LR 2 hour LMR, she broke under time limit

[jackoftades819]

Matched with another fat girl on Tinder but I've found that I don't mind sleeping with them. Thanksgiving break is coming up so I wanted a lay before I went home. There's a lot of texting as she's asking questions about me and arranging logistics and stuff. I get her to come over to my place to "watch a movie" (this excuse has been working well so far). It takes her a little bit to find my place as she got lost but we hug and she comes into my apartment. She puts her stuff down and I tell her I need to grab the DVD player from my room and she follows me (all according to plan).
I find the DVD player and she starts showing me pictures on her phone. I remembered the 10 minute rule and begin kissing her and grabbing her ass. And that was as far as I got for hours. She kept saying things like "No, I'm not letting you have sex with me" and "Not on the first meeting". So we make out a lot, I try going for chest and pussy several times but keeps pushing my hand away. We're talking through all this, well more like SHE'S talking and opening up about all sorts of different stuff. So I try freezing her out and she begins asking "what do I want?" So she cuddles up to me and keeps asking that question while I deflect it. She continues opening up about some of her insecurities and vapes (she offered me to try but I told her I don't like any shit in my lungs).
She starts warming up a little, I'm able to get to her breasts but keeps denying me her pussy or taking her clothes. So it's been a few hours and I tell her she'll have to leave in about half an hour so I can get to work. It's like a switch was flipped, she's giving me Bambi eyes. I don't remember exactly what we said to each other but we're making out more aggressively, I'm finally rubbing her pussy and I slip three fingers in. She's really wet and we take off all our clothes. I get the condom on and she's lying on my bed. Right as I'm about to enter her, she's making some noise almost like whimpering or whining. Then I start going to town on her in adapted missionary and she keeps moaning and whimpering and twitching. She asks me to fuck her harder and I gladly oblige. We're only doing it for like only five minutes but we cum at about the same time.
We kiss and cuddle for a little but after and she starts talking about stuff like all the sex toys she owns, asking what the kinkiest thing I've done is, and talking about how she's "training" her virgin girl friend. Anyway, I have her leave and she texts me something along the lines of apologizing for being awkward after. It's clear she views me as very dominant and sexual since she says stuff like "you planned all this, didn't you?" (I did) and assuming I've done this many times. She seems open to meeting again so I might make her a fuck buddy.
So it seems like that if I can matches on Tinder, I have a good chance at getting laid but I haven't done cold approach in months due to my anxiety. Any advice on how I can just finally go for it would be appreciated.

 

[Ergon]

Nice. The time limit is some good advice.

I have a good chance at getting laid but I haven't done cold approach in months due to my anxiety. Any advice on how I can just finally go for it would be appreciated.

There could be several things that work for you, but here's few tips I have.

Allocate time to game every one or two day. Even if you don't approach go out. If you don't approach feel a bit upset and promise yourself to do at least one the next day.

Do warm ups. Your first or two approaches do them knowing they're just warm ups. Just walk up to any girl, no matter if she's pretty or not, and compliment her: "Hi, I just wanted to tell you you look pretty nice today. Have a good day." and then you can eject. You can raise the challenge from there and stick around longer.

Approach to fail. Go out at the beginning knowing you'll most likely fail (this is a mentality, in reality you may surprise yourself). Know you'll probably botch the first attempts but it's ok. Believe you really need those first bad attempts to get to the good part soon.

Journal. Even missed opportunities or lame chats, write something about them like how you could've opened or what you could've said and also what you did good plus some good line.

Hope that helps. Good luck!

ps: I forgot a few ones. Meditate. Read a fun book out loud, 20 minutes (helps me get unstiffled). Drink some coffee or tea before going out. Try Richard exercise: lay down on a bench, grass, etc of a busy area. Wear socks of different pairs.