2016 the Year of Ex Procastinator

[Ex Procastinator]

As it's a new year I thought I should set some goals to push for ( ending 2015 I didn't actively try and improve myself with women I was just reading material and sometimes applying it) ( I also was basically only doing night game and under the influence of alcohol)

Through 2015 I definitely improved and pushed some boundaries and took some risks which got me past sticking points


This year I want to actively improve my game cold approaching getting on dates and putting myself in a position to grow and succeed

I also want to go back to working out (I have good fundamentals but I'm getting complacent they can be better)

Some quantitative goals

I want to try aim for 2 LR's a month as a stretch meaning 24 new lays this year
Most importantly I want to have fun doing so enjoy the fuck ups enjoy the experience and make my development something fun and something I enjoy doing

Some side goals not girl related
Want to save up money for a holiday which is feasible if I cut out drinking and other expenses resulting from it

I also want to focus on my study and work on some of my business ideas

I want to do weekly or fortnightly post on my journal and as I progress I'll probably add more micro goals. For those who are at a similar stage to me I urge you to message me cause in a very competitive person so it would be good fun

 

[007]

Bonsoir Brother Seducer!


I guess it's time to live up to your name this year?

It's nice to hear that You pushed the boundaries in 2015 but now it's time to smash... We have quite similar goals in terms of cold approaching and I would encourage You to journal more because it is genuinely (scientifically proven) that it will help You improve immensely..big boost.

As for the healthy competition.. I said my goal for the end of the academic year is to add another 10 to my list so why not 24 (or more) in the whole year. HELL YEA...

So.. If You want, we can do it brother.But to do it properly it'd be good to know some stuff. You about me and me about you.. not too much is needed to make the competition happen but things like Age, Current lay count, Country, City and how much we're going out on average to pick up would be good.

I am a big believer that this would speed up things for both and make the process even funnier + could go out to pickup together if circumstances allow

Let me know what You think. I am really excited about the possibility as I always wanted something like this.


Peace and pussy,
007

 

[Seppuku]

Hello gents,

Happy new year!

If you want to estimate what it takes to achieve a lay count such as 24 a year, I would suggest you try to put up some numbers. How many dates do you think you need to get one lay? How many approaches do you need to get one date? Say you need three dates to get one lay, and say you need twenty approaches to get one date (just random numbers here but you can put your own realistic estimates instead). Then it means you need 60 approaches for each lay, or 120 approaches per month for 2 lays a month. That's roughly 30 approaches per week. How much time can you realistically devote each week to get these 30 approaches? Does it fit within your schedule, given your other activities? This sort of reasoning should give you a sense of whether the said goal is realistic or not, and if not, what is a more realistic target.

Also, once you get phone numbers, you will need to follow up on each number. It helps to have a list of new numbers on paper and keep track of which number requires more follow up.

This sort of reasoning have helped me a lot. I used it to set myself a target goal in terms of approaches per week... Then making sure I follow up on each new lead. Hope it helps you too!

Cheers,
Seppuku

 

[007]

Salut Mr. Seppuku!

Thanks for Your contribution. I'm myself a big fan of such reasoning and love to make calculations and play with the stats You definitely have a point and there's no disagreement that the goals should be realistic but You know what...

I will try to positively disprove this !

Yes, It helps to think globally but reality always happens on a local level of the NOW. If You put your best in every approach, interaction and the MOMENT, when you are with the girl, you can reduce the effort to lay ratio immensely. Of course that might only apply to me because I know I have tight fundamentals and not the worst game. It definitely varies from person to person.

I like what one of the members wrote in one of the posts recently: Its 95% about who you are and 5% is the process/game (well in my theory everything is a process but one is the proces of 'becoming The Man' and one is the actual process of seduction). If you can be a 'pussy magnet', generate opportunities, attraction and arousal and then act on it, there is not much left than sex. OF course the numbers matter and a global, future-oriented reasoning is beneficial but the reality always happens in the very moment.

I think I can get at least 10 social circle lays and then at least 10 more from generating an 'Anatman' reputation on the way. Then, I only need to squeeze 4 more into the picture: 2 lucky ONSs and 2 sloppy Tinder ones for the sake of the competition hahah..

Well, we'll see. All we can do is improve, learn, try and rise.

I will definitely do a bit of statistical reasoning as I love this stuff. (maybe 3 dates is a bit too much at least in the GC mentality)


Thanks again and have a nice day,
007

 

[Ex Procastinator]

Thanks for the Reply 00

I guess it's time to live up to your name this year?

i think iv just hit the point in my life where i am just saying to myself "what am i waiting for"

It's nice to hear that You pushed the boundaries in 2015 but now it's time to smash... We have quite similar goals in terms of cold approaching and I would encourage You to journal more because it is genuinely (scientifically proven) that it will help You improve immensely..big boost.

My goal is to try update my journal every time something happens or just do a weekly summary i.e. how many approaches some interaction etc

I also feel like reflecting on my experiences in a more outright fashion will help me get past my sticking points and identify my weaknesses

So.. If You want, we can do it brother.But to do it properly it'd be good to know some stuff. You about me and me about you.. not too much is needed to make the competition happen but things like Age, Current lay count, Country, City and how much we're going out on average to pick up would be good.

ill personal Message you

I am a big believer that this would speed up things for both and make the process even funnier + could go out to pickup together if circumstances allow

I also believe it would give us the extra drive and help speed the processes also make it fun as well.

Maybe it will be so successful we can start our own system for people haha

Let me know what You think. I am really excited about the possibility as I always wanted something like this.

I'm definitely interested ill message you shortly

 

[Ex Procastinator]

Hello gents,

Happy new year!

If you want to estimate what it takes to achieve a lay count such as 24 a year, I would suggest you try to put up some numbers. How many dates do you think you need to get one lay? How many approaches do you need to get one date? Say you need three dates to get one lay, and say you need twenty approaches to get one date (just random numbers here but you can put your own realistic estimates instead). Then it means you need 60 approaches for each lay, or 120 approaches per month for 2 lays a month. That's roughly 30 approaches per week. How much time can you realistically devote each week to get these 30 approaches? Does it fit within your schedule, given your other activities? This sort of reasoning should give you a sense of whether the said goal is realistic or not, and if not, what is a more realistic target.

Also, once you get phone numbers, you will need to follow up on each number. It helps to have a list of new numbers on paper and keep track of which number requires more follow up.

This sort of reasoning have helped me a lot. I used it to set myself a target goal in terms of approaches per week... Then making sure I follow up on each new lead. Hope it helps you too!

Cheers,
Seppuku

Thanks for the reply Seppuku

After doing a bit in sales are part of my development in 2015 i realized the importance of using numbers and breaking down what is required to reach your goals

As i said above since i do not have much Raw data since i am new the cold approaching during day game 24 lays may be a stretch but the quantitative goal is not my ultimate goal but just something to strive for (when i start actively practicing and getting some numbers maybe a more realistic goal can be formulated)

Thanks for the very relevant information

 

[Ex Procastinator]

Saturday Just Passed first night game of 2016

Very quite night due to New years just occurring

Few interactions nothing major



Main points i got from the night are :

1. I am cutting drinking out of my life ( will make exceptions for special occasion)

through 2015 and this night it was clear the alcohol at my level was just burdening my development and to be honest i feel like i can be even more fun without it

2. I need to expand my social circle

I have a pretty big one by my inner social circle is not the best for improving my game most of the members who where part of the core who are successful with women typically have other social circles in which they usually sprout their success from or an enabled to succeed .

so my goal is to try tap into these outer circles where my social circle in not acting as an inhibition (ill still hang with them just will not try game with them)