6 January 2017: Bali, Indonesia.
I matched with 22 year old Dea on Tinder. She had a flight the next morning and said that she was sad that we wouldn't be able to meet up because it was already quite late that night.
I asked if she wanted to meet up later that night, but she said that she didn't want to meet me in Kuta (where I was staying) because she wasn't confident about riding her motorbike there. I suggested meeting elsewhere, but she didn't respond to my message until around close to midnight.
From that conversation alone, I knew that I was gonna get laid.
I jumped on the Uber that she ordered for me and it was about a half hour ride to her place. She met me outside her apartment and greeted me at the car. She had a petite frame and a cute body. She stood at around 5'1. Her skin was tanned, and she had short hair. Turns out she'd cut off her gorgeous long hair just a couple of days ago. She definitely looked better with long hair. She looked a bit boyish with short hair - but she was still cute. Her clothing was not the most flattering - baggy pyjamas.
She invited me inside and we sat on the bed at a moderate distance apart from each other. She was an architect, a painter, and a photographer. She had a couple of her original paintings hung up on her wall. I deep dived her a bit about her paintings, what she was doing with her life, and her travels. I succeeded in making her feel comfortable by making sure that I myself was comfortable. My body language was laid back and relaxed. I put on a warm smile and threw in some laughs to keep the mood light and dispel any negative tension.
At one point I asked her where she was from. She told me that she was from Java. I whipped out my phone and told her to show me it on the map, using this as an excuse to break the touch barrier and close the distance between us. I asked to use her bathroom.
When I returned, she was sitting and leaning against the back of the bed. I went to join her. The vibe was quite comfortable. There was a big long pillow sitting between us which was a barrier for physical escalation. I continued to deep dive her some more, without diving too deep. At one point I grabbed onto her hand and held it. I held onto it for the remainder of the conversation, gently stroking her hands and fingers.
I kept the vibe light and playful. She kept on laughing at my voice, saying that I sounded like an actor. She said my voice sounded really nice, like a radio show host. She mentioned this a couple of times. I playfully pretended to be offended and told her off for teasing me. We shared a couple of laughs about it, and it was instrumental in keeping the mood comfortable and negative tension free. The sexual tension however, was palpable.
At one point I brought her hand close to my face and I gently guided her fingers through my face and my hair. I ran my lips gently over her hands before kissing them. She didn't show any signs of resistance.
At one point mid-conversation, I leaned in to kiss her forehead. It was not well received. She said, "What? You kissed me? We cannot do that, we just met today!" I playfully brushed it off. "Oh girl, are you shy? Does it make you shy when I kiss you?" I teased. She was telling me how Indonesian girls are more conservative compared to girls from the West. After more playful conversation, I leaned into teasingly kiss her head again, but she leaned way back and I didn't even connect my lips with her skin. I laughed it off and changed the topic.
I threw in a couple of chase frames throughout.
The conversation continued and I continued to land more kisses. She still resisted a little bit, on the basis that we had just met that night. She did not even once kiss me back. I told her, "Okay girl, I'm gonna teach you how to kiss properly." She just resisted some more and told me that she didn't kiss back because we'd just met. At one point she went to the bathroom and switched off all the lights upon her return, getting us ready for bed. We cuddled in bed for a while. I was still wearing my jeans and she asked me why I didn't bring shorts (we had already agreed that I was going to stay the night on Facebook). I decided to take off my jeans because it was too hot.
We cuddled in bed facing each other for a while but she still refused to kiss me back and was avoiding my advances. My heart was beating fast, and she could tell - not good. I knew it was time to switch up my strategy.
I proceeded to massage her shoulders, and received taken compliance as I began to firmly hold and massage her hands and arms. I told her to lie on her stomach 2 minutes into the massage, and I popped on my melancholic deep house and techno playlist which really contributed to a sensual vibe. I started by massaging her back before pulling her shirt up so that I could massage her properly. She complied. I thought about unhooking her bra, but I figured that it would've been counterproductive. I concluded that it would've been better to make her horny before removing her bra. I worked her back for a little bit and asked her if she was enjoying my massage. She said that she was. I sporadically kissed her back.
I then worked my way down and massaged her feet, calves and hamstrings through her loose fitting pants. I massaged very close to her pussy occasionally, and at times far away from it. I asked her whether she was enjoying her massage. She was. I worked her inner thighs a bit more before I told her I was going to remove her pants as I slid them off of her. No resistance. I worked her calves, feet and thighs some more, before focussing my hands on her inner thighs, right next to her pussy. At one point I began rubbing the very edge of her pussy. I asked her if she was enjoying her massage. She was.
At one point she flipped over and laid on her back. I massaged her inner thighs some more before planting my face on her panties and sniffing her pussy. At this point my cock was rock hard and I moved face up to hers and thrusted my cock against her pussy. I moaned loudly.
At this point, we'd reach the point of no return, and her panties came off very easily. I dry humped her some more. At this point she wasn't very vocal or passionate, but after some more warming up, she begged me to lick her pussy. I teased her a bit.
I happily obliged. I teased her by licking everywhere but her pussy, before working her clit with my tongue and her pussy with my fingers. She moaned loudly. I then removed her bra and sucked on her deliciously perky nippes. They were incredible. I then popped on a condom and railed her adapted missionary for a while. We both came at the exact same time which was dope.
We then cleaned up and went to sleep. I was awoken the next morning with her hand rubbing my cock, which was sweet. We then went for round 2 before she called me an Uber back to my hostel.
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Finishing thoughts:
I think I did a good job with establishing comfort, maintaining a sexual and playful vibe, and overcoming resistance in general. The playfulness in my escalation was really useful in handling LMR. I was also very attuned to her body movements and took a step back whenever I encountered even the subtlest form of resistance when I played with her legs. I made sure not to rush her. I did well by building up taken compliance when massaging her. I frequently asked her whether she was enjoying my massage which was good. Getting her to vocalise that she was enjoying herself was helpful, and it was also compliance which made the transition into higher levels of physical escalation and the removal of clothing smoother. I think I did well with my dirty talk and dominance as well, which helped to prevent potential LMR. Overall, my vibe was playful, sexual and dominant. I successful out framed her previous mindset of not allowing guys to kiss her on the first date, as well as the idea that we were just hanging out as friends and that sex was not an option. Overall, a solid lay.
Jeffrey
I matched with 22 year old Dea on Tinder. She had a flight the next morning and said that she was sad that we wouldn't be able to meet up because it was already quite late that night.
I asked if she wanted to meet up later that night, but she said that she didn't want to meet me in Kuta (where I was staying) because she wasn't confident about riding her motorbike there. I suggested meeting elsewhere, but she didn't respond to my message until around close to midnight.
Her: Halo sorry i went out from my apartment having dinner
Are u free?
Me: It's ok
Ya I'm free
Her: Where ru now
But u hve a girlfriend right?
Me: No haha
What makes you think that?
And I'm still in kuta
Her: I saw it on instagram haha
Me: Who?
I don't know which picture you're talking about haha
Her: U at your hotel?
Me: Yup
Where is good for you to meet?
Her: Like right niw
Me: Ok
Will you ride on your bike?
Her: No u come to my place with uber
Me: Oh ok
How far away is it?
Her: But no sex ya
Haha be friend
In denpasar
Me: Hahahaha, I never said anything about sex haha
Her: Im still talking with my friend now about my job
Me: Okay how many kilometres away?
Her: Because i met u on tinder
Me: What is the address?
Her: Can u come around 1am by uber?
I will send my uber driver to pick u up
From that conversation alone, I knew that I was gonna get laid.
I jumped on the Uber that she ordered for me and it was about a half hour ride to her place. She met me outside her apartment and greeted me at the car. She had a petite frame and a cute body. She stood at around 5'1. Her skin was tanned, and she had short hair. Turns out she'd cut off her gorgeous long hair just a couple of days ago. She definitely looked better with long hair. She looked a bit boyish with short hair - but she was still cute. Her clothing was not the most flattering - baggy pyjamas.
She invited me inside and we sat on the bed at a moderate distance apart from each other. She was an architect, a painter, and a photographer. She had a couple of her original paintings hung up on her wall. I deep dived her a bit about her paintings, what she was doing with her life, and her travels. I succeeded in making her feel comfortable by making sure that I myself was comfortable. My body language was laid back and relaxed. I put on a warm smile and threw in some laughs to keep the mood light and dispel any negative tension.
At one point I asked her where she was from. She told me that she was from Java. I whipped out my phone and told her to show me it on the map, using this as an excuse to break the touch barrier and close the distance between us. I asked to use her bathroom.
When I returned, she was sitting and leaning against the back of the bed. I went to join her. The vibe was quite comfortable. There was a big long pillow sitting between us which was a barrier for physical escalation. I continued to deep dive her some more, without diving too deep. At one point I grabbed onto her hand and held it. I held onto it for the remainder of the conversation, gently stroking her hands and fingers.
I kept the vibe light and playful. She kept on laughing at my voice, saying that I sounded like an actor. She said my voice sounded really nice, like a radio show host. She mentioned this a couple of times. I playfully pretended to be offended and told her off for teasing me. We shared a couple of laughs about it, and it was instrumental in keeping the mood comfortable and negative tension free. The sexual tension however, was palpable.
At one point I brought her hand close to my face and I gently guided her fingers through my face and my hair. I ran my lips gently over her hands before kissing them. She didn't show any signs of resistance.
At one point mid-conversation, I leaned in to kiss her forehead. It was not well received. She said, "What? You kissed me? We cannot do that, we just met today!" I playfully brushed it off. "Oh girl, are you shy? Does it make you shy when I kiss you?" I teased. She was telling me how Indonesian girls are more conservative compared to girls from the West. After more playful conversation, I leaned into teasingly kiss her head again, but she leaned way back and I didn't even connect my lips with her skin. I laughed it off and changed the topic.
I threw in a couple of chase frames throughout.
At one point I playfully asked her what she thought about me. I changed my tone of voice from deep and sultry to playfully sweet and cute. I asked, "So what do you think about me? Do you think I'm cute? Sweet...? Ugly...? Smelly...? Like an angel? What do you think about me girl?" She replied by saying that she thought I was really cute. I passionately rewarded by telling her that she was sweet and I landed a kiss onto her lips for a little while. She did not kiss me back.
The conversation continued and I continued to land more kisses. She still resisted a little bit, on the basis that we had just met that night. She did not even once kiss me back. I told her, "Okay girl, I'm gonna teach you how to kiss properly." She just resisted some more and told me that she didn't kiss back because we'd just met. At one point she went to the bathroom and switched off all the lights upon her return, getting us ready for bed. We cuddled in bed for a while. I was still wearing my jeans and she asked me why I didn't bring shorts (we had already agreed that I was going to stay the night on Facebook). I decided to take off my jeans because it was too hot.
We cuddled in bed facing each other for a while but she still refused to kiss me back and was avoiding my advances. My heart was beating fast, and she could tell - not good. I knew it was time to switch up my strategy.
I proceeded to massage her shoulders, and received taken compliance as I began to firmly hold and massage her hands and arms. I told her to lie on her stomach 2 minutes into the massage, and I popped on my melancholic deep house and techno playlist which really contributed to a sensual vibe. I started by massaging her back before pulling her shirt up so that I could massage her properly. She complied. I thought about unhooking her bra, but I figured that it would've been counterproductive. I concluded that it would've been better to make her horny before removing her bra. I worked her back for a little bit and asked her if she was enjoying my massage. She said that she was. I sporadically kissed her back.
I then worked my way down and massaged her feet, calves and hamstrings through her loose fitting pants. I massaged very close to her pussy occasionally, and at times far away from it. I asked her whether she was enjoying her massage. She was. I worked her inner thighs a bit more before I told her I was going to remove her pants as I slid them off of her. No resistance. I worked her calves, feet and thighs some more, before focussing my hands on her inner thighs, right next to her pussy. At one point I began rubbing the very edge of her pussy. I asked her if she was enjoying her massage. She was.
At one point she flipped over and laid on her back. I massaged her inner thighs some more before planting my face on her panties and sniffing her pussy. At this point my cock was rock hard and I moved face up to hers and thrusted my cock against her pussy. I moaned loudly.
At this point, we'd reach the point of no return, and her panties came off very easily. I dry humped her some more. At this point she wasn't very vocal or passionate, but after some more warming up, she begged me to lick her pussy. I teased her a bit.
I happily obliged. I teased her by licking everywhere but her pussy, before working her clit with my tongue and her pussy with my fingers. She moaned loudly. I then removed her bra and sucked on her deliciously perky nippes. They were incredible. I then popped on a condom and railed her adapted missionary for a while. We both came at the exact same time which was dope.
We then cleaned up and went to sleep. I was awoken the next morning with her hand rubbing my cock, which was sweet. We then went for round 2 before she called me an Uber back to my hostel.
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Finishing thoughts:
I think I did a good job with establishing comfort, maintaining a sexual and playful vibe, and overcoming resistance in general. The playfulness in my escalation was really useful in handling LMR. I was also very attuned to her body movements and took a step back whenever I encountered even the subtlest form of resistance when I played with her legs. I made sure not to rush her. I did well by building up taken compliance when massaging her. I frequently asked her whether she was enjoying my massage which was good. Getting her to vocalise that she was enjoying herself was helpful, and it was also compliance which made the transition into higher levels of physical escalation and the removal of clothing smoother. I think I did well with my dirty talk and dominance as well, which helped to prevent potential LMR. Overall, my vibe was playful, sexual and dominant. I successful out framed her previous mindset of not allowing guys to kiss her on the first date, as well as the idea that we were just hanging out as friends and that sex was not an option. Overall, a solid lay.
Jeffrey
