This is a report about the two dates I went on with a girl who told me that she was in love with me. It's a long read at around 6000 words. Perhaps skip it if you're looking for a shorter read. 
Date1: 22 December 2016: Bangkok, Thailand
I matched with 22 year old Pop from Thailand on Tinder. We met outside a shopping centre near where I was staying, but I didn't have WiFi, so I couldn't pinpoint exactly where she was. I bought something from McDonald's so that I could use the WiFi. She ended up meeting me inside McDonald's and sat down on a seat opposite me. We introduced ourselves and she told me that she was excited to see me.
She had medium-long length hair, with a warm face and braces. She wasn't conventionally pretty, but still cute. She stood at around 5'2 and had a slim, petite frame. I don't remember what she was wearing.
After our introduction, I went up to the counter to grab some more food. This was my first ever McDonald's date haha. Pop's English wasn't very good so it was difficult to communicate with her. Google Translate was very helpful.
I deep dived her about her studies, and her travels within Thailand. She wanted to travel to New Zealand. She told me how she liked going shopping in street markets and watching movies. She loved Harry Potter. Pop was a very shy girl. Whenever I looked her in the eyes and threw in some pregnant pauses, she would start to laugh and coyly cover her hand with her mouth. I found her coyness to be very attractive.
At one point I asked her to teach me some Thai. We both had fun doing so and shared a few laughs over it. I asked her to speak a bit of Thai, because I wanted to hear how she sounded speaking it. She ended up saying a bunch of stuff whilst giggling and smiling. When I asked her what she said, she said that she thought I was hot. I warmly rewarded her by telling her that she was sweet and that I thought she was cute. I smiled warmly and sweetly at her.
I asked her whether she played any instruments, but she didn't understand me, so I told her to give me her hand as I inspected it. They were long and slender and I told her that she had good hands for piano. I held onto her hands over the table for the rest of our conversation. She didn't actually play any instruments or sing. Still, I told her that I wanted to hear her sing later.
I then suggested going for a walk to move things forwards. I grabbed her hands a few seconds into walking. We ended up walking for a very long time because we couldn't find anywhere to sit. We talked sparingly about a bunch of stuff. I was just bringing up random topics to keep the conversation going. It was frustrating that I couldn't find a good place for us to sit down. At one point, I decided to pull standing up.
"I kinda feel like watching a movie. Do you want to watch a movie now?" I asked. She didn't really understand what I was saying, so I had to repeat myself a couple of times. She agreed to watch a movie. I told her that we could watch Harry Potter. Once again, she didn't completely understand what I was saying, and seemed a little uncertain about my pull. I figured that I’d change the subject, and pull her again once we were seated.
We went inside a small shopping centre and grabbed a seat. I pulled again with the help of Google Translate, but it turned out logistics were bad because she had a roommate. Damn. I figured that I would just try to escalate physically at a secluded location.
We walked hand in hand to a park. It took an additional 20 minutes of walking. During that time, we didn't speak very much, mainly due to the language barrier. I managed to keep the vibe intimate still because I was massaging her hand sweetly as I held it. Nevertheless, the atmosphere was feeling a little bit stale because we'd spent far too long walking.
Eventually we arrived at a park after a long walk, but we could only sit down for a little while because the park was closing. We got up and ended up sitting on the edge of the street overlooking a small pond. There were many people sitting next to us, and there wasn't a whole lot of privacy. I tried to get her to face me a couple of times but she was too shy. Whenever she met my eyes, she coyly turned her face away and told me that she was really shy. I thought that her shyness was simply adorable.
At one point I leaned in to kiss her cheek, and she told me that I couldn't kiss her because there were people watching us. I told her that I thought it was cute that she was shy around me, yet not so shy around other people (she'd mentioned before that she was only shy around strangers and hot guys). I continued to playfully kiss her a couple of times, which was met with more playful resistance. I ended up asking her how she felt about me kissing her. She told me that she liked it when I kissed her, but there were too many people around. Lack of logistics and privacy were a true pain in the ass.
Overall, my vibe was very sweet and playful. I think playfulness is an incredibly powerful tool when used correctly, and is something that I slightly neglected in the past.
I was actively looking for an opportunity to kiss her, but she was too shy, and didn't look at me a lot of the time. I felt that kissing her would've been too much.
Eventually around half an hour had passed and it was 9.30. She said that she had to head on home.
We walked together to the station and we took the train to the same station. On the train, I had my arms up, with my hands hanging onto the railing. I playfully rested my cheek on her arm and told her that my face was hot. We both shared a laugh.
When we exited the train, I had my hand around her waist and I playfully pinched it. She laughed and she clearly enjoyed my silliness. I pinched her waist a couple more times, and she eventually retaliated by tickling me. At this point, we were both laughing and all traces of negative tension was dispelled.
We ended up parting ways as she changed to the metro line, and I walked back to my hostel. As we said goodbye, Pop said, "Don't forget me."
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Post-date:
I didn't expect to see Pop ever again. I was leaving for Phuket in 2 days, and logistics were terrible so I wasn’t keen for date 2. She messaged me on Facebook immediately after our date, and at multiple instances later that week as well.
A few days later:
We chatted every other day since our first date. I wasn’t expecting to ever see her again. However, change of plans meant that I had a flight from Bangkok to Indonesia on 3 January. I told her that I was returning to Bangkok. She said that she wanted to see me again.
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Date 2: 2 January 2017
We scheduled to meet at McDonald’s yet again, this time on Khaosan Road. I’d gone in to buy something so that I could use the WiFi to connect to Pop, but by the time I’d gone outside, I saw her standing near the entrance. I walked up to her slowly said hello and I extended my hand for a hand clasp. She seemed visibly nervous and I don’t think she noticed my hand, so we awkwardly did not touch each other upon our greeting.
I decided that we would take a walk along Khaosan Road in an attempt to find somewhere good to eat. I broke the touch barrier by grabbing onto her hand and holding it as we walked down the road. I needed to offset the awkward introduction as soon as possible.
I’d forgotten how limited Pop’s English ability was. She didn’t understand what I was saying half of the time, so I remembered to use only very basic English words. Communicating with her was difficult, but by keeping the vibe light and playful, I managed to eradicate most of the negative tension that had built up due to her shyness and difficulties in communication.
We walked for about 20 minutes looking for a good place to eat. I suggested eating street food for dinner. We ordered our food and sat down on our flimsy plastic chairs. The food was pretty mediocre. I use hand sanitiser to disinfect my cutlery before commencing. I told her about the time I got food poisoning in Hanoi because of dirty cutlery. She seemed to find this amusing.
As we ate our dinner, and I tried to keep the vibe light and didn’t really deep dive her much. It was a bit of a struggle to come up with new topics to talk about, especially considering our difficulties in communication. We talked about which places I’d visited in Bangkok, and interesting places and sights nearby. I suggested walking down to the river to Phra Sumen fort after dinner and she agreed. She ended up paying for the bill, and refused when I offered to split it which was really sweet of her. I thanked her warmly for dinner.
Walked to a nearby stall because Pop wanted some water, but I just offered mine so we didn’t have to wait in the queue. I told her to stuff her denim jacket in my bag because it was too hot to wear it. She was wearing a tight black singlet underneath which was very flattering.
We walked hand in hand toward the fort. She tried to lead us there, but we weren’t going in the right direction according to Google maps, so I corrected our course to the right direction. I had to whip out my phone for directions and pour cold water over it to get it to work. My phone overheats all the time, and refuses to work when it’s overheated. She thought it was pretty funny that I had to pour water on it. While we were walking, she taught me different words in Thai. This was really helpful in dispelling negative tension, and keeping the mood fun and light. We shared a couple of laughs at my inability to say certain sentences correctly.
Eventually we arrived at the fort, and walked around the grassy area overlooking the river. I was looking for a secluded place to sit where I could escalate. Initially, I ended up picking a bad spot, because upon second glance, there were people nearby. I realised this a couple of seconds into sitting down, so I got up and said, “Oh that thing looks cool. I wonder what it is,” as I walked toward an interesting structure a couple of metres away. This was quick thinking on my behalf.
I led us to another area far more secluded, at the very bottom of some large steps, overlooking the river. The area wasn’t completely private however, as people walking on the footpath above the steps could see us. Still, the area was private enough. It was time to physically escalate. The game plan was to either escalate into public sex, or turn her on and book a private room together. Again, my logistics were terrible because I was staying in a hostel dorm. She told me that she was staying at her friends place that night, with only one bed in the apartment, so I couldn’t pull to her place.
The vibe now was much more intimate as we were now in a dark, secluded area, and mostly out sight from prying eyes. Pop however, was still extremely shy. I led the interaction strongly, and pulled her into me. I physically moved her legs and angled them towards me so that it was more comfortable and easier to kiss her. I started off by giving brief kisses to her cheek, but she shyly pulled back after my kisses, on the basis that the man sitting above the steps on the bench could see us. The lighting was very dim, and we were at the bottom of a flight of steep steps, so he would’ve only been able to barely see us. Even still, Pop was shy.
She told me how in Thailand, public displays of affection are inappropriate. But still, I persisted anyway. I threw in some sweet talk in the mix. My tone of voice was very gentle and cute, and I said things like, “Oh are you shy girl? Haha you’re so cute.” I also told her on occasion that I liked shy girls. I was really honest and upfront with how attractive I found her.
I went for the kiss at some point. I told her to close her eyes a couple of times, but it was met with coy resistance. Eventually, I managed to get her to close her eyes and I re-positioned my body and leaned my head in to lock our lips twice. It felt really nice to kiss her. The kiss was received by shyness and embarrassment because we were out in public. However, it was clear that she enjoyed the kiss.
I tried to kiss her a couple of time after that, but it was met with some more resistance, purely because we were not in a private location. I figured that I’d throw in a strong frame. I told her that people didn’t care that we were kissing, and that they would barely have been able to see us anyway, especially since we had our backs facing them. I told her that even if a passerby saw us, it would have been met with an indifferent, ‘Oh cool. Those two are kissing,’ before going on their way. This frame seemed to calm her down a little.
We made out several times after that. Her aura was teeming with nervous excitement. At one instance, her legs were in the perfect position and I was able to massage and rub her bare inner thighs with my hand. I eventually moved my hand closer and closer to her pussy, until I was rubbing the very edge of her pussy through her shorts. I continued this for a bit, and I could tell that she liked it. But when I moved slightly closer to her pussy, she moved my hand away. I took a step back.
I tried to escalate further, but progress was slow. Eventually the security came to kick us out. The area was closing down for the night. We ended up walking down the street and up and across the river over a bridge. She taught me a couple more Thai words and names of some landmarks off into the distance. It was clear that the both of us were having a great time. It was interesting for me to learn Thai, and funny for her to have to hear my poorly pronounced Thai words. My whole vibe was quite playful and cute, which was helpful in cementing good vibes. On the bridge, I stopped and pulled her into me for a kiss, which she enjoyed. She didn’t seem to care that we were in plain sight of dozens of cars passing us by on the road.
Eventually, we turned around. She had to meet up with her friends at Khaosan Road, for a belated New Year’s party. Pop invited me to come along, and she said that she’d told her friends all about me and that she wanted me to meet them. I wasn’t really keen on tagging along because I was already quite tired, and not a fan of turning this into a party date.
We walked back towards Khaosan Road, but not before we stopped by the fort again. I told her that I was tired and wanted to sit down for a bit. We sat down in a semi-secluded area, and I tried to escalate again. I didn’t get anything past a few kisses here and there, and some resistance. There were people passing by every now and then, which made Pop nervous.
I led us to a more secluded area. I told her that I had to use the bathroom around the corner and extended out my hand and said, “Let’s go.” She refused and said that it was not safe. I held strong to my frame and said that I was busting and told her that it would be fine. So she came along to a secluded area with me, but the toilets were close. There was a small barrier guarding in the entrance. We could’ve escalated then and there outside the bathroom, or better yet even inside the bathroom since we wouldn’t have been interrupted in that case, but this idea didn’t occur to me until we were on our way and walking back towards Khaosan Road. But in retrospect, the fact that Pop didn’t feel safe in the area we were in would’ve made it difficult to escalate there. I found a couple of places here and there on our walk back to possibly escalate further, but I was tired and had an early flight the next morning, so I decided to just leave it and head back to my hostel to get some rest.
She walked me back to my hostel, and I was slightly bummed that we couldn’t get together because of logistical reasons. We shared a kiss and said our goodbyes. This was perhaps the last time we would see each other again.
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I entered my room, laid down on my bed and messed around on my phone for a bit. She messaged me 30 minutes later.
She got the okay from her friend to allow me to crash at his place. Turns out Pop was staying at her friend’s place that night, but she had the whole place to herself, since her friend was staying at some other girl’s place. I got ready, and then went off to meet her again. I was meant to meet her at a bar and leave together with her, but there was an entrance fee that I wasn’t keen on paying.
I found a WiFi connection and messaged her telling her that I’d arrived. I asked whether or not she was planning on staying for long because I needed to pay for entry. A minute or so later, Pop came out with her friend, and we were introduced. It turns out her friend was on her way home, so we said goodbye to her. Pop’s other friends were still inside, so she ended up paying for the both of us to return back inside. Auto-investment.
I met up with her friends, but the music was so ridiculously loud that it was really hard to keep a conversation going. It didn’t help that her two friends barely spoke any English either. We probably stayed for about half an hour. I felt a little out of place in the bar. There was really loud live music playing covers of big room house and hip hop songs.
A couple of times, Pop darted back and forth between the bar and the table. At one instance, I hugged her from behind, around her waist and slow danced a little. She never really turned around to face me. No one really talked much at the table, simply because the music was that loud. After a little while, I was feeling pretty tired and wasn’t keen on any more dancing. “I’m feeling a little tired, shall we leave in a little bit?” I suggested.
We ended up leaving after a couple of minutes, and we headed over to 7/11 for some food. Pop’s two other friends went to the bathroom for a bit, so we spent a couple of moments together alone. The vibe was really warm and close. She taught me some more Thai words, and we talked a little bit about the fermented probiotic drink, that I’d gotten from 7/11.
Eventually we parted ways with one of Pop’s friends. He handed over his keys, and the remaining 3 of us took a taxi back to the apartment. In the taxi, Pop, Shampoo and the driver were chatting in Thai, so I just sat contentedly silent and grasped and caressed Pop’s hand the whole ride through.
We arrived after 15 minutes, went up the lift, and entered the room. It took us some time to figure out how to switch on the light, so we were in the dark for a while, which was amusing. I ended up flicking on a switch on an elevated switchboard, giving us power. Pop chatted with Shampoo in Thai pretty much the whole time, so I just sat on the bed contently and played some guitar. Pop took pictures and a video of me playing. Shampoo only stayed for a little while, she only came to pick up some stuff. After gathering all her things, the girls went downstairs to find a taxi for Shampoo. In the meantime, I freshened up a little and tried to figure out how to improve the lighting in the place. The lights were too bright, but there wasn’t a dimmer light in the room that I could work with.
The escalation
Pop returned a couple of minutes later. We were finally alone in a room together and sparks of sexual tension were flying in the air. We were both excited in anticipation. Pop seemed slightly nervous, perhaps because we were now finally alone together. She sat down on the bed, and I played guitar for a bit. I sang a little bit for her as well – Ocean Drive, my go-to song. After I was finished, I handed her the guitar and taught her how to play Smoke on the Water. By teaching her how to play guitar, and by being very sweet and making myself feel comfortable, I calmed her initial nerves way down.
I grabbed the guitar off of her when I was finished with teaching her, and I placed it on the floor. I sat closer to her, and drew our bodies in together for a sensual kiss. It was so nice to finally have our own privacy. She wasn’t resisting my kisses at all anymore. However, she sometimes stopped mid-kiss and coyly said that she was shy to kiss me. I continued kissing her sweetly.
The lighting of the room was quite awful, so I got up to kills the lights completely at one point. There was still light in the room coming from the bathroom and outside veranda however. I returned back to bed, and made out with her some more. We were sitting upright, and the kisses were sensual and exciting. Whenever I kissed her, I could feel her gently trembling under my breath. She was feeling an exciting mix of nervousness and anticipation. I then told her to lie down on the bed, resting her head on the pillow. I threw a blanket over us, so that the vibe would feel more intimate and warm. At times when we were kissing, she told me that she was feeling so shy, and I told her that I thought it was cute that she was so shy. I was really gentle and sweet with her and made her feel like a princess. I think she really appreciated my gentleness and warmth.
Eventually we were both lying down on the bed, facing each other and exchanging hot, sensual, wet lip locks. I started to moan gently as I caressed her back, her ass and arms. I held her close to me passionately. I was now rock hard and I placed her hand on my hard cock through my jeans. She left her hand there for a moment before she pulled back and playfully resisted, laughing like a nervous schoolgirl.
I took a step back and continued to kiss her. I then got her to lie on her back, and I gently leaned my upper torso over her, resting my body weight on my elbows that were positioned right next to her underarm. I didn’t want to overwhelm her by completely engulfing her with my body just yet, so partially resting on top of her seemed to a be a good balance of physical presence, without being too imposing.
We continued to make out, and the passion was rising – fast. In between kisses, I rested my head on her chest, and smelled her upper torso through my hungry nostrils. Delicious. I returned back to her lips for more passionate kisses, and eventually, the passion had reached a phenomenal breaking point, as if I could no longer control myself. I groped her boobs as I kissed her, before I stretching her singlet down to expose her tiny boobs and juicy nipples. I brought my mouth to her nipples and went to town on them. At some point around this time, I got up to switch off the outside and bathroom lights which were annoyingly intrusive. When I returned back to the bed, I managed to take off my jeans under the covers without her realising it. The contact of the bare skin of our legs was extremely arousing.
At one point, I moved my face down to her pussy, and began to lick and massage her thighs. I pulled off her shorts with ease, revealing her panties. I moved my face back up to meet hers, with my body positioned above hers. At this point we were both in our underwear, and I began to dry-hump her. In that moment, we were both moaning very loudly and extremely horny. I whispered dirty things into her ear passionately, whilst sucking on them sensually. Eventually, after some more dry-humping and prodding my hard cock firmly against her covered pussy, I removed my briefs, and brought her hands to my cock. She proceeded to jack me off for a while. After prodding her pussy a bit more with my cock, I moaned, “Oh baby, you’re turning me on so much. I want to be inside you. Let me get a condom.”
I went to the bathroom before grabbing a condom. When I returned, I got myself hard again, before wrapping myself up. I removed her panties and slowly entered her tight, warm hole. It felt so amazing to be inside her. I hadn’t ejaculated in 6 days at that point so my cock was extremely hard. I had no difficulty in keeping it up throughout the whole duration of sex. It was just rock hard the whole way through which was simply amazing. Her pussy felt so warm and tight. The way that it gripped onto me drove me nuts. I grunted dirty things into her ear as I fucked her adapted missionary.
Her moans were so feminine and passionate, and it drove me absolutely nuts. Her pussy felt so good. I absolutely loved the fact how she was so coy and shy at the beginning of the escalation, but here she was moaning and melting under my arms, right in front of me. Sensational.
I continued railing her for around 10 minutes, before I deposited my load deep inside of her. The orgasm was otherworldly.
We got ourselves cleaned up, and we cuddled in bed a while. It was around 3am, and we were both exhausted. After around half an hour, I told her that I was hungry and was going to go grab food. At first she kinda chuckled, not thinking that I was serious. I added that I hadn’t eaten in a while, and that I also slept better when I slept by myself. She seemed sad to see me go, and I could tell that she was trying to mask her sadness. I could tell that she wanted me to stay, but was too shy to tell me so. She looked like she was holding back tears. I was extremely warm and really sweet with her as a response. We took a bunch of selfies and enjoyed our last few moments together.
She waited with me for a taxi, and I was off into the night.
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Next couple of days:
She messaged me every day after our second date for a while, mainly keeping the conversation light and limited to small talk.
About a week later, this happened:
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Finishing thoughts:
This was the first time a girl had ever told me that she was in love with me. It’s crazy that I made a girl fall in love with me after just 2 dates together. I did a bunch of things well over the 2 dates.
On the first date, I managed to make Pop feel very comfortable with my presence. I owe this to my playful vibe, and my ability to make her laugh. My value was already high from the very beginning, and I'd already gotten her to vocalise that she thought that I was hot. I had a great balance of attainability by being genuine, honest and playful. She felt that she could let her hair down around me. I was extremely happy about that, considering just how shy she was. She's probably the shyest girl I've ever gone out with. Despite poor logistics throughout date 1, I still managed to cement good emotions within her. My strong suit was solid fundamentals, dominantly leading forwards, being physically and emotionally warm (good attainability), and being playful (good comfort-builder and bad-tension killer). After the date, she ruminated a lot about me and messaged me frequently on her own volition. Pop was quite a naïve girl, and probably quite idealistic as well. She already thought very highly of me, and by rewarding her investment, tweaking my attainability, and exercising good game, she was very strongly latched onto me.
After our first date, I didn’t think that I’d ever see her again, simply because I was leaving Bangkok. Pop accepted that she’d probably never see me again. Upon hearing that I would be returning, she was probably over the moon. She thought that she’d lost me for good, but now I was back in her life. I’d removed her sadness, and replaced it with happiness and anticipation.
On the second date, the introduction was a little rocky, but I managed to normalise the situation quickly by keeping things light, progressing the conversation, and being comfortable in my own skin. Making her laughing and keeping the conversation playful and light was absolutely key in make her feel comfortable and at ease around me. I empowered her to feel powerful. In turn, she felt comfortable enough to invest in me and chase me as hard as she wanted to, in an uninhibited manner. It also eradicated any negative tension and reservations she might’ve had about me.
My strength of frame throughout the two dates was also solid. I took any resistance that she had about me at face value. I knew that she was having fun and enjoying herself because she was laughing and smiling. I thought that her shyness was absolutely adorable, because she couldn’t stop being shy around me. I handled her shyness really well by telling her how cute I thought her shyness was, and by also being really gentle and sweet with her.
Logistics is what really screwed the both of us over, and I was lucky that her friend had allowed me to crash at his apartment. I tried to escalate into public sex a couple of times, but Pop was too shy. At the same time, it was tough to find a private, isolated area.
When our logistics were magically handled and we were able to be alone together, sex happened pretty naturally. I started off slow and played a little bit of guitar to make her feel comfortable. After steadily escalating and ramping up the passion, it was a pretty smooth transition into sex. I was sweet, considerate, dominant, passionate, patient, attentive and sexy.
My own personal quirk that I love to add into my interactions with women is cuteness and sweetness, especially when I’m physically escalating on her or if I’m trying to increase my attainability. I’ve noticed that being cute and sweet is very effective in making a girl comfortable with me and prevents any attainability issues. I’ve only really tried this with East and South East Asian girls, who are usually more traditional and shy. Still need to gain data points from girls from other niches.
Considering how invested in me Pop was after our first date, sleeping with her on the second date provided her a rush of overwhelming feelings. In hindsight, the reason that she fell in love with me, are probably as follows. Throughout the date, I allowed her to chase me hard because I was attainable. Eventually she chased me extremely hard, and her feelings for me grew enormously. I was also elusive. I was the one to end the second date, and I didn’t agree to meet her friends at the party – I just went back to my hostel. I didn’t stay the night with her post-sex either. Over Facebook, she was also the first to initiate contact with me, but I still managed to be attainable by being really warm through my texts, and kept her chasing. I was also mysterious, and she knew very little about me. I kept the conversational spotlight off of myself. I was addictive to her because I managed to separate myself from the other guys in her life, and came off as a breath of fresh air to her. I rewarded her investment warmly, and she also felt like I was a challenge, such that she would have to work to get me.
Pop was a very sweet girl. I loved how she was so shy as well – a quality that I find extremely feminine and alluring. I liked her quite a bit as well. I guess I also invested quite a bit in her. I learnt a lot from my 2 dates with Pop.
Jeffrey
Date1: 22 December 2016: Bangkok, Thailand
I matched with 22 year old Pop from Thailand on Tinder. We met outside a shopping centre near where I was staying, but I didn't have WiFi, so I couldn't pinpoint exactly where she was. I bought something from McDonald's so that I could use the WiFi. She ended up meeting me inside McDonald's and sat down on a seat opposite me. We introduced ourselves and she told me that she was excited to see me.
She had medium-long length hair, with a warm face and braces. She wasn't conventionally pretty, but still cute. She stood at around 5'2 and had a slim, petite frame. I don't remember what she was wearing.
After our introduction, I went up to the counter to grab some more food. This was my first ever McDonald's date haha. Pop's English wasn't very good so it was difficult to communicate with her. Google Translate was very helpful.
I deep dived her about her studies, and her travels within Thailand. She wanted to travel to New Zealand. She told me how she liked going shopping in street markets and watching movies. She loved Harry Potter. Pop was a very shy girl. Whenever I looked her in the eyes and threw in some pregnant pauses, she would start to laugh and coyly cover her hand with her mouth. I found her coyness to be very attractive.
At one point I asked her to teach me some Thai. We both had fun doing so and shared a few laughs over it. I asked her to speak a bit of Thai, because I wanted to hear how she sounded speaking it. She ended up saying a bunch of stuff whilst giggling and smiling. When I asked her what she said, she said that she thought I was hot. I warmly rewarded her by telling her that she was sweet and that I thought she was cute. I smiled warmly and sweetly at her.
I asked her whether she played any instruments, but she didn't understand me, so I told her to give me her hand as I inspected it. They were long and slender and I told her that she had good hands for piano. I held onto her hands over the table for the rest of our conversation. She didn't actually play any instruments or sing. Still, I told her that I wanted to hear her sing later.
I then suggested going for a walk to move things forwards. I grabbed her hands a few seconds into walking. We ended up walking for a very long time because we couldn't find anywhere to sit. We talked sparingly about a bunch of stuff. I was just bringing up random topics to keep the conversation going. It was frustrating that I couldn't find a good place for us to sit down. At one point, I decided to pull standing up.
"I kinda feel like watching a movie. Do you want to watch a movie now?" I asked. She didn't really understand what I was saying, so I had to repeat myself a couple of times. She agreed to watch a movie. I told her that we could watch Harry Potter. Once again, she didn't completely understand what I was saying, and seemed a little uncertain about my pull. I figured that I’d change the subject, and pull her again once we were seated.
We went inside a small shopping centre and grabbed a seat. I pulled again with the help of Google Translate, but it turned out logistics were bad because she had a roommate. Damn. I figured that I would just try to escalate physically at a secluded location.
We walked hand in hand to a park. It took an additional 20 minutes of walking. During that time, we didn't speak very much, mainly due to the language barrier. I managed to keep the vibe intimate still because I was massaging her hand sweetly as I held it. Nevertheless, the atmosphere was feeling a little bit stale because we'd spent far too long walking.
Eventually we arrived at a park after a long walk, but we could only sit down for a little while because the park was closing. We got up and ended up sitting on the edge of the street overlooking a small pond. There were many people sitting next to us, and there wasn't a whole lot of privacy. I tried to get her to face me a couple of times but she was too shy. Whenever she met my eyes, she coyly turned her face away and told me that she was really shy. I thought that her shyness was simply adorable.
At one point I leaned in to kiss her cheek, and she told me that I couldn't kiss her because there were people watching us. I told her that I thought it was cute that she was shy around me, yet not so shy around other people (she'd mentioned before that she was only shy around strangers and hot guys). I continued to playfully kiss her a couple of times, which was met with more playful resistance. I ended up asking her how she felt about me kissing her. She told me that she liked it when I kissed her, but there were too many people around. Lack of logistics and privacy were a true pain in the ass.
Overall, my vibe was very sweet and playful. I think playfulness is an incredibly powerful tool when used correctly, and is something that I slightly neglected in the past.
I was actively looking for an opportunity to kiss her, but she was too shy, and didn't look at me a lot of the time. I felt that kissing her would've been too much.
Eventually around half an hour had passed and it was 9.30. She said that she had to head on home.
We walked together to the station and we took the train to the same station. On the train, I had my arms up, with my hands hanging onto the railing. I playfully rested my cheek on her arm and told her that my face was hot. We both shared a laugh.
When we exited the train, I had my hand around her waist and I playfully pinched it. She laughed and she clearly enjoyed my silliness. I pinched her waist a couple more times, and she eventually retaliated by tickling me. At this point, we were both laughing and all traces of negative tension was dispelled.
We ended up parting ways as she changed to the metro line, and I walked back to my hostel. As we said goodbye, Pop said, "Don't forget me."
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Post-date:
I didn't expect to see Pop ever again. I was leaving for Phuket in 2 days, and logistics were terrible so I wasn’t keen for date 2. She messaged me on Facebook immediately after our date, and at multiple instances later that week as well.
Her: Thanks you for today
This is a special night for me
I like your smile
I like you look at me
I hope we will meet again sometimes
A few days later:
Her: Since we met at first time, I really feel good, and I have no words to express my feelings to you. There are a lot of that feelings in deeply of my mind. I don't know when it happens and I also don't know what that feeling called
However, I never would to hear your answer, but I just wanna let you know my deeply feeling from mind
Thanks a lot of the good moment.
Me: Oh really! Hehe
How do you feel towards me?
Her: Of cause
and you have to be honest to me either
I will always wait you
Me:
Why do you like me dear?
Her: I like you because of your smiling, and I also like when you look at me. Moreover, I like your politeness and the importance that is we like the same things.
The last one, I feel warming when I was with you
How do you about me?
We chatted every other day since our first date. I wasn’t expecting to ever see her again. However, change of plans meant that I had a flight from Bangkok to Indonesia on 3 January. I told her that I was returning to Bangkok. She said that she wanted to see me again.
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Date 2: 2 January 2017
We scheduled to meet at McDonald’s yet again, this time on Khaosan Road. I’d gone in to buy something so that I could use the WiFi to connect to Pop, but by the time I’d gone outside, I saw her standing near the entrance. I walked up to her slowly said hello and I extended my hand for a hand clasp. She seemed visibly nervous and I don’t think she noticed my hand, so we awkwardly did not touch each other upon our greeting.
I decided that we would take a walk along Khaosan Road in an attempt to find somewhere good to eat. I broke the touch barrier by grabbing onto her hand and holding it as we walked down the road. I needed to offset the awkward introduction as soon as possible.
I’d forgotten how limited Pop’s English ability was. She didn’t understand what I was saying half of the time, so I remembered to use only very basic English words. Communicating with her was difficult, but by keeping the vibe light and playful, I managed to eradicate most of the negative tension that had built up due to her shyness and difficulties in communication.
We walked for about 20 minutes looking for a good place to eat. I suggested eating street food for dinner. We ordered our food and sat down on our flimsy plastic chairs. The food was pretty mediocre. I use hand sanitiser to disinfect my cutlery before commencing. I told her about the time I got food poisoning in Hanoi because of dirty cutlery. She seemed to find this amusing.
As we ate our dinner, and I tried to keep the vibe light and didn’t really deep dive her much. It was a bit of a struggle to come up with new topics to talk about, especially considering our difficulties in communication. We talked about which places I’d visited in Bangkok, and interesting places and sights nearby. I suggested walking down to the river to Phra Sumen fort after dinner and she agreed. She ended up paying for the bill, and refused when I offered to split it which was really sweet of her. I thanked her warmly for dinner.
Walked to a nearby stall because Pop wanted some water, but I just offered mine so we didn’t have to wait in the queue. I told her to stuff her denim jacket in my bag because it was too hot to wear it. She was wearing a tight black singlet underneath which was very flattering.
We walked hand in hand toward the fort. She tried to lead us there, but we weren’t going in the right direction according to Google maps, so I corrected our course to the right direction. I had to whip out my phone for directions and pour cold water over it to get it to work. My phone overheats all the time, and refuses to work when it’s overheated. She thought it was pretty funny that I had to pour water on it. While we were walking, she taught me different words in Thai. This was really helpful in dispelling negative tension, and keeping the mood fun and light. We shared a couple of laughs at my inability to say certain sentences correctly.
Eventually we arrived at the fort, and walked around the grassy area overlooking the river. I was looking for a secluded place to sit where I could escalate. Initially, I ended up picking a bad spot, because upon second glance, there were people nearby. I realised this a couple of seconds into sitting down, so I got up and said, “Oh that thing looks cool. I wonder what it is,” as I walked toward an interesting structure a couple of metres away. This was quick thinking on my behalf.
I led us to another area far more secluded, at the very bottom of some large steps, overlooking the river. The area wasn’t completely private however, as people walking on the footpath above the steps could see us. Still, the area was private enough. It was time to physically escalate. The game plan was to either escalate into public sex, or turn her on and book a private room together. Again, my logistics were terrible because I was staying in a hostel dorm. She told me that she was staying at her friends place that night, with only one bed in the apartment, so I couldn’t pull to her place.
The vibe now was much more intimate as we were now in a dark, secluded area, and mostly out sight from prying eyes. Pop however, was still extremely shy. I led the interaction strongly, and pulled her into me. I physically moved her legs and angled them towards me so that it was more comfortable and easier to kiss her. I started off by giving brief kisses to her cheek, but she shyly pulled back after my kisses, on the basis that the man sitting above the steps on the bench could see us. The lighting was very dim, and we were at the bottom of a flight of steep steps, so he would’ve only been able to barely see us. Even still, Pop was shy.
She told me how in Thailand, public displays of affection are inappropriate. But still, I persisted anyway. I threw in some sweet talk in the mix. My tone of voice was very gentle and cute, and I said things like, “Oh are you shy girl? Haha you’re so cute.” I also told her on occasion that I liked shy girls. I was really honest and upfront with how attractive I found her.
I went for the kiss at some point. I told her to close her eyes a couple of times, but it was met with coy resistance. Eventually, I managed to get her to close her eyes and I re-positioned my body and leaned my head in to lock our lips twice. It felt really nice to kiss her. The kiss was received by shyness and embarrassment because we were out in public. However, it was clear that she enjoyed the kiss.
I tried to kiss her a couple of time after that, but it was met with some more resistance, purely because we were not in a private location. I figured that I’d throw in a strong frame. I told her that people didn’t care that we were kissing, and that they would barely have been able to see us anyway, especially since we had our backs facing them. I told her that even if a passerby saw us, it would have been met with an indifferent, ‘Oh cool. Those two are kissing,’ before going on their way. This frame seemed to calm her down a little.
We made out several times after that. Her aura was teeming with nervous excitement. At one instance, her legs were in the perfect position and I was able to massage and rub her bare inner thighs with my hand. I eventually moved my hand closer and closer to her pussy, until I was rubbing the very edge of her pussy through her shorts. I continued this for a bit, and I could tell that she liked it. But when I moved slightly closer to her pussy, she moved my hand away. I took a step back.
I tried to escalate further, but progress was slow. Eventually the security came to kick us out. The area was closing down for the night. We ended up walking down the street and up and across the river over a bridge. She taught me a couple more Thai words and names of some landmarks off into the distance. It was clear that the both of us were having a great time. It was interesting for me to learn Thai, and funny for her to have to hear my poorly pronounced Thai words. My whole vibe was quite playful and cute, which was helpful in cementing good vibes. On the bridge, I stopped and pulled her into me for a kiss, which she enjoyed. She didn’t seem to care that we were in plain sight of dozens of cars passing us by on the road.
Eventually, we turned around. She had to meet up with her friends at Khaosan Road, for a belated New Year’s party. Pop invited me to come along, and she said that she’d told her friends all about me and that she wanted me to meet them. I wasn’t really keen on tagging along because I was already quite tired, and not a fan of turning this into a party date.
We walked back towards Khaosan Road, but not before we stopped by the fort again. I told her that I was tired and wanted to sit down for a bit. We sat down in a semi-secluded area, and I tried to escalate again. I didn’t get anything past a few kisses here and there, and some resistance. There were people passing by every now and then, which made Pop nervous.
I led us to a more secluded area. I told her that I had to use the bathroom around the corner and extended out my hand and said, “Let’s go.” She refused and said that it was not safe. I held strong to my frame and said that I was busting and told her that it would be fine. So she came along to a secluded area with me, but the toilets were close. There was a small barrier guarding in the entrance. We could’ve escalated then and there outside the bathroom, or better yet even inside the bathroom since we wouldn’t have been interrupted in that case, but this idea didn’t occur to me until we were on our way and walking back towards Khaosan Road. But in retrospect, the fact that Pop didn’t feel safe in the area we were in would’ve made it difficult to escalate there. I found a couple of places here and there on our walk back to possibly escalate further, but I was tired and had an early flight the next morning, so I decided to just leave it and head back to my hostel to get some rest.
She walked me back to my hostel, and I was slightly bummed that we couldn’t get together because of logistical reasons. We shared a kiss and said our goodbyes. This was perhaps the last time we would see each other again.
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I entered my room, laid down on my bed and messed around on my phone for a bit. She messaged me 30 minutes later.
Her: May I send you at airport? Due to I don't like the leaving. Especially, I have to live so far away from you.
Me: Hey girl, I'm taking a paid minivan to the airport early in the morning so I don't think it's possible
We can see each other next time
I had fun with you tonight girl
Her: me too
Thanks for toninght
Me: [foxes bumping noses, with love heart sticker]
How is the party?
Her: For me ,its so so
Me: I see
Will miss you
Wish I could spend tonight with you
(I figure that I’d throw something out there, and see if she was into me enough to make something happen despite zero logistics)
Her: Could u go out to meet me at the front of the hotel?
If you ok
Me: Okay
When?
Her: around 40 minutes
Are you ok?
Me: You can't stay though, because I am not allowed to have guests over
Her: Are you ok to meet me at my friend's room
Me: Ok
When?
Her: Come you come here and go with me
[address of the bar she’s at right now]
She got the okay from her friend to allow me to crash at his place. Turns out Pop was staying at her friend’s place that night, but she had the whole place to herself, since her friend was staying at some other girl’s place. I got ready, and then went off to meet her again. I was meant to meet her at a bar and leave together with her, but there was an entrance fee that I wasn’t keen on paying.
I found a WiFi connection and messaged her telling her that I’d arrived. I asked whether or not she was planning on staying for long because I needed to pay for entry. A minute or so later, Pop came out with her friend, and we were introduced. It turns out her friend was on her way home, so we said goodbye to her. Pop’s other friends were still inside, so she ended up paying for the both of us to return back inside. Auto-investment.
I met up with her friends, but the music was so ridiculously loud that it was really hard to keep a conversation going. It didn’t help that her two friends barely spoke any English either. We probably stayed for about half an hour. I felt a little out of place in the bar. There was really loud live music playing covers of big room house and hip hop songs.
A couple of times, Pop darted back and forth between the bar and the table. At one instance, I hugged her from behind, around her waist and slow danced a little. She never really turned around to face me. No one really talked much at the table, simply because the music was that loud. After a little while, I was feeling pretty tired and wasn’t keen on any more dancing. “I’m feeling a little tired, shall we leave in a little bit?” I suggested.
We ended up leaving after a couple of minutes, and we headed over to 7/11 for some food. Pop’s two other friends went to the bathroom for a bit, so we spent a couple of moments together alone. The vibe was really warm and close. She taught me some more Thai words, and we talked a little bit about the fermented probiotic drink, that I’d gotten from 7/11.
Eventually we parted ways with one of Pop’s friends. He handed over his keys, and the remaining 3 of us took a taxi back to the apartment. In the taxi, Pop, Shampoo and the driver were chatting in Thai, so I just sat contentedly silent and grasped and caressed Pop’s hand the whole ride through.
We arrived after 15 minutes, went up the lift, and entered the room. It took us some time to figure out how to switch on the light, so we were in the dark for a while, which was amusing. I ended up flicking on a switch on an elevated switchboard, giving us power. Pop chatted with Shampoo in Thai pretty much the whole time, so I just sat on the bed contently and played some guitar. Pop took pictures and a video of me playing. Shampoo only stayed for a little while, she only came to pick up some stuff. After gathering all her things, the girls went downstairs to find a taxi for Shampoo. In the meantime, I freshened up a little and tried to figure out how to improve the lighting in the place. The lights were too bright, but there wasn’t a dimmer light in the room that I could work with.
The escalation
Pop returned a couple of minutes later. We were finally alone in a room together and sparks of sexual tension were flying in the air. We were both excited in anticipation. Pop seemed slightly nervous, perhaps because we were now finally alone together. She sat down on the bed, and I played guitar for a bit. I sang a little bit for her as well – Ocean Drive, my go-to song. After I was finished, I handed her the guitar and taught her how to play Smoke on the Water. By teaching her how to play guitar, and by being very sweet and making myself feel comfortable, I calmed her initial nerves way down.
I grabbed the guitar off of her when I was finished with teaching her, and I placed it on the floor. I sat closer to her, and drew our bodies in together for a sensual kiss. It was so nice to finally have our own privacy. She wasn’t resisting my kisses at all anymore. However, she sometimes stopped mid-kiss and coyly said that she was shy to kiss me. I continued kissing her sweetly.
The lighting of the room was quite awful, so I got up to kills the lights completely at one point. There was still light in the room coming from the bathroom and outside veranda however. I returned back to bed, and made out with her some more. We were sitting upright, and the kisses were sensual and exciting. Whenever I kissed her, I could feel her gently trembling under my breath. She was feeling an exciting mix of nervousness and anticipation. I then told her to lie down on the bed, resting her head on the pillow. I threw a blanket over us, so that the vibe would feel more intimate and warm. At times when we were kissing, she told me that she was feeling so shy, and I told her that I thought it was cute that she was so shy. I was really gentle and sweet with her and made her feel like a princess. I think she really appreciated my gentleness and warmth.
Eventually we were both lying down on the bed, facing each other and exchanging hot, sensual, wet lip locks. I started to moan gently as I caressed her back, her ass and arms. I held her close to me passionately. I was now rock hard and I placed her hand on my hard cock through my jeans. She left her hand there for a moment before she pulled back and playfully resisted, laughing like a nervous schoolgirl.
I took a step back and continued to kiss her. I then got her to lie on her back, and I gently leaned my upper torso over her, resting my body weight on my elbows that were positioned right next to her underarm. I didn’t want to overwhelm her by completely engulfing her with my body just yet, so partially resting on top of her seemed to a be a good balance of physical presence, without being too imposing.
We continued to make out, and the passion was rising – fast. In between kisses, I rested my head on her chest, and smelled her upper torso through my hungry nostrils. Delicious. I returned back to her lips for more passionate kisses, and eventually, the passion had reached a phenomenal breaking point, as if I could no longer control myself. I groped her boobs as I kissed her, before I stretching her singlet down to expose her tiny boobs and juicy nipples. I brought my mouth to her nipples and went to town on them. At some point around this time, I got up to switch off the outside and bathroom lights which were annoyingly intrusive. When I returned back to the bed, I managed to take off my jeans under the covers without her realising it. The contact of the bare skin of our legs was extremely arousing.
At one point, I moved my face down to her pussy, and began to lick and massage her thighs. I pulled off her shorts with ease, revealing her panties. I moved my face back up to meet hers, with my body positioned above hers. At this point we were both in our underwear, and I began to dry-hump her. In that moment, we were both moaning very loudly and extremely horny. I whispered dirty things into her ear passionately, whilst sucking on them sensually. Eventually, after some more dry-humping and prodding my hard cock firmly against her covered pussy, I removed my briefs, and brought her hands to my cock. She proceeded to jack me off for a while. After prodding her pussy a bit more with my cock, I moaned, “Oh baby, you’re turning me on so much. I want to be inside you. Let me get a condom.”
I went to the bathroom before grabbing a condom. When I returned, I got myself hard again, before wrapping myself up. I removed her panties and slowly entered her tight, warm hole. It felt so amazing to be inside her. I hadn’t ejaculated in 6 days at that point so my cock was extremely hard. I had no difficulty in keeping it up throughout the whole duration of sex. It was just rock hard the whole way through which was simply amazing. Her pussy felt so warm and tight. The way that it gripped onto me drove me nuts. I grunted dirty things into her ear as I fucked her adapted missionary.
Her moans were so feminine and passionate, and it drove me absolutely nuts. Her pussy felt so good. I absolutely loved the fact how she was so coy and shy at the beginning of the escalation, but here she was moaning and melting under my arms, right in front of me. Sensational.
I continued railing her for around 10 minutes, before I deposited my load deep inside of her. The orgasm was otherworldly.
We got ourselves cleaned up, and we cuddled in bed a while. It was around 3am, and we were both exhausted. After around half an hour, I told her that I was hungry and was going to go grab food. At first she kinda chuckled, not thinking that I was serious. I added that I hadn’t eaten in a while, and that I also slept better when I slept by myself. She seemed sad to see me go, and I could tell that she was trying to mask her sadness. I could tell that she wanted me to stay, but was too shy to tell me so. She looked like she was holding back tears. I was extremely warm and really sweet with her as a response. We took a bunch of selfies and enjoyed our last few moments together.
She waited with me for a taxi, and I was off into the night.
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Next couple of days:
She messaged me every day after our second date for a while, mainly keeping the conversation light and limited to small talk.
About a week later, this happened:
Her: What r u doing?
Me: Having food now hehe
You?
Her: I am thinking of you
Me: Aww really :3
What are you thinking about dear
Her: I don't know why i miss u
Do u think i should stop thinking of you or not?
Let me know what should i do?
Please
Me: Aww baby
What do you miss about me dear?
Her: I thinking .......
I am falling in love with you
13x[sad face]
Me: Really dear?
Love is a very strong feeling dear
Her: What doesn't it mean
Could you explain it to me
Me: What do you mean dear?
Her: Yes
That is all I want to tell you
I know that might be fast to feel like this
But truth me that all from my deep feeling
pls
Me: Oh I understand dear
Do you know why you fell in love so fast dear?
Her: I think I lost my mind when I think about you.
We spended really short time together. I felt like I have knew you for longtime like we r close. I feel your my friend and my special person in the same time.its not easy to find someone that make me feel too much like this and I also ask my self, why do I like this. Although we have spended time for two days , that was so much fun and happy to be with you. Saw how fun are we, your personality that make me was shy all the time, when I saw you can eat Thai food and clean spoon before eating,God dam! you was cute. That s all I think.
I don't know your reaction that u will feel good or bad or funny or anything
Please just tell me, I m happy that I have told u all. If we can be just friend I will be your cute friend
Me: Oh thanks for telling me dear this is very sweet of you
You are very sweet and cute dear
Of course we can be friends
Her:
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Finishing thoughts:
This was the first time a girl had ever told me that she was in love with me. It’s crazy that I made a girl fall in love with me after just 2 dates together. I did a bunch of things well over the 2 dates.
On the first date, I managed to make Pop feel very comfortable with my presence. I owe this to my playful vibe, and my ability to make her laugh. My value was already high from the very beginning, and I'd already gotten her to vocalise that she thought that I was hot. I had a great balance of attainability by being genuine, honest and playful. She felt that she could let her hair down around me. I was extremely happy about that, considering just how shy she was. She's probably the shyest girl I've ever gone out with. Despite poor logistics throughout date 1, I still managed to cement good emotions within her. My strong suit was solid fundamentals, dominantly leading forwards, being physically and emotionally warm (good attainability), and being playful (good comfort-builder and bad-tension killer). After the date, she ruminated a lot about me and messaged me frequently on her own volition. Pop was quite a naïve girl, and probably quite idealistic as well. She already thought very highly of me, and by rewarding her investment, tweaking my attainability, and exercising good game, she was very strongly latched onto me.
After our first date, I didn’t think that I’d ever see her again, simply because I was leaving Bangkok. Pop accepted that she’d probably never see me again. Upon hearing that I would be returning, she was probably over the moon. She thought that she’d lost me for good, but now I was back in her life. I’d removed her sadness, and replaced it with happiness and anticipation.
On the second date, the introduction was a little rocky, but I managed to normalise the situation quickly by keeping things light, progressing the conversation, and being comfortable in my own skin. Making her laughing and keeping the conversation playful and light was absolutely key in make her feel comfortable and at ease around me. I empowered her to feel powerful. In turn, she felt comfortable enough to invest in me and chase me as hard as she wanted to, in an uninhibited manner. It also eradicated any negative tension and reservations she might’ve had about me.
My strength of frame throughout the two dates was also solid. I took any resistance that she had about me at face value. I knew that she was having fun and enjoying herself because she was laughing and smiling. I thought that her shyness was absolutely adorable, because she couldn’t stop being shy around me. I handled her shyness really well by telling her how cute I thought her shyness was, and by also being really gentle and sweet with her.
Logistics is what really screwed the both of us over, and I was lucky that her friend had allowed me to crash at his apartment. I tried to escalate into public sex a couple of times, but Pop was too shy. At the same time, it was tough to find a private, isolated area.
When our logistics were magically handled and we were able to be alone together, sex happened pretty naturally. I started off slow and played a little bit of guitar to make her feel comfortable. After steadily escalating and ramping up the passion, it was a pretty smooth transition into sex. I was sweet, considerate, dominant, passionate, patient, attentive and sexy.
My own personal quirk that I love to add into my interactions with women is cuteness and sweetness, especially when I’m physically escalating on her or if I’m trying to increase my attainability. I’ve noticed that being cute and sweet is very effective in making a girl comfortable with me and prevents any attainability issues. I’ve only really tried this with East and South East Asian girls, who are usually more traditional and shy. Still need to gain data points from girls from other niches.
Considering how invested in me Pop was after our first date, sleeping with her on the second date provided her a rush of overwhelming feelings. In hindsight, the reason that she fell in love with me, are probably as follows. Throughout the date, I allowed her to chase me hard because I was attainable. Eventually she chased me extremely hard, and her feelings for me grew enormously. I was also elusive. I was the one to end the second date, and I didn’t agree to meet her friends at the party – I just went back to my hostel. I didn’t stay the night with her post-sex either. Over Facebook, she was also the first to initiate contact with me, but I still managed to be attainable by being really warm through my texts, and kept her chasing. I was also mysterious, and she knew very little about me. I kept the conversational spotlight off of myself. I was addictive to her because I managed to separate myself from the other guys in her life, and came off as a breath of fresh air to her. I rewarded her investment warmly, and she also felt like I was a challenge, such that she would have to work to get me.
Pop was a very sweet girl. I loved how she was so shy as well – a quality that I find extremely feminine and alluring. I liked her quite a bit as well. I guess I also invested quite a bit in her. I learnt a lot from my 2 dates with Pop.
Jeffrey
