is sadly where it goes downhill lol. We weren't that compatible and never got into full flow. She also excused herself to leave after 1 hour of chit chatting/round 1 which is the opposite of what I'm used to. Normally I'm the one having to politely get girls out.
My read is that she's less experienced than me and a little awkward but at the same time has had a taste of what good sex is like and knows she didn't get it. So going to try get her out again and see if the 2nd time is better but we shall see. I went into full details here so any advice is welcome.
Post date:
I walk her to the bus stop and ask her to message me when she gets home (she doesn't). As she texted last I follow up with:
DWW: “Hii had fun seeing you. Thanks for being a top assistant - have a good week x”
Girl: “Thank you for being a great teacher haha”
Closing Thoughts
I'll send her a ping in a few days and try schedule something. We'll see I think this one could go either way in terms of retention.
Onwards and Upwards.
If I get one more it will be a personal record for the most amount of lays in a month and we've only hit the 10th Dec so I've got a good shot at it.
What's cool for me is that I've always liked to consider myself a balanced a.k.a "cross gamer" and /4 new lays -, x1 daygame, x1 nightgame and x2 online.
The quality has also been good with 3/4 girls I'd be happy to see again but admittedly 1/4 from online had too much padding lol (have to be honest with you guys).
Daygame Cold Approach:
- Approach a leggy long haired brunette (shock horror). Cute slim mixed race girl with dark brown eyes, dark grey jeans, adidas trainers and a dark jacket. Was after work and me leaving a takeaway shop. Had no intention to approach and I looked terrible I.E black parka jacket, black joggers, black vans and a bright blue fleece with my hair unkept/ messy. Almost didn't approach her before thinking to myself "am I a dickhead???" and going back to her.
- Followed my process here when I approach. Was essentially just super genuine and disarming by saying look "I've just finished work, I'm getting chips and look a mess but that you looked cool and I wanted to say Hi". She's surprisingly warm and I go through my linked stack
- Follow skills text guide and ping her with: "Hiii X, cool meeting are your eye lashes A1 now?
" this is a call back as she was waiting to get her lashes done. She responses with a warm message about how my chips was and I transition to confirming the 1st date which we had already spoken about.
- Opt for a 2 date model. Yes I know this forum complains and says it's sub-par but I don't care. For now I'll just do what works for me (pun intended)
- From cold approach to lay the whole process took me 7 days and x2 meets.
Date 1 > I usually stick to 1 - 1.5 hours but I was enjoying myself and it ended up being 3 hours
- We vibe over online marketing (turns out she runs her own online marketing coaching business - what are the chances lol)
- Growing up in the same area in the UK
- Being a foreigner in a majority white area
- Sexual prizing and my nice guy vs fun guy stack that I used in the last London drive lay
- How much she loves her family... It's quite endearing actually
- How relationships are healthy and don't have to end in "drama"
- How ending it with my MLTR (EX) was the right but hard thing to do
By the time the date ends we had already set up the second "cocktails" date at my place for 2 days' time.
Date 2 > Straight over to mine for cocktails
We make cocktails in my kitchen and I make her my "assistant". I also manhandle kiss her 5 minutes into her being in the house/kitchen and the way she kissed back I knew she was DTF. She held my head in her hands and opened up her body to me. As well as peaked the tongue onto mine ever so slightly. Really good kisser actually thinking back at it.
In the past girls who've kissed me like that, I've slept with. Little tip actually kissing a girl before you get to your room makes means less defenses later on. As it's no longer a big event that will lead to sex. She's already kissed you before so it's no big deal when you kiss her on your bed.
We then make cocktails which is a fun easy date I do and we make strawberry daquiris while chit chatting.
When I take her to my room there's No LMR whatsoever. In fact she escalates on me by taking my jumper off asking for condoms etc.
Sex (Comments Welcome)
This is sadly where it goes downhill lol. We weren't that compatible and never got into full flow. She also excused herself to leave after 1 hour of chit chatting/round 1 which is the opposite of what I'm used to. Normally I'm the one having to politely get girls out.
My read is that she's less experienced than me and a little awkward but at the same time has had a taste of what good sex is like and knows she didn't get it. So going to try get her out again and see if the 2nd time is better but we shall see. I went into full details here so any advice is welcome.
Post date:
I walk her to the bus stop and ask her to message me when she gets home (she doesn't). As she texted last I follow up with:
DWW: “Hii had fun seeing you. Thanks for being a top assistant - have a good week x”
Girl: “Thank you for being a great teacher haha”
Closing Thoughts
I'll send her a ping in a few days and try schedule something. We'll see I think this one could go either way in terms of retention.
Onwards and Upwards.
