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F: Excuse me.....sorry........I know this is random...........but I saw you from over there .......and .........I think you look cute
HB paused and wasn't going to speak
F: ker eye, Wah sure knee hun ker I
HB a little laugh and walks
+ I walk along with her
F: my name is F, whats your name
HB ignore me
F; where you from any way, are you from China or japan?
HB: China
F: knee jeye jerley joe some more?
HB: tourism
F: oh, so your on holiday, oh right
HB: yeah
F: you look like, I don't know you look like you study as well
HB: em hum, oh yeah university in China
F: university in China, so what do you study?
F: you look like you study art or something
NOTE: It's good you made a statement "you look like". Well done!!!
HB: journalism
F: journalism, oh right
F: so what made you decide to come to Uk then? Why not America or Africa or?
HB: it's not save to come to Africa I think
Both giggle
NOTE: She went from ignoring me and slowly answering my questions with one worded answers. Now she is smiling. She is slowly opening up. I have not reached hook point yet.
F: have you not been, it's quite good actually
NOTE: I noticed I can change the tone of my voice, making it go up and down and with power when needed. Before it was mostly seeking rapport tonality. It's still not deep enough yet, maybe it will change over time.
HB: I been to Europe sometimes but I never been to the Uk
F: sure how come your English is very good, I really like it
HB; hehe
F: it's like you practised quite a bit
HB: I study in a foreign language school
F: foreign language school, oh okay.
+ all this time, I was staying close to her and touching her when she is laughing on her left arm. Walking side by side. I normally touch her when she is in a positive mood or some spike in buying temperature. If she is in a negative or neutral mood, I don't touch her. When I'm not close to her, I notice that and move in closer to her.
F: so have you been to London yet, have you been to the whole of Uk?
HB: I been to Brighton, Scotland, Edinburgh
F: have you been to London Eye, Big Ben,
HB: no
F: you should definitely go, do you feel like a cup of coffee right now?
+ it just that we been walking around 2 minutes and she hasn't slowed down. I thought I just ask her and see what happens
F: i feel like maybe, we could have a little chat
HB ahhh
F: that means a no right?
HB: haha it's strange because I never been
F: really but your pretty
HB: thank you
F: no one in China has ever approached you before and say your pretty
HB: We never do that on street I think
F: really, maybe it's a little bit different down here
NOTE: good, you made it seem a little bit more normal. Or at least in your world, it's a little bit more normal
HB: where are you from?
F: basically I'm British born, so but my parents are from HK
HB I see
F: have you been to HK or?
HB: yeah yeah yeah I been to a workshop in university of HK and really like it
HB: I also have friends in HK because of Uni and some concerts
F: so you like HK music or?
HB: yeah
F: who is your favourite band? Eason Chan?
HB: yeah haha
F: why does everyone like Eason
F; so you got a tattoo, what is that?
+ GOOD job for mentioning the tattoo
HB: it's from Harry porter
F: Harry porter, your a harry porter fan
HB: yeah
F: have you ever dressed up as Harry porter?
HB: no haha
F: like where his glasses, do his hair, there is actually a Harry Porter event
HB: ah really
it is every year in London
F: I think so, yeah
F: also there is a Harry porter musical
HB: wow
F: I'm not a Harry porter fan but
HB: I know the musical
F: maybe I introduce you to Daniel Radcliffe, you can marry him or something
both giggle
F: is he your dream man or lol. You always wanted someone who could do magic
HB: yeah yeah yeah
F: take you around and
HB: bring me in the world of magic
F: by the way, my name is F, whats you name?
HB: Sicily
F: that sounds like a country, Sicily right?
HB: it's an Island of Italy
F: oh yeah
HB; my English teacher gave me that
F: sure, i thought your adventurous or something, you like to travel
HB: ah
F: I thought you called yourself Sicily
HB: it's a French name
F: Sicily, would you like to have a cup of coffee right now? or are you busy
HB: ok ok (nods to say yes)
F: there is a Costa over there
HB: I don't really like Costa
F: what is it you like?
HB: maybe you can so recommendations
F: yeah yeah yeah
HB: blah
F: personally I like Costa more
HB: haha
F: I am a simple man
HB: that makes sense. ok lets go to Costa
NOTE: I like this line "I'm a simple man"
F: lets go to costa, let's cross the road
NOTE: I get close to her and put my hand behind her back, while crossing the road
F: so are you the only one in the family? You look
HB: yeah, you ain't the only one in the famliy
F: Unfortunately not, we have to fight over things, you know
both giggle
F: no no just kidding
F: I'm the youngest in the family and they
NOTE: I was about to say, they love and look after me the most but she cut me off
HB: they always jealous
F: I always get spoilt by them, so
F: I'm the naughty one, the one that is misbehaving all the time
HB; haha
F: how about you? you look like the troubled one in the family?
HB: not actually
F: explain the tattoo
HB: haha my mother does know about that
HB: I spoke to them once about it and they said no. I did it anyway haha
F: maybe when i see them again, I tell them
F: just say your friend got you drunk and all of a sudden you discovered a tattoo
HB: ah hahaha
F: I woke up and i got a tattoo, it's not my faught
HB: hahaha
+ I order drinks in a take away cup
HB: it's quite hot today
F: yeah, where about do you study in China then?
HB: I study in Bejing.
F: is it an English international school?
HB: it's a normal university
HB: do you speak cantonese
F: yes
+ I move in and invade her personal space, she didn't back away
F: ley sick em sick gone gong dung wah?
+ i then touch her left arm
NOTE: good excuse to touch her
F: lay ho len luw (your very pretty)
HB: ohh haha I understand
F: why you understand that?
HB: I watched some HK drama
F: so you like HK actors
F: shall we go
+ waved her out of Costa
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F: Excuse me.....sorry........I know this is random...........but I saw you from over there .......and .........I think you look cute
HB paused and wasn't going to speak
F: ker eye, Wah sure knee hun ker I
HB a little laugh and walks
+ I walk along with her
F: my name is F, whats your name
HB ignore me
F; where you from any way, are you from China or japan?
HB: China
F: knee jeye jerley joe some more?
HB: tourism
F: oh, so your on holiday, oh right
HB: yeah
F: you look like, I don't know you look like you study as well
HB: em hum, oh yeah university in China
F: university in China, so what do you study?
F: you look like you study art or something
NOTE: It's good you made a statement "you look like". Well done!!!
HB: journalism
F: journalism, oh right
F: so what made you decide to come to Uk then? Why not America or Africa or?
HB: it's not save to come to Africa I think
Both giggle
NOTE: She went from ignoring me and slowly answering my questions with one worded answers. Now she is smiling. She is slowly opening up. I have not reached hook point yet.
F: have you not been, it's quite good actually
NOTE: I noticed I can change the tone of my voice, making it go up and down and with power when needed. Before it was mostly seeking rapport tonality. It's still not deep enough yet, maybe it will change over time.
HB: I been to Europe sometimes but I never been to the Uk
F: sure how come your English is very good, I really like it
HB; hehe
F: it's like you practised quite a bit
HB: I study in a foreign language school
F: foreign language school, oh okay.
+ all this time, I was staying close to her and touching her when she is laughing on her left arm. Walking side by side. I normally touch her when she is in a positive mood or some spike in buying temperature. If she is in a negative or neutral mood, I don't touch her. When I'm not close to her, I notice that and move in closer to her.
F: so have you been to London yet, have you been to the whole of Uk?
HB: I been to Brighton, Scotland, Edinburgh
F: have you been to London Eye, Big Ben,
HB: no
F: you should definitely go, do you feel like a cup of coffee right now?
+ it just that we been walking around 2 minutes and she hasn't slowed down. I thought I just ask her and see what happens
F: i feel like maybe, we could have a little chat
HB ahhh
F: that means a no right?
HB: haha it's strange because I never been
F: really but your pretty
HB: thank you
F: no one in China has ever approached you before and say your pretty
HB: We never do that on street I think
F: really, maybe it's a little bit different down here
NOTE: good, you made it seem a little bit more normal. Or at least in your world, it's a little bit more normal
HB: where are you from?
F: basically I'm British born, so but my parents are from HK
HB I see
F: have you been to HK or?
HB: yeah yeah yeah I been to a workshop in university of HK and really like it
HB: I also have friends in HK because of Uni and some concerts
F: so you like HK music or?
HB: yeah
F: who is your favourite band? Eason Chan?
HB: yeah haha
F: why does everyone like Eason
F; so you got a tattoo, what is that?
+ GOOD job for mentioning the tattoo
HB: it's from Harry porter
F: Harry porter, your a harry porter fan
HB: yeah
F: have you ever dressed up as Harry porter?
HB: no haha
F: like where his glasses, do his hair, there is actually a Harry Porter event
HB: ah really
F: I think so, yeah
F: also there is a Harry porter musical
HB: wow
F: I'm not a Harry porter fan but
HB: I know the musical
F: maybe I introduce you to Daniel Radcliffe, you can marry him or something
both giggle
F: is he your dream man or lol. You always wanted someone who could do magic
HB: yeah yeah yeah
F: take you around and
HB: bring me in the world of magic
F: by the way, my name is F, whats you name?
HB: Sicily
F: that sounds like a country, Sicily right?
HB: it's an Island of Italy
F: oh yeah
HB; my English teacher gave me that
F: sure, i thought your adventurous or something, you like to travel
HB: ah
F: I thought you called yourself Sicily
HB: it's a French name
F: Sicily, would you like to have a cup of coffee right now? or are you busy
HB: ok ok (nods to say yes)
F: there is a Costa over there
HB: I don't really like Costa
F: what is it you like?
HB: maybe you can so recommendations
F: yeah yeah yeah
HB: blah
F: personally I like Costa more
HB: haha
F: I am a simple man
HB: that makes sense. ok lets go to Costa
NOTE: I like this line "I'm a simple man"
F: lets go to costa, let's cross the road
NOTE: I get close to her and put my hand behind her back, while crossing the road
F: so are you the only one in the family? You look
HB: yeah, you ain't the only one in the famliy
F: Unfortunately not, we have to fight over things, you know
both giggle
F: no no just kidding
F: I'm the youngest in the family and they
NOTE: I was about to say, they love and look after me the most but she cut me off
HB: they always jealous
F: I always get spoilt by them, so
F: I'm the naughty one, the one that is misbehaving all the time
HB; haha
F: how about you? you look like the troubled one in the family?
HB: not actually
F: explain the tattoo
HB: haha my mother does know about that
HB: I spoke to them once about it and they said no. I did it anyway haha
F: maybe when i see them again, I tell them
F: just say your friend got you drunk and all of a sudden you discovered a tattoo
HB: ah hahaha
F: I woke up and i got a tattoo, it's not my faught
HB: hahaha
+ I order drinks in a take away cup
HB: it's quite hot today
F: yeah, where about do you study in China then?
HB: I study in Bejing.
F: is it an English international school?
HB: it's a normal university
HB: do you speak cantonese
F: yes
+ I move in and invade her personal space, she didn't back away
F: ley sick em sick gone gong dung wah?
+ i then touch her left arm
NOTE: good excuse to touch her
F: lay ho len luw (your very pretty)
HB: ohh haha I understand
F: why you understand that?
HB: I watched some HK drama
F: so you like HK actors
F: shall we go
+ waved her out of Costa
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