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TheGoldenBoy

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Hey everybody Golden Boy here! :). I've never been one for posting FR's but I've been implementing all of Chase's material seriously for the past month or so and 3 nights ago had my first tangible success.If you want some background information read my field report "When a good thing falls into your lap".So last Monday I invited the girl from the FR who'll be referred to as "HG" over to chill on a Wednesday night.
GB:Hey HG,What's your schedule look like for the coming week? I was thinking we'd get together and chill before we got too busy with finals"
HG: LMAO And I have no idea
HG: No problem,let me know in the next couple of days.Actually let's shoot for something before Friday since I've got to go to my sister's dance performance and then I've got a friend from Mississippi coming into town for the weekend."
HG: Kk,I'll let you know"
She then tells me about the project that we'd looked at for a bit while at Starbucks last week and tells me she got a 88.9 LOLZ.
GB: "Damn we'll let's pour a drink for those missed 2 points lol."
HG: "Actually I have to fast from alcohol for a week.I tuned up too much in New York last week :("
GB: "Oh really? So you're a naughty gryffindor huh? ;)"
HG: "Yeah you gotta do it big in New York"
GB: "I see well I keep a bottle in the fridge for emergencies"
HG: "Hahahaha!! and what are those emergencies??"
GB: " Hmm well...nah that'd be telling plus you seem a bit too saintly"
HG: "I guess so but what makes you think i'm too saintly?"
GB: "You're a gyrffindor!! Lol u guys embody good.Unlike those naughty Slytherin girls"
HG: "Do you have any Slytherin friends??"
GB: "I've got a couple but those Slytherin girls are just soo open-minded,passionate and freaky...especially if they get their hands on my zip ties ;)"
HG: "I'm def not a slytherin,but I can dance like one ;)"
GB: "Hmm sure you are,I think every women has that inner fire that's passionate,open-minded and freaky.It just depends if she can accept that part of herself but then again with the way society and other guy demean women having embraced their sexuality I'd understand your reluctance to admit it. But I think it's sexy as hell"
HG: "Lol.I guess so"
After that I stop texting her and go to bed.On Wednesday I get a text from her that was surprisingly unexpected.
HG: "Just wanted to let you know that i'll be able to hang out for a bit after I come from the gym tonight.I'll be free after 7pm"
(Okay GB time to get your game face on) I text her back that I saw her text and voice mail but had to go out and help my friend's mother who was having car trouble on the interstate. After finally getting home about 8:20pm I let her know to pop in about 9pm so i'll have enough tie to shower and clean up. So 9 pm rolls around and she knocks on my apartment door.I greet her and have her leave her shoes by the door before we make our way to my room. I grab her a glass of water and start to fiddle around with the HDMI cord on my PS3 which isn't working for shit.
GB: "Feel free to have a seat" Not like she had much choice since it was either my bed or the cold ass hardwood floor...BED WINS.After which I still couldn't get the damn HDMI cord working so we're just sitting ther and I'm like 'FUCK ok relax..gotta kiss her within 5 minutes of her coming to my place but how to go about it'.Inspiration hits like a wrecking ball in that my back is ASHY.AS.FUCK.
GB: "Hey I just got out the shower but I can't reach my back.Would you mind lotioning it for me?
HG: "Sure ;)"
As I sit there leaning against her since she's a little taller than me I look up at her while she looks down at me,gently stroker her face,grab her chin and kiss her. (AHH YEAH reverse Spiderman-Style Tobey McGuire eat your fucking heart out) As she pushes forward I teasingly bite at her bottom lip and pull away.
HG: "How long have you been wanting to kiss me?",She pants out frustratingly
GB: "How long have you been expecting me to?", I reply with a shit eating grin upon my face.
HG: "Since last we were at Starbucks' "
She goes to kiss me again but I pull away
GB: "Woah lol before you mouth rape me you've gotta finish my back and my neck" :)
She blushes,looks away and resumes lotioning my back. After a few seconds I turn back fully again and pull her into my lap and kiss her.She returns the kiss back frantic and hard.I take my hands and steadily try to peel off her shirt but her hands stop me.
HG: "Nuh-uh we're not having sex GB"
GB: "Sure thing,I wouldn't ever make you do something you don't want to and you're free to leave at anytime you please" I reply only to go back to kissing her afterwards. I kiss her neck,lips,cheeks and her whole body through her shirt.
HG: "Goddamn you taste soooo delicious.I think I might be getting addicted", I reply as I trace the curves of her hips with my hands. I pull her shirt up only slightly enough to kiss her stomach as I lay her down on my mattress. Instead of once more going for her shirt I instead lazily rub her pussy through her thin spandex pants while looking as her as if I wanted to eat her alive.
HG: "S-stop...wait" She shakily responds all the while attempting to stifle; her lust filled moans.I immediately stop
GB: "Stop because it feels too good or are we moving too fast..",I whisper with a husky tone.
HG: "Both...No ones ever done this too me or gotten this far", She shakily whispers to me..
(HOLY BATMAN.THIS GIRL IS A VIRGIN...Ain't noooo way in hell am I mess this up for her or myself.With great power comes great responsibility.You know what that means folks? WE GOING IN UNDER THE RADAR LIKE SEAL TEAM 6)
GB: "I think the speed's just right," I reply and then bring myself back up to kiss her.I then lift her shirt up again and slowly,agonizingly drag my tongue from her throat to her waist.Note that all the while i'm massaging her breast and teasing her nipples.I then look and say..
GB: "Let's take these off..".I then gently slide her out of her pants and go back to kissing her and rubbing her panties.
HG: "Damn...I'm really wet now," She proclaims while looking off to the side with her forearm covering her eyes.
GB: "Nothing to be ashamed of trust me it's hot plus look at me(I'm only in my boxers at this point and hard as hell).Trust me you're body is mouth watering.In fact I'm struggling to not just rip your clothes off."
HG: " But my breast and this bit of stomach fat are just gross.Plus I haven't even shaved.It's like Vietnam down there..."
GB: I grab hand and put them on my hip to lower my boxers.I then take her hand and place it on me."See trust me if I didn't find you so damn attractive You wouldn't be feeling this right now." I reply with a playful smirk on my face.I go back up on her kissing all over her from her ankles to her thighs,breasts and belly.
GB: "Turn over for me baby..."
She turns and I un-clip her bra.I then begin to nibble and kiss her back all the way down to her ass.I playful smack and kiss both ass cheeks.(THANK GOD FOR ZUMBA because this ass and these legs are DY-NO-MITE.*For any of you guys who watched good times as kids.* Hell I even kissed and licked her asshole.
HG: (Gasping)"...Oh God..Oh Fuck.You're making this sooo hard to resist"
I then smack her ass and flip her back over.Giving her cheeky-ass grin I then proclaim, "Because i'm the boss and I ALWAYS get what I want" as I pin her arms above her head
HG:"Only really?? lol You think you're hot stuff huh?" she taunts as she begins to stuggle back and attempts to over power me.(....CRAP THIS.GIRL.IS.STRONG).So I do the only thing I can do gentleman...I CHEATZ ;).I Free one of my hands to tickle her.(She's hella ticklish like me)
HG:(While laughing) "d-damn okay,okay just stop before I pee myself"
GB: "Yeah we've put these panties through enough abuse...look at me" I reply and I once more lick down her front.As I do so I continue to hold eye contact and use my teeth to pull her panties down.
HG: Told ya I needed to shave but we can stop here
GB: "Nahhh shawty a lil' bit of hair isn't gonna send me running.Hell,I think it's kinda hot.I wouldn't wanna be having sex with a minor,rock on girl." I then lower myself onto that furry muff.I go back to mercilessly teasing her and building up the anticipation like Chase recommends in his article on oral sex and when I final hit that clit she loses her shit.IT IS WONDERFUL.I then look her straight in the eye and lick my lips.
GB: "Goddamn HG you taste soo good.I want more."
What follows is a series of climaxes for her one after the other.I lost count at 5 or so. I then go back up to lay down for a bit and rest my tongue.
HG (In a daze):"Wow i've NEVER done that before.Not even with the guy I've been talking to for 2yrs now"
GB: "Really? How come",I inquire.
HG: "Well he just hesitates so much like i'll throw out all these signs and he won't even hold me or snuggle.And yet i'm here with you in your bed like this and while i'm anxious and a little scared,I also feel far more comfortable than i've ever been with anybody before.Not him or even my other sorority sister's"
GB: "Wow he sounds like he must be afraid or something because with a body like yours I can barely keep my hands off you"
HG(Laughing): "Yeah I mean look at us all sandwhiched on this tiny twin mattress underneath this Strawberry Shortcake comforter"
GB: "Guess so but you seem alot less stressed now"
HG: "Yeah thank i'd never really been curious with having grown up with religious parents and everyone else especially my roommate and sorority sister's being so nosy into my business...you won't tell anyone will you?"
GB: "Nah that's not my style.Girls get to much flak for being made to feel bad for their sexual desires.I think most guys are just afraid of a woman in touch with her femininity and sexuality cause they can't control her but me I find it very attractive.I think you were at your best and most honest and open when you were writhing,moaning and panting for more"
HG: "Yeah...Thank you so much for not judging me and accepting this part of me that even i'm afraid to admit"
GB: "While I can see that all those in your life have influenced you alot you shouldn't even disregard your femininity,sexuality or curiousity. At least not with me around ;)"
HG: "Actually I'm curious right now..."
GB: "About..."
HG: "it..."
GB: "it what..?"
HG: "you know...IT."
GB:(Smirking) "Oh you mean this". As I rub myself against her pussy
HG: ".....oh shit this is dangerous" and I continue to torture her rubbing myself against her pussy up and down.
GB:" I could put it in.Just a little bit so you can see what it's like.
HG:"...please"
I then pop the head in and she backs her as up on me and i feel like i've been punched in the gut lol.I get in a couple of strokes only for her to cry out
HG: "STOP!!" and start crying...
(Oh shit this isn't how I wanted things to go..)
I lay down next to her and we talk and she admits to being scared and never having felt this vulnerable before even though she admits she still wants to.I calm her down and tell her that it's okay and nothing she should be ashamed of.I then share a story of one of my own vulnerabilities when I first had sex.Afterwards I get a condom and place it on my nightstand.
GB: "Whenever you're ready OK? and even if you're not that's okay.I won't look at you or treat you any different."
She looks at me and just lays in my arms.5 minutes later she says...
HG:"....I'm ready"
So I go and get then condom put it on and go back to teasing her to get her nice and wet.Afterwards I realize a huge problem...I've gone soft.FUCK.MY.LIFE
HG: "Well I guess that happens sometimes huh?"
GB: "Yeah they didn't have the ones that I wanted at CVS" I relax and try again but still limp...dammit
HG: "Don't worry we'll get the right ones next time"
So we just stayed up talking and teasing each other the rest of the night till 8am where she had to leave for classes that morning.Oh did I mention she left her panties for me too...Yeah attah girl HG. :)

Thursday

She tried to call me and wanted to come over since she had like 6 of her sorority sisters in her apartment and wanted to spend the night at my place.I was out with some friends and didn't see the call so when I got home I passed out.

TODAY

She calls me trying to talk but i'm downstairs in the basement doing laundry. I shot her a text
GB: "Hey what's up I saw ur message"
HG: "Yeah I wanted to talk something's come up can I call you.I'd rather we do this over the phone"
(AHHHH SHIT...and I actually liked this one too :( )
So I call her and she tells me that they guy she told me with and her are back together.She decided to give him another chance.I just listen to her and am like
GB: "No problem you can't help how you feel but I really enjoyed our time together even if it was only for one night.I don't like burning bridges so if you want me to be the guy on the side that's cool but if not that's cool too.My door and bed are always open."
HG: "She laughs and says, "WOW umm that's not gonna be happening I like you but I just think we should be friends for now and not in the sexually capacity"

Afterwards I put on my big boy pants and keep it moving...after I tell my mom and we have a good laugh about it.(DON'T judge me lol. You wouldn't believe how supportive my mom is of me learning pick up and girlschase lol.(Not to sound arrogant) I kinda came to the conclusion that it was probably a little too much for her too handled especially how all that could have happened in one night.Then there's her upbringing and she might feel a little disgusted with how she let herself go so easily that night.So instead of taking a chance on me and something new it was easier for her to go with what she knows and is safe i.e. the other guys. Let me know what you guys think.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

ray_zorse

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Re: LR: 2 steps forward ,1 step back

LMAO u were golden, I especially liked the bit about Slytherin girls, nice touch... the reassurances about not judging and society's crap standards were also very smooth, that's something I have yet to learn in my game. Although she backed off a bit when you mentioned it in text so perhaps best done in person? Hmm well these shy inexperienced types can be unpredictable huh... it really is about being in the moment and going under the radar before the sex regret kicks in ay...
cheers, Ray
PS Keep em coming :) :)
 

TheGoldenBoy

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Re: LR: 2 steps forward ,1 step back

Yeah I think it was the sex regret especially when you've got a white-knight,her pledge sisters and parents breathing down your neck filling your head with all sorts of ideas. She even said it's like you know what you want but you have to do something else to meet everyone elses expectations.
 

Ross

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Re: LR: 2 steps forward ,1 step back

Well done Golden ;).

I would've called bullshit on the whole "we should be just friends" routine. It's obvious that she felt vulnerable with you and was taking a large investment in you when she lost her virginity. After this girls can get very flaky if not handled correctly. If I had to guess, she is smitten with you, but when you didn't answer her she probably started freaking out about the entire thing and fled to the safety of her old life.

When you use the nice guy act it lets her know she can just do that (she has the power),

GB: "No problem you can't help how you feel but I really enjoyed our time together even if it was only for one night.I don't like burning bridges so if you want me to be the guy on the side that's cool but if not that's cool too.My door and bed are always open."

Effectively killing off some feelings for you. Which is fine if you didn't want to keep this girl around. She probably felt like you didn't care to keep her to around, so she went running to those who made it clear they cared.

However, if you did want to keep her around it would've been wise to send her a text after the two of you got together letting her know that you still liked her. That's probably the most important thing with these types of girls.
 

TheGoldenBoy

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Re: LR: 2 steps forward ,1 step back

Yeah you're right Ross I did fuck up big time. I did wanna keep this girl around just let my mouth run on auto-pilot with out thinking -_-'. She was easily my type and vice versa,can't believe I did all that,got through all that LMR only to drop the ball during the last play in 4th quarter...
 
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