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submissive feminen women are hot. especialy if they have things in common with you. but I think that I may have scared my first off. we met a little like this
Me: cool drawing
Sub:thanks
Me: So what major are you in?
Sub:Illustration
Me: yea, so am i
Me: so what do you like to draw?
She went on a long tangent about dogs and stuff . We met the next day on the roof with the rest of the group. I sat close to her and we talked about sex, she had bought it up and asked if I thought I was trying to have sex and I said "I don't belive that people should be forced into doing anything". she said "I know you wouldn't hurt me or anything, I just don't like you in that way, people should only have sex when they are married............"
afterwards we still hung out after classes, I would touch her incedentaly when we would draw. we planed to watch a movie together and when I went to grab my laptop I teased her by grabbing her by her hand and saying come in. (girls cant be in boys rooms)
then we had an incedent where she told one of the mentor's that I touched her innapropriatly .
I asked her about it and she said that everything was fine and that she had just wanted to be friends . I said sure, "Go sit with your friends. she refused and just stayed sitting right next to me.
we drew together some more at a presentation from chrystler. she drew in my sketchbook because she forgot her's
then something weird happened
"thank matthew for letting me draw in his sketchbook" she had used this in word bubble for one of her drawings.
I started to hang out with her at her table because it's good to have women friends. Her friends and I hit it off pretty well we all liked anime and video games. I also sat at her table because my other "friends " were being disinclusive saying stuff like "
"only the band"( a fake band of some of the members of the group.) and someone who I thought was cool had turned his back on me after I tried helping him get a girl and started to try and tool me every time he talked to a new girl and I happened to walk by "saying stuff like"smooth matthew"
I had started to notice patterns there were two girls who would always look at us whenever we were alone. they had come up and introduced themselves to sub and walked away with her while we where hanging out. I just thought, oh mabey its my preselection from hanging out with Sub so much. they turned out to be concerned, probobly after sub told them about how scared she was of me. even when I ask her if she is comfortable, or if she wanted to hang out she always ment the opposite of what she said to me. She told her mentor agin that "all we talk about is sex" , and that she felt unsafe. she had been giving signals of intrest, we would always hang out and sketch, I had asked her to sit with her friends on the bus and she didn't get up, how would you know if she was scared? we talked it out and agreed to never talk to each other agin. I guess this was for the best.
I Need to learn from this mistake and : Post more field reports WHEN I do have outings
watch out how much time I spend on a single girl
Scope out girls that want sex more accuratly
be more descrete whenever I am with a girl
aim for girls that are less extreme christians or not religious at all
handle lmr without throwing out the keys
be less direct and practice indirect direct game
Me: cool drawing
Sub:thanks
Me: So what major are you in?
Sub:Illustration
Me: yea, so am i
Me: so what do you like to draw?
She went on a long tangent about dogs and stuff . We met the next day on the roof with the rest of the group. I sat close to her and we talked about sex, she had bought it up and asked if I thought I was trying to have sex and I said "I don't belive that people should be forced into doing anything". she said "I know you wouldn't hurt me or anything, I just don't like you in that way, people should only have sex when they are married............"
afterwards we still hung out after classes, I would touch her incedentaly when we would draw. we planed to watch a movie together and when I went to grab my laptop I teased her by grabbing her by her hand and saying come in. (girls cant be in boys rooms)
then we had an incedent where she told one of the mentor's that I touched her innapropriatly .
I asked her about it and she said that everything was fine and that she had just wanted to be friends . I said sure, "Go sit with your friends. she refused and just stayed sitting right next to me.
we drew together some more at a presentation from chrystler. she drew in my sketchbook because she forgot her's
then something weird happened
"thank matthew for letting me draw in his sketchbook" she had used this in word bubble for one of her drawings.
I started to hang out with her at her table because it's good to have women friends. Her friends and I hit it off pretty well we all liked anime and video games. I also sat at her table because my other "friends " were being disinclusive saying stuff like "
"only the band"( a fake band of some of the members of the group.) and someone who I thought was cool had turned his back on me after I tried helping him get a girl and started to try and tool me every time he talked to a new girl and I happened to walk by "saying stuff like"smooth matthew"
I had started to notice patterns there were two girls who would always look at us whenever we were alone. they had come up and introduced themselves to sub and walked away with her while we where hanging out. I just thought, oh mabey its my preselection from hanging out with Sub so much. they turned out to be concerned, probobly after sub told them about how scared she was of me. even when I ask her if she is comfortable, or if she wanted to hang out she always ment the opposite of what she said to me. She told her mentor agin that "all we talk about is sex" , and that she felt unsafe. she had been giving signals of intrest, we would always hang out and sketch, I had asked her to sit with her friends on the bus and she didn't get up, how would you know if she was scared? we talked it out and agreed to never talk to each other agin. I guess this was for the best.
I Need to learn from this mistake and : Post more field reports WHEN I do have outings
watch out how much time I spend on a single girl
Scope out girls that want sex more accuratly
be more descrete whenever I am with a girl
aim for girls that are less extreme christians or not religious at all
handle lmr without throwing out the keys
be less direct and practice indirect direct game
