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If you read my post a few days ago https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...at-would-work-with-me-for-a-few-months.29404/
Then you will have seen me talking about my failed date, the stuff I believe went wrong, etc. I had another last night, this time I corrected the mistakes I made and I believe this is what got me the lay.
I met this girl on Hinge. I'm not going to go over the texting because I don't want to copy paste, but basically I read the post by @Skills on how to message girls on dating apps and I just followed it. Asking girls "just curious, what are your 2 best qualities that have nothing to do with your appearance" has gathered the most invested responses by far. It makes you stand out. So I got her number and moved off hinge, kept the conversation minimal, asked when she would be free, set up a date for the next day.
Same premise as my last date, I invited her to the park. Except, on my first date, the girl said she had a park near her place, and I accepted to go there which was a mistake, because she lived 45 minutes from me and getting her to accept coming to my place was going to be difficult with such a long drive.
This second girl, she also suggested that she had a park nearby. I did not accept this, and told her I had a cool spot in mind for us already, which was a park much closer to my place.
So I went and picked her up, got to know her on the car, asked about her experiences teaching, her travels, where she sees herself in 10 years, her family, her interests, the meat and potatoes.
So we get to this park and we start walking together. I find a bench and tell her we will sit there. So we sit touching side to side and the conversation flows. She has a bandaid in her hand and I use this as an excuse to grab her hand and touch her, I compare hand sizes, I tell her she has soft hands, any excuse to establish touch with her. There's a bench just a few feet across from us, so after a few minutes of talking I tell her let's move to this bench, in order to get her used to complying with me. We continue talking, then I tell her let's keep walking, so we do. We walk a bit, then I suggest to her that I know a better park, and she agrees to go with me. This park, is on the same block as my place, so it's perfect logistics.
We get to the park, which I haven't been to in weeks, and realize it's all under construction. So we walk on the sidewalk, then sit on the bus stop bench. What she doesn't know, is that that bench is facing right at my house. I thought it was time to pull her. I hold her hand and look at her, she interlocks her fingers with mine and stares back, so I know this is my moment. I ask her if she wants to meet my cats, she says yes. I say lets go.
She tries walking to the car but I point to my house. We get inside, she's still standing, I take her handbag off, and put her phone on the counter. I grabbed her hands and started making out with her. We make out for like a minute, I take her to my bed and we sit on the edge. We keep making out, she lays back on my bed, and I start grinding on her. I take her top off. I'm biting and playing with her tits. Then I take her leggings off. I start kissing her thighs, teasing her. I take her panties off, I can tell she's extremely aroused because of the sharp smell. Not the biggest fan of eating pussy, but I go to town. I'm licking and sucking on her clit while I finger her with my pointer. She's getting off to it.
After a few minutes, I put my dick right in her face and have her give me a blowjob. She does for a bit, then starts taking hers out of her mouth and stops. I'm grinding my boner on her pussy. She asks if I have a condom, I tell her on the car, which is still parked at the park. I tell her if she wants me to go get it, but she doesn't let me get up. I stick my dick inside her and I can feel close to cumming already. After a few strokes, I go in the bathroom and bust. I figured if I let this one out I'll be good for the next one. I tell her I busted in the bathroom and needed a few minutes. She's cool with it. I get hard pretty soon after and start fucking her
One important thing I haven't mentioned yet, earlier in the day I was doing some jumps on concrete and I sprained my knee. I was walking with a limp and I couldn't even bend my leg. So basically, I was not able to keep a rhythm or thrust with power when I was fucking her as I was in pain and discomfort. I kept pushing her to the edge of climax, but couldn't finish her. She ended up getting frustrated and had me stop, she went to the bathroom and she masturbated to climax I assume. She did not say anything to me, I could just hear her low moans, when she came out of the bathroom she just smiled and looked at me, probably seeing how I would react. I'll admit at the time it stung, but I didn't let it show.
I grabbed the condoms from the car while she was in the bathroom, by the time I got back she was dressed in the living room. I apologized to her for not using a condom, because I thought that was the reason she had gotten frustrated and got up, but I realized afterwards that it wasn't for that reason.
Anyways, if I had gotten butthurt she probably would have had me take her home then. But I asked her if she wanted to go or if she wanted to stay and watch a movie. She said she wanted to stay, so we put on a funny movie. I sat next to her, and she grabbed my hand and wanted to hold it. After a few minutes of the movie, I saw she was closing her eyes, asked her if she was tired, she says yes, so I tell her lets go to bed then and we get in bed and just cuddle under a blanket. Her head is on my chest and she keeps kissing me.
I go for round 2, this time with a condom. The moment I put the condom on, my dick dies. Very frustrating. I got soft inside her because of the condom. we stop after a few minutes of struggle, and she cuddles with me again. After another few minutes, I start playing with her tits and rubbing her clit again. She starts giving me a hickie, and I give her one. I take her clothes off and start fucking her again. No condom cus I would've just gotten soft again. Same issue though, the knee pain starts getting stronger and I can't keep a rhythm. My penis has a downward curve which becomes painful for women after a bit, she started showing pain and told me to stop. We continued cuddling, then after a few minutes I started fingering her, she's still extremely wet, but her pussy hurts, so she says just the clit and I'm rubbing it. I tell her to jerk me off she does, I then have her give me a blowjob again, this time I'm the one laying back. She does, but stops after a minute or two, taking hair out of her tongue. Is that normal? How can I make women enjoy giving me blowjobs?
She ends up getting up and going into the bathroom a second time. The faucet was on so I assume she was cleaning out her tongue but also maybe finishing herself off again. At this point my ego is taking a beating, but after she comes out of the bathroom dressed, I ask her if she wants to go home and she says 10 more minutes, unless I wanted her to go home already. So I think that's consolation that despite my poor sexual performance she still wanted to stick around. She never went cold on me. I took her home soon after.
Then you will have seen me talking about my failed date, the stuff I believe went wrong, etc. I had another last night, this time I corrected the mistakes I made and I believe this is what got me the lay.
I met this girl on Hinge. I'm not going to go over the texting because I don't want to copy paste, but basically I read the post by @Skills on how to message girls on dating apps and I just followed it. Asking girls "just curious, what are your 2 best qualities that have nothing to do with your appearance" has gathered the most invested responses by far. It makes you stand out. So I got her number and moved off hinge, kept the conversation minimal, asked when she would be free, set up a date for the next day.
Same premise as my last date, I invited her to the park. Except, on my first date, the girl said she had a park near her place, and I accepted to go there which was a mistake, because she lived 45 minutes from me and getting her to accept coming to my place was going to be difficult with such a long drive.
This second girl, she also suggested that she had a park nearby. I did not accept this, and told her I had a cool spot in mind for us already, which was a park much closer to my place.
So I went and picked her up, got to know her on the car, asked about her experiences teaching, her travels, where she sees herself in 10 years, her family, her interests, the meat and potatoes.
So we get to this park and we start walking together. I find a bench and tell her we will sit there. So we sit touching side to side and the conversation flows. She has a bandaid in her hand and I use this as an excuse to grab her hand and touch her, I compare hand sizes, I tell her she has soft hands, any excuse to establish touch with her. There's a bench just a few feet across from us, so after a few minutes of talking I tell her let's move to this bench, in order to get her used to complying with me. We continue talking, then I tell her let's keep walking, so we do. We walk a bit, then I suggest to her that I know a better park, and she agrees to go with me. This park, is on the same block as my place, so it's perfect logistics.
We get to the park, which I haven't been to in weeks, and realize it's all under construction. So we walk on the sidewalk, then sit on the bus stop bench. What she doesn't know, is that that bench is facing right at my house. I thought it was time to pull her. I hold her hand and look at her, she interlocks her fingers with mine and stares back, so I know this is my moment. I ask her if she wants to meet my cats, she says yes. I say lets go.
She tries walking to the car but I point to my house. We get inside, she's still standing, I take her handbag off, and put her phone on the counter. I grabbed her hands and started making out with her. We make out for like a minute, I take her to my bed and we sit on the edge. We keep making out, she lays back on my bed, and I start grinding on her. I take her top off. I'm biting and playing with her tits. Then I take her leggings off. I start kissing her thighs, teasing her. I take her panties off, I can tell she's extremely aroused because of the sharp smell. Not the biggest fan of eating pussy, but I go to town. I'm licking and sucking on her clit while I finger her with my pointer. She's getting off to it.
After a few minutes, I put my dick right in her face and have her give me a blowjob. She does for a bit, then starts taking hers out of her mouth and stops. I'm grinding my boner on her pussy. She asks if I have a condom, I tell her on the car, which is still parked at the park. I tell her if she wants me to go get it, but she doesn't let me get up. I stick my dick inside her and I can feel close to cumming already. After a few strokes, I go in the bathroom and bust. I figured if I let this one out I'll be good for the next one. I tell her I busted in the bathroom and needed a few minutes. She's cool with it. I get hard pretty soon after and start fucking her
One important thing I haven't mentioned yet, earlier in the day I was doing some jumps on concrete and I sprained my knee. I was walking with a limp and I couldn't even bend my leg. So basically, I was not able to keep a rhythm or thrust with power when I was fucking her as I was in pain and discomfort. I kept pushing her to the edge of climax, but couldn't finish her. She ended up getting frustrated and had me stop, she went to the bathroom and she masturbated to climax I assume. She did not say anything to me, I could just hear her low moans, when she came out of the bathroom she just smiled and looked at me, probably seeing how I would react. I'll admit at the time it stung, but I didn't let it show.
I grabbed the condoms from the car while she was in the bathroom, by the time I got back she was dressed in the living room. I apologized to her for not using a condom, because I thought that was the reason she had gotten frustrated and got up, but I realized afterwards that it wasn't for that reason.
Anyways, if I had gotten butthurt she probably would have had me take her home then. But I asked her if she wanted to go or if she wanted to stay and watch a movie. She said she wanted to stay, so we put on a funny movie. I sat next to her, and she grabbed my hand and wanted to hold it. After a few minutes of the movie, I saw she was closing her eyes, asked her if she was tired, she says yes, so I tell her lets go to bed then and we get in bed and just cuddle under a blanket. Her head is on my chest and she keeps kissing me.
I go for round 2, this time with a condom. The moment I put the condom on, my dick dies. Very frustrating. I got soft inside her because of the condom. we stop after a few minutes of struggle, and she cuddles with me again. After another few minutes, I start playing with her tits and rubbing her clit again. She starts giving me a hickie, and I give her one. I take her clothes off and start fucking her again. No condom cus I would've just gotten soft again. Same issue though, the knee pain starts getting stronger and I can't keep a rhythm. My penis has a downward curve which becomes painful for women after a bit, she started showing pain and told me to stop. We continued cuddling, then after a few minutes I started fingering her, she's still extremely wet, but her pussy hurts, so she says just the clit and I'm rubbing it. I tell her to jerk me off she does, I then have her give me a blowjob again, this time I'm the one laying back. She does, but stops after a minute or two, taking hair out of her tongue. Is that normal? How can I make women enjoy giving me blowjobs?
She ends up getting up and going into the bathroom a second time. The faucet was on so I assume she was cleaning out her tongue but also maybe finishing herself off again. At this point my ego is taking a beating, but after she comes out of the bathroom dressed, I ask her if she wants to go home and she says 10 more minutes, unless I wanted her to go home already. So I think that's consolation that despite my poor sexual performance she still wanted to stick around. She never went cold on me. I took her home soon after.
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