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F: Excuse me.....sorry........I know this is random...........but I saw you from over there .......and .........I think you look cute

HB paused and wasn't going to speak

F: ker eye, Wah sure knee hun ker I

HB a little laugh and walks

+ I walk along with her

F: my name is F, whats your name

HB ignore me

F; where you from any way, are you from China or japan?

HB: China

F: knee jeye jerley joe some more?

HB: tourism

F: oh, so your on holiday, oh right

HB: yeah

F: you look like, I don't know you look like you study as well

HB: em hum, oh yeah university in China

F: university in China, so what do you study?

F: you look like you study art or something

NOTE: It's good you made a statement "you look like". Well done!!!

HB: journalism

F: journalism, oh right

F: so what made you decide to come to Uk then? Why not America or Africa or?

HB: it's not save to come to Africa I think

Both giggle

NOTE: She went from ignoring me and slowly answering my questions with one worded answers. Now she is smiling. She is slowly opening up. I have not reached hook point yet.

F: have you not been, it's quite good actually

NOTE: I noticed I can change the tone of my voice, making it go up and down and with power when needed. Before it was mostly seeking rapport tonality. It's still not deep enough yet, maybe it will change over time.

HB: I been to Europe sometimes but I never been to the Uk

F: sure how come your English is very good, I really like it

HB; hehe

F: it's like you practised quite a bit

HB: I study in a foreign language school

F: foreign language school, oh okay.

+ all this time, I was staying close to her and touching her when she is laughing on her left arm. Walking side by side. I normally touch her when she is in a positive mood or some spike in buying temperature. If she is in a negative or neutral mood, I don't touch her. When I'm not close to her, I notice that and move in closer to her.

F: so have you been to London yet, have you been to the whole of Uk?

HB: I been to Brighton, Scotland, Edinburgh

F: have you been to London Eye, Big Ben,

HB: no

F: you should definitely go, do you feel like a cup of coffee right now?

+ it just that we been walking around 2 minutes and she hasn't slowed down. I thought I just ask her and see what happens

F: i feel like maybe, we could have a little chat

HB ahhh

F: that means a no right?

HB: haha it's strange because I never been

F: really but your pretty

HB: thank you

F: no one in China has ever approached you before and say your pretty

HB: We never do that on street I think :)

F: really, maybe it's a little bit different down here

NOTE: good, you made it seem a little bit more normal. Or at least in your world, it's a little bit more normal

HB: where are you from?

F: basically I'm British born, so but my parents are from HK

HB I see

F: have you been to HK or?

HB: yeah yeah yeah I been to a workshop in university of HK and really like it

HB: I also have friends in HK because of Uni and some concerts

F: so you like HK music or?

HB: yeah

F: who is your favourite band? Eason Chan?

HB: yeah haha

F: why does everyone like Eason

F; so you got a tattoo, what is that?

+ GOOD job for mentioning the tattoo

HB: it's from Harry porter

F: Harry porter, your a harry porter fan

HB: yeah

F: have you ever dressed up as Harry porter?

HB: no haha

F: like where his glasses, do his hair, there is actually a Harry Porter event

HB: ah really :) it is every year in London

F: I think so, yeah

F: also there is a Harry porter musical

HB: wow

F: I'm not a Harry porter fan but

HB: I know the musical

F: maybe I introduce you to Daniel Radcliffe, you can marry him or something

both giggle

F: is he your dream man or lol. You always wanted someone who could do magic

HB: yeah yeah yeah

F: take you around and

HB: bring me in the world of magic

F: by the way, my name is F, whats you name?

HB: Sicily

F: that sounds like a country, Sicily right?

HB: it's an Island of Italy

F: oh yeah

HB; my English teacher gave me that

F: sure, i thought your adventurous or something, you like to travel

HB: ah

F: I thought you called yourself Sicily

HB: it's a French name :)

F: Sicily, would you like to have a cup of coffee right now? or are you busy

HB: ok ok (nods to say yes)

F: there is a Costa over there

HB: I don't really like Costa

F: what is it you like?

HB: maybe you can so recommendations

F: yeah yeah yeah

HB: blah

F: personally I like Costa more

HB: haha

F: I am a simple man

HB: that makes sense. ok lets go to Costa

NOTE: I like this line "I'm a simple man"

F: lets go to costa, let's cross the road

NOTE: I get close to her and put my hand behind her back, while crossing the road

F: so are you the only one in the family? You look

HB: yeah, you ain't the only one in the famliy

F: Unfortunately not, we have to fight over things, you know

both giggle

F: no no just kidding

F: I'm the youngest in the family and they

NOTE: I was about to say, they love and look after me the most but she cut me off

HB: they always jealous

F: I always get spoilt by them, so

F: I'm the naughty one, the one that is misbehaving all the time

HB; haha

F: how about you? you look like the troubled one in the family?

HB: not actually

F: explain the tattoo

HB: haha my mother does know about that

HB: I spoke to them once about it and they said no. I did it anyway haha

F: maybe when i see them again, I tell them

F: just say your friend got you drunk and all of a sudden you discovered a tattoo

HB: ah hahaha

F: I woke up and i got a tattoo, it's not my faught

HB: hahaha

+ I order drinks in a take away cup

HB: it's quite hot today

F: yeah, where about do you study in China then?

HB: I study in Bejing.

F: is it an English international school?

HB: it's a normal university

HB: do you speak cantonese

F: yes

+ I move in and invade her personal space, she didn't back away

F: ley sick em sick gone gong dung wah?

+ i then touch her left arm

NOTE: good excuse to touch her

F: lay ho len luw (your very pretty)

HB: ohh haha I understand

F: why you understand that?

HB: I watched some HK drama

F: so you like HK actors

F: shall we go
+ waved her out of Costa

Minutes 9.22

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NEXT TIME YOU CAN CREATE A BIT MORE DRAMA:

F: Unfortunately not, we have to fight over things, kind of like Game of Thrones.

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+ waved her out of Costa coffee and I lead her towards the park

F: are you a HK fan or a Korean fan?

NOTE: GOOD use for next time

HB: giggles how did you know

F: haha

HB: we are split into 3 categories. One is Korean fans, One is Japanese fan and Hong kong fan. If you meet a Chinese girl. if you choose Korean first and second Hong Kong, you never miss it

F: it's funny, i was guessing and didn't really know

HB: haha

NOTE: she is around 19, that is why I think she is giggling all the time.

F: Chinese girls like Korean because they like Korean Drama

HB: yeah yeah yeah

HB: very famous Korean actors, make up artist. I like a lot of things and not in a specific category

F: yeah so you like a mixture of things, is it

HB: yeah

F; so what kind of mixture, do you like then

NOTE: this is not a very good question. Your putting her on the spot, to come up with things to say. When you make assumptions or statements, you have to be specific. It's too general and your trying to get her to do all the work. Your only 11 minutes in and your gut feeling tells you, you haven't reached attraction yet. How can you qualify someone who is not attracted? Save it for later on, your still adjusting her volume nob. Your decreasing the sound of the volume nob which is bad, you should be increasing the volume nob. Your doing one step forward and two steps back. You should be increasing the positive momentum but you created a downward spiral. You can still turn it around but just beware for next time.


HB: it's hard to say, um

HB: is it always like this in the summer

F: no, it's very rare

HB: I think it's 20

F: yeah, it's very very rare it's hot. Normally it's raining, cold

NOTE: GOOD, I like the way you finished her sentence

HB: I been here for 2 weeks and there is no rain

F: haha

HB: I'm surprised, everyone told me I have to carry an umbrella. I bring it everyday but never use it

F: alright haha

F: yeah, it's not going to rain at all, so

F; so where about are you living right now?

NOTE: this is a good question but I felt you asked at the wrong time. You haven't spiked her buying temperature or self amused yourself. You should ask it when she is smiling or having fun. It's still good that you asked it :)

HB: near Angel station

F: Angel station, I got a friend that lives in that area, Angel yeah

NOTE: GOOD, your seeding a pull around her house. You have an excuse to go to Angel. So far she told you, she is travelling and not staying long. If the girl is staying in Uk for a long time, you don't need this excuse.

HB nods :)

F: I believe Angel is Central line, the red one

NOTE: no it's not, its the northern line next to Kings Cross lol

HB: don't know haha

HB: I don't travel the underground so much because it's hot. In China we have air con

F: Yeah and you have wifi

HB: blah blha

F: shall we cross over there ( I point in a direction leading)

NOTE: good leading

NOTE: I believe I was walking close to her and put my hand behind her back. It's hard to remember everything lol

F: how long you staying in Uk for then, in the holiday?

HB: just 3 weeks and this is my final week. I will leave for Paris, Saturday

+ that means 4 days left.

NOTE: I have different thoughts about inner game now. I use to like it and swear by it. Now some PUA material have good structure, techniques and tactics that mesh well with developing natural game. I don't feel it's needed any longer. I guess now pua products are so complete, you don't need to work on your inner game. The problem is, you develop fast but your inner game still needs to catch up as your neural pathways in your brain is getting rewired. You might feel like a fraud but as your sleeping or taking a rest from pickup, your brain is rewiring and eventually you wake up as the choose one. Like Neo in The Matrix

F: and then look at French men

HB: haha

F: Bonjour, jem ma pearl. Merci Be cue. Yes i like Korean men, Hong Kong men

HB: hmm hmmm ( trying not to laugh)

HB: but I will only visit Paris blah

F: really but Paris is the most romantic place

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NOTE: I feel like, I know why this interaction didn't work. I didn't really set the bf/gf frame or lover frame. The self amusement should be about me and her and how i can put 20 babies in her stomach. The self amusement frame should be more sexual and how I want to get it on with her. Too early to tell, will see.

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F: so your a romantic, a helpless romantic

HB: haha I think the Southern part of France is more active and attractive

NOTE: you can role play and self amuse about her and you going to France. Eating pasta and drinking champagne and exaggerate it. If you exaggerate it, she can't reject it because it's like a joke. It's like the, will you marry me routine. You don't know her and you propose but the girl loves it and plays along. If you exaggerate and make it fun, she will play along and eventually accepting your frame

HB: and it's near the sea

F: your young and beautiful

HB: haha

F: go travel more and see more of life

HBV: thank you

NOTE: problem is your encouraging her without you in the frame

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The Titanic Movie frame would be good:

Jack: We drink cheap beer, ride roller coaster until we throw up.........and I show you........how to split like a man

Just the overall frame and In your own words obviously

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F: do you have any other tattoos

HB: no, my first tattoo and only tattoo

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NEXT TIME SAY:

F: you should get............ some more tattoos........... Hello Kitty here, Ninja turtles here, Power rangers here, Bugs bunny here

Cartoons:

+and touch her

+ don't ask if she has tattoos, it's weak

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F: you should get a Hello kitty here at the back

NOTE: kino her back GOOD!!!

HB: I don't like Hello Kitty at the back

HB: why you think girls like cutie things

F: haha

+ it's so funny the way she said it lol

HB: it's kind of stereo type

both giggle

HB: majority of girls like cuttie things

F: apart from you, your a man

+ lol nice

Hb giggles I think that's silly

F: I know, I'm just kidding

HB: I'm planning to get a tattoo on my wrist but that will be obvious, so my mother will see it

F: if you get one on the wrist, what would it be

HB: blah blah blah

F: you can put my name on your wrist FEARLESS

HB: haha
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NOTE: you missed a chance to kino her.

F: stop, let me see your wrist for a sec. (start writing and spelling FEARLESS at the same time.

NOTE: putting a time constraint on a kino move, is very good: Show me your wrist for a sec. She knows you won't hold it for long

F: Just 2 seconds, let me see your (wrist/arm/ whatever)

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F: your mum will say, who is Fearless? oh some guy I meet

HB: on the street of London

NOTE: low value self amusement. Very bad

HB: are you a student now?

minutes 16

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HB: are you a student now?

F: I work now, I work in property management

HB: ahhh lol

F: haha your so cute, I like the way you like, I have no idea

F: I renovate houses... and .......then I get people to rent it

HB: like agency

F: yeah, i do it for my dad, he has property. I help him arrange the plumbers and builders.

HB: ah

F: and we fix the house basically

+ Hb is confused but kind of gets it

F: so what are you studying now

HB: I'm studying journalism as my major

F: you like to go and...write stories

HB: no taking pictures and video

F: sound like YouTube or Facebook

HB: blah blah

minutes 19.27

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F: have you been to St james park before

HB: no

F: ok, I will introduce you to Prince William and Price Charles and harry

HB: it's this place

F: this is where Harry and Meghan lives

HB asks about the Royal family

F: they also live in Windsor as well.

F: and they know Harry porter as well

HB: haha

F: he can do some magic and we can have some breakfast, some scone, some sandwich

HB: blah blah

F: so do you like the British accent then, the way people speak here compared to

HB: yeah

F: what kind of English did you learn, American or English

HB: blah blah a mixture blah blah

F: they speak British and American

HB: yeah

F: wow

F: your welcome, this is my Palace

HB: woo hahaha

+ she giggles and I put my hand behind her back, with me quite close to her side by side. I released quite well

HB: these two buildings

F: they don't belong to me, I'm just kidding :)

HB: I know I know hahaha

HB: i never been to the parks

F: in Uk they have the best parks

HB: we don't have these big parks blah blah

F: I do like the parks in China where they can exercise

HB: yeah hahaha

F: that's the palace, that is where they live.

F: come here a bit

+ I place my hand on her shoulder (GOOD)

F: that is Buckingham Palace.

F: That is where they have the scone, the sandwiches, the English tea

F: have you tried the British tea

HB: yeah

F: do you like it or.

NOTE: you must spend more time thinking about how you kino and where you kino. You must imagine it and write on the FRs

HB: yeah

F: it's not bubble tea haha

HB: do you like bubble tea

F: I like it actually

HB: haha

F: I like it more than the English tea

HB: oh really haha

HB: you should go to China and I will show you how many bubble teas we have

HB: careful, lets go

+ crossing the road

+ My drink spilt a bit over my face as I was running. Becareful and hold drink lower when crossing the road

HB: when in China did you go

F: I went to Shanghai and Guangzhou

F: the thing with Shanghai, i found there is a lot of pollution in that area.

HB: the pollution is Beijing is much more serious than Shanghai

HB: Beijing is not a suitable place for humans to live

F: haha (the way she said it was funny)

F; where abouts you live in China

HB: near Sichuan

F: I had Sichuan food before

HB: spicy yeah yeah yeah

+ She didn't like Beijing because of the pollution and force to live there for studies. the good thing is she is talking much more

F: have you gone to America yet?

HB: yeah

F: do you like America?

HB: yes my brothers live there

F; shall we take a seat, down here

(I point at the grass)

NOTE: good leading

HB: you can step on the grass in Uk but never in China

+ dam, she was waiting for me to sit first. i wanted her to sit first and then sit next to her. I sit down first and she joins me. She doesn't sit as close as I want her to sit.

NEXT TIME: Stand up and sit back down but closer to her (find an excuse)

HB: blah blah

F: so one one is allowed to have picnic in China then?

HB: we don't really do picnic, do you often do picnic

F: well in the summer time we can, just go to the supermarket and buy some stuff

HB: I have a question, where do you buy raw meat

+ HB doesn't know where because in China they have a lot of butcher markets and it's a lot cheaper. I tell her go to Tescos

HB: I cooked in my

F: can you cook, really wow, what can you cook?

HB: I can cook

F: I'm surprised

HB: sezchaun dishes

NOTE: I feel like I didn't do too well, talking to this girl but listening to the recording, it's not as bad as i thought it was. Also I feel I'm more laid back and it isn't as important to keep the conversation going. Before I kept coming up with topics to fill in the silence. I feel very, very uncomfortable when there is silence, this means there is a big inner game issue or some issues that happened in the past to cause me to think like this. I guess now my inner game is now strengthening more.

NOTE: Kino and sexual energy, I feel is still a bit weak. I still have to work on these sticking points.

+ Hb talks about the problems of finding Chinese ingredients and how she needs to travel to get them

minutes 32.11

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F: I didn't know you could cook :)

HB: I think young people nowadays don't cook

F: yeah yeah yeah so who taught you to cook?

HB: My grandmother, I guess you can not cook :)

F: I can eat

HB: hahaha

F: I can cook a few dishes but not much

HB: I think English dishes are hard to cook

F: I think it's quite easy, especially the traditional English breakfast

F: spaghetti but not really British

NOTE: 34 minutes in and you should be kinoing and escalating more

F: apart from travelling, what kind of interest you like doing and Harry porter

HB: haha

HB: sports

F: oh wow, what kind of sports you like

HB: I like running and volley ball

HB: I'm trying to play tennis

F: oh do you like tennis

minutes 34.34

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HB tells me she use to be a young athlete and how she didn't do it anymore. The career cycle is short

F: Are you like Wonder Woman

HB: haha

F: can you jump like this and jump like like
+ moving my arms around

HB: are you a DC fan

F: I like DC and Marvel.

NOTE: I feel like you should have stopped at DC and Marvel. If girls are interested, they will help you continue on this path. Maybe explain the one you like the most and why. There might be some insight into that. At the moment experiment and see what works for you.

F: so who is your favourite character then?

NOTE: You could of talked about which character you liked and why. I do feel the girl need to know more about you.

HB: recently it's spiderman.

NOTE: this girl isn't really in you. I think because she wasn't qualified, she just interested in whats going to happen. You can start number farming rather than instant dating. That way, she can decide whether to date you or not, knowing that your a stranger. It's good reference experience but to get laid number farming is more effective.

F: you can run but can you do back flips then?

HB: ah no

F: like spider man

+ HB talks about how most people foreigners think Chinese people can do Kung Fu. I had the same experience

HB: I can do tai chi

F: can you show me :)

HB: i will never do it for you

F: we are in the park right now

HB: it' silly, it's silly haha

HB: every junior has to learn Tai Chi in PE class

NOTE: I think I need to do more story telling but I feel the really problem is the value is not there. If your value is high or she is interested, then the girl will ask more questions about you and that's when the stories about my life comes out. I noticed quite a view girls have not asked me questions about my life. The techniques are there but the value isn't, that will develop over time.

+ we talk about China and apps like VPN and how Facebook, twitter, Instagram is blocked. How most Chinese are happy with the limited info they have in China. They don't really care about censorship that much. Most people don't like to spend money on VPN

+ a bee goes past and she ducks.

F: are you ok haha are you scared of bee hehe

HB: blah blah

F: when I was younger, my whole body had mosquito bites. As I got older, I think they stop biting me. When you younger, they think your sweeter

HB: yeah haha

F: don't worry, as you get older, they won't bite you as much. What else are you afraid of?

HB: snake

F: it taste delicious though, have you tried it, no, your from China and you never tried it

HB: There is a saying in China, Cantonese people eat everything

F: Monkey brain's, have you tried monkey brain no no no hahahhaha. I'm kidding

F: we don't eat monkey brains, this is something Indiana Jones has created

HB: ahh

F: do you eat dogs hahaha

HB: I don't eat dogs hahah

F: have you watched the movie Wong Fei Hung. He falls in love with his 13th aunt. She see's food and starts eating, oh this is Delicious

HB: dog

F: no he didn't say anything but he looked puzzled. About 2 minutes later someone said this dog meat is delicious. She goes what "dog meat". Someone says "yeah, you didn't know?. She goes errrrrrghhh

HB: haha

HB: we eat rabbit, do you eat rabbit

Minutes 48.09

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