10 girls a day, 10 lays a year

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Inner game upgraded
So recently I read a lot of inner game stuff. Outcome independence, mindfulness, asymmetric return, new spot mindset.
Anyway, I know only one street and several blocks around it. That street is so good, near a high school, having a popular tourist spot, plus a couples of companies around so professional girls get out at 5, and a big mall.
The problem is that, there is only one. And probably I had approached too many at that street. I tried a couple of other streets in the city, and they are nowhere as good. But I'm continue scouting, maybe I can find 3-4 other good spots.
Also mindfulness is kind of important. I found a lot of less-than-helpful stuffs in my head. As much as 50% of my brain contents.

Anyways, the approaches, sadly it didn't work out. The 10th approach was quite interesting however.
It were a group of three.
She looked at me a bit. I chased after the girl, using normal opening. Chatting with her a little bit.
A nearby store’s security approached the group, but the other girls told the security to go away.
So it's very important to generate good reaction. If result is not possible, aim for reaction.
But hey, asymmetric return. Also I need to find new pickup spots.

 

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First approach 2018
1 (best)
Prediction: Good, they looked around, they stopped somewhere.
Hector pair opener.
Basic compliance was fine.
Repartee worked. The "for you to know a handsome person like me" line. That line was polarizing, many girls didn't like it, but the girls who liked it were usually into me.
She already liked me so no need to engage the friend.
I used the pacing her reality and cold reading.
However my conversation skill needs working.
Asking for instant date, she didn't go with me however.

By the way, recently I was learning to hack. It's very cool, very useful, probably I'll go white hat. I'm on the light side.

 

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One approach
Prediction: Good, she came near me.
I looked at her, smiling. Suddenly she laughed.
Later on I met her, reopened. Asking for her name.
One of my mistakes was to pacing her reality: “You’re shopping for your family?”
Because she could easily answer “yes,” which suggested she was married.
I should have used the standard repartee, “you’re getting to know a handsome person like me.”
And if she liked me, she would never mention that she was married.

Subconsciously, I was holding back because she looked like she was married. That wasn't the best path.
She probably had a boring husband, and she needed pleasure. Next time give it to her.

 

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The new place is amazing
So after a few days scouting in the city, I found a fairly good place. 2 universities, a high school, a supermarket, a mall, and a block full of clothing stores.
A lot or of approach invitations near the supermarket, though I didn’t capitalize on most of them.

Anyways, the approaches:
4
Prediction: Good, she came in my way.
It went fine, up to repartee phase.
She said in a joking tone, “Oh no, why?”
That meant I must went to Investment phase.
For example, tell her to say something about herself, “What’s your hobby?” and gauge her investment.
7
A shit test.
I smiled at her. She looked at me from head to toe.
The line is, “Finished looking at me?”
The idea is to frame her as admiring me.
9 (best)
Bubble tea shop, indirect context.
Prediction: Good, she turned into me, she looked at me a bit.
Introduction:
Me: Hello, what’s your name?
Her: _______
Repartee:
Me: Congrats, you just know a handsome person like me
Her (laugh)
Me: What brings you here?
Her: I’m going out with my boyfriend
Me: I’m going out with my girlfriend too.
(Female friend, but I’d rather be ambiguous)
Her (laugh)
Transition to Investment phase soon
She asked where my friend are, I just gesture it out there.
Me: What’s your hobby?
Very long answer, so she was invested. Basically she just jumped from one thing to the next, I used a bit of relating, so it was the deep dive.
She was dragging her boyfriend to this place.
Other than that, she was 3rd year marketing major, I cold read a bit, “Yeah, marketing major people usually have interesting personality.”
I should have number closed, but I didn’t. I just let the conversation die, instead of saying “You’re interesting, we should grabbed a coffee sometimes” at the high point.
Because she was already qualified as an interesting person.

 

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Beautiful girl confirmed
Prediction: Good, she looked around, fairly revealing clothes.
A very beautiful girl with her friend. I thought she was a Korean foreigner, but it wasn’t.
Opening, I run to her friend.
Me: “Hello” (in English)
Then turn to her
Me: “and you are beautiful. What’s your name?” (in English)
She was smiling. All is well.
Her: ________
Okay, not a foreigner, I was flexible, changing the language:
Me: I’m ________ (local language)

Repartee:
Me: Congrats, you just know a handsome person like me.
Her: Where are you from?
Me: I'm from the sea
Why? Because if I stated the fact right away, her attractive would go down. Happened to me before.
Her: ???
Her friend: He's from the sea
Me: Joking, I'm here but I studied in USA

Investment:
Me: Anyways, let's stand on the side walk, the traffic
Her friend moved up to the sidewalk, I moved up there. The girl moved closer but stayed down.
That was fine. I'll get some investment then asking again later.
Me: What's your hobby?
Her: Reading book.
Me: I read some books, but not much. What's your favorite type?
Her: Psychology books
Me: Like the How to make friends and influence people
Her: Stuff like that
She was a bit cold but that was okay. I expected beautiful girls were like that.
Me: Get to the sidewalk, the traffic
She complied this time.

Managing the friend:
I noticed her friend was restless. So I asked, "Oh by the way, what's your friend name."
She smiled: "She's my younger sister."
Then I asked for the younger sister name, and came back to her.
Sometimes the younger sister tried to drag her away, but she stayed. I'd said, "(younger sister name), let your sister get to know a handsome person like me."
I took note of that, too. I was approached the leader, so as long as she was attracted to me, and I took care of the follower, it would be fine.
It would be significantly more difficult to approach the follower, but that would be in another day.

Age:
She was older than me a year.
When she asked me my age, I used my younger's brother age.
Why?
Because Chase said, if our age were too close, I would be judged for relationship. With a larger age gap, it would be easier to slot myself into lover role.
So usually if the girl was young, I told her my real age, and use my profile.
If the girl was old, I told her my younger brother's age, and use his profile.
The younger sister teased her, "You're like 23 or 24."
Thank you, younger sister.
Anyways this meant she must be born in the very end of the year or something. If that was the case then she would be equal to my age. I just dodged a very dangerous bullet here. The relationship bullet.
I said to the girl, "You're the cougar."

Getting to know her:
She was from another town, and she had been here for 5 years.
She studied in a normal university, economics major.
She lived close by.
She asked where my house was. I said my house location, and I also said: "You should visit my house sometimes"
This was the first day she brought her younger sister to the city.

Misc:
I didn't use touch, because she was with her younger sister.
I stood moderately far at first, then gradually come closer.

Moving the interaction forward:
I mentioned that we should hang out sometimes, right after the hobby topic.
Because one topic was enough to start seeding a date.
After a while, she was saying she had to go.
I said, "Oh (in a disappointed tone), that's bad"
She turned back.
Me: "Because you're missing out a handsome person like me."
Her: "I had to go with my younger sister."
Me: "Tomorrow, then"
Her: "I had to bring my younger sister to the doctor."
Me: "And when you go out with me, you will feel stronger."
Her: "I don't go out with a stranger."
Me: "A handsome stranger."
Her: "Yeah, but..."
I stood closer, to increase the pressure.
Me: "I'm handsome and interesting. Don't miss out on your one in lifetime chance."
Her: "I don't go out with a stranger"
Me: "Even your younger sister doesn't want you to miss out on me."
I was persistent like a mofo. She wriggled me into Facebook close, and I said, "I wished I have Facebook with me now, but I didn't have."
Her: "How can I contact you?"
Me: "I have number."
Then I got her number. When I left, I said: "Okay, I'll invite you later."
She shouted: "I'm not going out with you."
She didn't want to look easy in front of her younger sister.

Shortly afterwards, I sent the icebreaker text:
"(her name), your handsome friend here. Save my number - (my name)"

The plan:
One thing: If she had a boyfriend, probably he would be big and scary.
She didn't mention it though, but I expected a beautiful girl like her to have one. The plan is that, if she never mentions him, I wouldn't ask her either.
I'll persist with Chase's texting/calling strategy. Persist a lot. Though if a big and scary boyfriend shows up, I'll make the exit.

 

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Unexpected good or bad
1. The date
The beautiful girl, she didn't respond to the icebreaker and following up texts. Feels bad man. I'm going to call her later.
I had another date though. I was just chill and she talked.
Still commanding, like we sat on the first floor, then I told her to the second floor. She resisted somewhat, but I insisted. Later on I suggested we changed venue, she resisted too much, so I thought this was probably not good.
She talked for the whole date. One of her stories was unexpectedly good.
She had a coworker, who had a high school boyfriend, apparently sleeping with him. They broke up. And the coworker started to chase other men in her companies. The coworker slept around, and one of the men's wife found out, and it caused a big shitstorm. The boss found out, and the boss kicked the coworker out.
I commented, "Probably because the boss didn't get any action."
She laughed.
Anyways, what does this story illustrate? If I go out approaching, and a girl just breaks up with her boyfriend and wants revenge, easy lay.

2. One approach at the coffee shop
Prediction: Good, they faced outside. The bleached girl was the leader. I approached her.
Up to repartee was fine
Investment: Tricky, because they occupied both seats. Maybe just suggest that I would sit there.
Okay, so in Investment phase, I can either command or suggest compliance.

Also, there was another girl where my prediction was good, she was alone, she was cute, but I didn't approach. Because she had a resting bitch face.
Really? I had read lay reports where the girls were cold or bitchy. So I'll take note of that and approach these girls as well.

 

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Tourist - good or bad?
So sometimes I approached tourists. They had more polarized reaction, either they liked and complied with me a lot, or they were dismissive/scared right away. I thought that was very interesting.

Anyways, the approaches:
1
This I approached a pair of resting bitch faces. Prediction was “Don’t know”, outcome was pretty bad.
Good, later on I’ll need to come out on top.
2
A pair of girls. The follower was beautiful.
They were in white dresses.
The opener was smooth, but the girl ran away. Leader was okay looking, I engaged her a bit.
This time probability wasn’t in my favor.
Or how can I deal with girls running away?
“Don’t run away, I don’t eat you,” in a warm voice.
5
I smiled at her.
She giggled.
I chased after her.
She ran away very fast giggling.
Very strange interaction, indeed.
6 (best)
A foreigner.
Basic compliance went fine.
I used the same repartee, but the effect wasn’t that good.
Investment:
Me: Where are you from?
Her: America
Me: Hmmm ... where’s that country?
Playing dumb here was a good move, to get some investment.
Her: blah blah blah
Me: How long had you been here?
Her: Just 2 days, I’m going tomorrow
A tourist. That was very good.
Me: Oh wow, and you meet beautiful people like me
Her: Where do you live?
So then I made a mistake, just answering her and change topic.
In hindsight, this was very good. A logistics screen. I should have used a suggestion, like “My home is close by, you should visit my house sometimes.”
Always, always use that invite every single time a girl asks where is my house.

Also, there was a time where I should definitely approach:
A cute girl came out of a hotel. She came near me. I smiled at her, she looked down and one hand covering her belly. I didn’t approach because I assumed she was already satisfied. But maybe she was still in the mood, I should capitalize on it.

 

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First time instant date, oh my god
So yesterday at the barber’s, I had a theory.
I always executed well up to repartee phase (making she laugh). But I usually had trouble with Investment phase (moving her).
And then I found out a way.
Basically, making her laugh. When she is laughing, move her because it is the high point.
That theory worked out very well, and I had my first instant date.

Anyways, the approaches:
6 (best)
A cute girl. When I looked at her, she slightly turned her head away.
I ran after her, up to repartee was fine.
She laughed, and I said: “Let’s move in, to avoid the traffic,” and she moved in.
Then building rapport. She talked very little, probably a Type B, so I talked a lot to fill in the verbal space.
This girl threw a lot of objection. This was good, because I could demonstrate my value that way:
Me: What’s your hobby
Her: Why should I tell you?
Me: So we can know each other (pause) probably you’re shy because I’m so handsome, you’ll get used to it.
Throwing out the invite, “we should grab a coffee sometimes.”
Then I asked what she was doing tonight. She was going home. Now I could probably go for the pull.
Me: Is your home having something interesting?
Her: No
This probably I could do better, but for now I settled for this.
Me: You’re just home alone, that will be boring. Grab a coffee with me.
Her: Not very boring, why?
Me: Because I’m handsome and interesting.
Conversation died down a bit. After a while, we passed a coffee shop.
She pointed to it, saying “Let’s go in there.”
We went in there. She said: “We’ll sit outside.”
I was uncomfortable. Because following a girl’s compliance was bad, no matter what. Was it? In retrospect, I think it depends. If she suggests something that bring us closer to sex, follow it, otherwise dodge it.
She told me to buy a drink for her. I bought one drink, then I drank it first, and suggested we shared (a counter-offer). She told no, I could keep it.
We went outside, she told me to sit at a non-locked in seat, I just sat at the locked in seat, and waved her to sit at the non-locked in seat.
That’s how I dodge bad compliance, kids.
This girl didn’t open up however. I only knew a few basic info, like she worked office job, in other words, older than me a few years. She worked in food industry, studied economics. She was from a town, coming to a city, reading books in free time.
Also she was uncomfortable, constantly looking around. Probably I’ll have to do something about it next time.
Qualifying her:
Her: “I read a lot of books, in many genres”
Me: “That’s good. It made your inner world be interesting”
When I started asking for more info, she said: “I’m going to back home in 5 minutes.”
So this girl didn’t open up no matter what. I insisted: “Stay here, and look at me, I’m handsome.”
She laughed, then I told her a couple of stories when I studied in USA.
Then I asked about her home, and I suggested we chill in her home.
She left after a while, however.

This I think if I insisted her to stay, she probably would have complied, and if I continued to persist, this probably would result in a lay or a near-lay. But yeah, I’m happy with this for now, next time I’ll do better.
Thank you, the barber. The hair worked out very well.

 

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The 20 girls grind
So I invented a routine that make approaches look more natural, less PUA-like to onlookers.
Basically seeing the girl, then make a “Hmmm” expression, then going in and open.
That's the plan.

Anyways, the approaches:
1 (best)
A security guy stood in the path the girl, failed.
At least I smiled at him, commending him for the balls.
I ran after the girl, opening.
Up to repartee was fine.
She asked where I lived. I told her the location, and suggesting she should go to my home sometimes.
She was on the way to work, so I suggested we grab a coffee after she was off work.
She put the phone at home, I didn’t know if it was true.
Some accidental hands touching.
Anyways, I grabbed the number.

At 10th, 12th, 19th, 20th my prediction was correct, but going nowhere.
10
Prediction: Good, she looked around.
Definitely correct. This sign is very reliable.
Fine up to Introduction phase
Damn it, I forgot to make the repartee. I asked her to move right away, she didn’t comply.
12
Fine up to repartee.
Trouble was that they were on a motorbike, couldn’t ask her to move.
Next time throwing out an invite.
19
The sign was very good. We were in opposite site of the street, she waited for me to cross it.
And then I opened as usual. She was quite old, so I ejected.
20
Up to repartee was fine.
I threw out the invitation, she was waiting for her friend. Now the friend could be a big and scary guy. I had low physical strength, so I got out.

 

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When the girl initiate
So I have a new training plan.
1. Mass approach day: Up to 20 girls, go in regardless of prediction.
The purpose is to increase prediction accuracy. I need to know if I predict good/bad/unknown is correct.
2. Refining day: Up to 10 girls, go in if prediction is good or unknown.
The purpose is to practice a specific tactics. I need a higher opening rate, so I can practice a specific tactic in conversation.
3. Targeted day: Basically I don’t go out specifically to approach. Go in if prediction is good, and I mean very good.
The purpose is to improve my targeted game.

So today is the Targeted day. It was the girl in my music class.
She was in a fairly revealing clothes, and I sensed that she was open.
I was late to the class. Position was bad. She sat next to a guy.
But I swore to myself in Targeted day, I’ll initiate however tricky the situation.

So what’s the plan?
- She opened the guy. This girl was an initiator, so I had to make her initiate me and go from there.
- I was just chill, basically convey the vibe of: I’ll get what I want eventually.
- Then the guy next to me started chatting with me. I was chatting with him, be a social person in general.
- At the same time I observed the dynamics, by body language. At first the girl chased the guy, then after a while the guy started chasing, and the girl lost interest. I noted to myself, this girl is a Type A.
- I sang first. The teacher asked me if I played any sport, I said boxing, and she turned into me. Nice bumping value. Also I briefly mentioned I studied in USA, and I made the voice as confident as possible, plus a few social tactics.
- I was back. Now it was the guy turn.
- She asked me a question about the USA thing. Meaning this was what attract this girl. I answered it briefly.
- Then I stood up, smoothly moving next to the girl (locked in), so both of us don’t need to make a lot of effort (Locked in phase)
- Then a bit of chit chat (Rapport phase), and I threw out the coffee invite. She made an excuse, I scheduled a date later. She wanted a karaoke date, that was fine, because that was within Chase’s 5C. We exchanged number.
- Then I was back to my seat. Why? Least effort, I already got what I want so there was no need to hang around.
- Shortly after, I left the class, again it was least effort. If there was nothing to gain, leave.
Sending the icebreaker text, she responded.
This girl is a Type A, meaning I’ll have to let her chase.

 

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The anti-creepiness training plan
A girl blocked my number.
After a deep introspection, and reviewing my past history, I conclude that I'm creepy.

So, what's the plan?
- Using the "How to not be a creepy guy" article
- Don't persist: Persistence is importance. But during this training, and only this training, I'll mostly ask once.
- Long rapport phase: The purpose here is to train my conversation skill, learning to provide good emotions.
And a few hard rules:
- Approaching: Never go in if the girl feels fear
- During the approach: If at any point a girl feels fear or disinterested, give a slight shrug and leave immediately.
- If she don't move or invest little, drop.
- Ask for instant date / phone number once
- Text once, if no answer, drop
- If she answered the text, but she dodged, call once. If no answer, drop.
- During a date: Probably I'm safe, because girls never fear once they are in a date with me. But I'll generally err on the safe side.

Training for at least one month, exclusively in this area.
I already finished all items in my checklist already (number, date, instant date, kiss, lay), except getting a girlfriend. I don't need to prove to myself anymore. So I don't expect any result.

 

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Anyways, the approaches:
1
Prediction: Very good
A group of three.
I approached the leader, using group opener.
Then I opened the follower, the leader helped out a bit. So generally in group game, approach the leader first.
Up to repartee was fine.
In investment phase, I asked for her hobby. Pretty normal answer, I threw a fatherly wiseass.
Probably it didn’t work, she turned her body away.
I waited 3 seconds, then eject.
2
Prediction: Very good
Opening, up to repartee was fine.
I skipped Investment, instead pacing her reality: “What book do you buy?”
Then build rapport.
She liked to read books and listen to music.
Invite her to coffee. She objected: “I can’t go out with stranger.”
I dealt with it: “A handsome stranger, that is.”
She laughed nervously, but moving away. I bid her goodbye.
So the plan is to give a lot of good feeling, then invite, and give more good feeling when she object. If she still don’t want it, bid her goodbye. At least during this training.

 

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Talk about fighting
6 approaches, they didn't work out. But there was a gang fight, and I thought it was really cool.
Yeah, if I get into a fight, I don't think I can win.

I took the Krav Maga class, and in my opinion it wasn't that useful. Some of it was good. The problem is that, these disarming techniques are quite complicated. I seriously doubt I can pull it off in a real fight.
Boxing was good though, the moves were simple. Although I haven't been in the ring so I can't say for sure.

 

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On the way to the gym
So recently, I realized a scary truth: Even if I follow the best path, there is no guarantee to success.
I might improve my life situation, sure. But crazy success? There is no guarantee.

By the way, never forget my goal. Never forget my value. For example, I have 3 goals/values:
a) Money
b) Girls
c) Physical strength
And no matter the situation I'm in, I'll do at least one action everyday in each category.
Let say hypothetically I got in the prison, then I'll do: a) studying a useful trade like medicine, b) socialize, and c) workout.

Anyways, the approaches:
4 (best)
Pair opener worked
Up to repartee was fine.
I asked her the hobby. She liked to tour.
Investment: I asked her to moved,
“Stand closer to the sidewalk, the traffic”
She complied.
Rapport was bad, still I threw out the invite.
Okay, so I could do well up to Investment (with a certain probability). Now I need to really up my conversation skills for rapport phase.

 

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The approach on the airplane
So recently, I realized that one of the most important skill, is to master both artificial structure and personal appeal.

Anyway, the approach:
On the airplane, I went with my mom and aunt.
A girl sat next to us, but she had the ticket wrong, so she ended up in between my mom and me.
I remembered she talked a bit, I asked for her name. I introduced myself.
Skipping the repartee, this was indirect context.
Some deep conversation, some light flirting.
I dealt with tests fine.
Her: Sing a song for me
Me: No, my voice is so good, you’ll leave your husband and follow me
Her: Just sing, it’s fine
Me: Anyways do you travel a lot?
Another test. She gave me her business card. I just shoved it in my pocket.
Her: You just shoved it to your pocket
Me: It’s a part of ritual
Her: What ritual?
Me: In America, people folded business card in half, to show respect
The “blatant lie” technique
Her: Ohhh, that’s new. I’ll use it next time I meet a customer
Me: Just kidding. Don’t do it
The fatherly wiseass.
Her (laugh): Don’t make me lose a customer
Another test:
Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
Me: It’s complicated
Mom: He doesn’t have
Just another test, I welcomed it.
Me: I met a lot of people but it wasn’t going anywhere
I noticed her age group, in that case I used the 21-24, the “I will take over the world” identity.
At some point, she said, “So how can I meet the future Bill Gate?”
Just a part of seduction
Me: Just trade number, we should hang out sometimes
Got the number. After that I just fell asleep.

She constantly touched me. Her body was hot, so probably she was horny right now, and I should go for instant date.
Or not.
Because her leg sign was negative / neutral, and in my experience that sign was pretty reliable.
Plus logistics nightmare. I was going with my mom, she had someone picked her up.
So at the end I woke up, scheduling a meet when we went back to my city.
Reason was that this was her city, she had kids there, so meeting in this city would be convenient.
So I’d rather take the number, and schedule a meet from there.

She hadn’t respond to the initial text yet, so I couldn’t say for sure.
Initial text:
“Hello (her name), nice to meet you save my number - (my name)”
I expected low probability though, due to culture programming and guilt
So, what’s the plan?
- If she didn’t respond, I would not respond either UNTIL we got back to my city (both of us return on the same day). Why? To demonstrate that I get it. She don’t want a man text her when she was with her husband and children, it would destroy her family. But when she goes back, she want a lover.
- Exact time: one day after that, 10 am
- Content: Something like I have return, we should grab a coffee

 

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The "Make girls feel special" training plan
So I was on vacation. The first thing I did was to approach 18 girls.

And I found big issues with my game.
Girls were rude. This meant I need to examine my value and attainability

The first thing I examined was my presentation (value):
- Body language: Good, but not least effort. When there was shit test, my hand swung around a bit.
- Voice: Girls didn't understand me, my voice wasn't clear.
- Fashion: Good, especially the leather jacket really made me stood out.
- Social: Did I handle social situations well? I think I did okay, however I would need to approach in tricky situations, and find a way to get what I want, to truly improve my social skills.

Attainability:
- I used a canned opener, "Hello, I was over there (pointing my hands), I see that you're beautiful."
I can did a specific compliment, like "... I like your clothes"
Example:
14th had a bright red clothes. She threw a shit test after the opener, however I didn't respond to it.
15th had a lace around her dresses. She was smiling but she said she was busy right now. Meaning I can do better.
This probably needs sometimes to get it right.

- Responding to sign: Really, I need to respond to girls who are into me.
Example:
18th: The girl I approached was indeed look worse, but the sign was good. Her friend moved away, a very good sign because she wanted privacy for us. But I moved to the friend instead, because she looked better.
At my level I must always prioritize sign over look.

Some inner game analysis:
I wonder why did I respond to looks rather than signs? My thinking was that "I don't want the beautiful girl to think 'Ha, he just went for this plain girl because she's easier.'"
Oh, well.
I have no shame. No shame on that. At the end of the day, I still want the pussy. Next time if a plain girl gave me sign, going in. If she rejects me, either I read the sign wrong or my game needs work.

By the way, the training plan:
- Compliment on specific things.
- Responding to signs
- Using the "Make girls feel special" article
The pros is that it raises both my value and attainability. The cons is that it raises my effort. But I think the net result is going to be good.

Recently I started working on a business idea, and I felt very good about it. No guarantee it would succeed, though, but I think I will learn a lot if I really try to win.

 

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Reading signs
Based on the result of this outing, my reading ability wasn’t that good. Need practice.
One trick I used was to imagine: What if I’m a girl looking for a mate? Where would I go? How I will attract men?
And going from there.
One sign I often miss was the “looking down” sign. For example, the office girl passed by me.
Capitalize on that sign from now on. The probability certainly will be better.
Really need to approach signs, so my targeted game will get better.

Anyways, the approaches:
3
French tourist
Prediction: Good, she had bright pink shirt, she stared at another guy
Up to repartee was good. I build a bit of rapport before that.
Investment was so so. She automatically stop. However, she didn’t move when I asked, playing around with this.
Rapport was so-so, I didn’t deep dive that well.
Then she wanted to go into the temple. I invited her in. Some touch to raise my attainability.
She said she must go alone.
Okay, I need to train more in Investment and Rapport phase.
Also I think with tourists, I need to tone up my game, meaning “smooth like a devil.”
Because Western tourists are used to pickup artists, so they will expect a Latin-Lover-grade game.
The locals weren’t used to pickup artists, so the “cool guy happened to spot them” game can work out well. I tested this style from 5th to 8th.
6 (best)
Prediction: Good, I smiled at her, she smiled at me
Indirect context
Up to repartee was fine
Investment, I told her to move over there, the book she wanted was there.
She complied. She followed me around.
She liked skill books.
Rapport was bad though, mainly because I didn’t read the book she read.
Or do I even need rapport? Just lead her a little bit more, then throw out the invite.
15
Prediction: Good, she broke group, standing alone.
Up to repartee was fine.
Investment,
Building a bit rapport, then I touched her headphone, she flinched out a bit.
Meaning need more comfort.
Rapport was so so. She liked to read books, detective horror novel.
Other than that, she was a local.
She liked climbing mountain.
Throwing out the coffee invite, too soon. Should ask her to move.

 

[readjusting]

The niche thing
I seemed to do better with bookworms. Also they don't require a lot of muscles, that is great.
Let's niche in this type.
The generalist dream is real. But I'd rather do well with a subset of girls, and getting some results first.

Anyways, the approaches:
2
A girl positioned herself near me. Another girl positioned herself opposite me.
I opened the girl near me.
Up to introduction was fine, however this girl didn’t not comply with basic compliance.
And the girl opposite of me looked immediately when I initiated, and started talking with us soon. She liked me all along. Man, should have switched to her and introduce.
Lesson 1:
Bad targeting was fine, but in this situation recovery is completely possible.
Lesson 2:
If she likes you, switch. You can find either: a) she likes you or b) you are wrong, but your targeting will get better.
Lesson 3:
Girl in opposite was better than girl in side. Because the girl in opposite put herself fully in my vision.
Usually inexperienced girls will do this because it is blunt.

Inner game:
I was afraid being judged as wishy-washy.
No shame in it man. We call it “being flexible” and flexibility is attractive, because it demonstrates social intelligence.

 

[readjusting]

The “I’m not good enough” thing
Missed a blonde tourist coming close to me and a bleached girl staring at me.
“I’m not good enough”
I’m tired of hearing that. If I don’t approach, I miss an opportunity to become better.
“Not my niche”
What if they’re awesome people? How do you know?

A masked girl stared at me
“Masked girl usually won’t open anyway”
Yes, it is legit. If a masked girl with no sign, usually it didn’t go well.
But not ALL masked girls.
A masked girl with strong signs like staring is worth checking out.

Anyways, the approaches:
1
Prediction: Good, she came in my lane, she smiled when I smiled at her.
Direct opener.
She said if I need something, she need to hurry.
Meaning she misheard the opener.
I mumbled. God damn it. Speak clearly.
2 (best)
A blonde foreigner in the gym
Prediction: Good, she came close to me. Twice.
After the second time she came close to me, I said to myself, “Fuck not good enough. I’m gonna talk to her and get better.”
Let’s give a lot of value. Good tease, good connection, asking her out, don’t be boring.
She lived in my country for 2 years. I said: “My country has a lot of beautiful people, like me” for a laugh.
Some qualifying
Me: What make you go to this gym
Her: I want a good body
Me: I can see. You have a very fit body.
Her: How about you?
Increase my attainability
Me: To get a big arm (flex my arm)
Asking out was clumsy, “Are you free after this.”
She said, “No, I have to eat.”
Should have said, “You should join me for dinner,” but I didn’t.
I exited the conversation soon after. That was part of value: knowing how to exit the conversation at the right time.
The principle is: If there’s nothing to gain, leave.

 

[readjusting]

Moving girls
So previously Investment phase, or moving girls was my sticking point.
I figured it out today.

Anyways, the approaches:
2
Prediction: Good, she was in white dress
Direct instead of pair opener
Up to repartee was fine
Investment was good. At first she won’t move, but then she moved.
Rapport.
She studied medicine. I asked why not doctor for example, she said medicine was easier.
The last girl I pulled home is also a medicine student. How coincident.
Other than that, she born here. Stayed in this city her whole life. Never travel.
She liked to go out, however.
I seeded my home, then coffee date.
She wouldn’t bite.
Then later on she mentioned a boyfriend. Why not earlier? Because I didn’t persist well, but generally if asking for dates 3 times didn’t work, next.
7 (best)
A pair of bleached girl tourists from the beach city
Predict: Good, just because I felt it
Pair opener
Dealing with test:
Me: What’s your hobby?
Her: Eating
Me: I can’t believe I’m that delicious
They laughed.
Moving her was easy. Touching a lot. Lovely skin.
I chatted with her friend a bit. Her friend moved away for us.
She toured my city and she would come home tomorrow.
I showed sexual intent there. Tourists, especially if they were into me, wanted to hook up fast.
Instant date, she resisted however. I also seeded in my home.
I didn’t think I build enough rapport.