26 and I've never had a girlfriend,kissed or had sex.

[nexus321]

Also get rid of the thoughts that girls or sex with girls will make you happy.

This is huge.

You think that getting the girl will make you happy but it won't. Become the person you desire to be deep down = happiness.

Also despite Slay's rather harsh feedback he does make one good point.

It takes motherfucking work.

How many girls have you approached in the last 3 months and where are the field reports?

Go approach 50 girls minimum per month and report back your results.

What is your next option from here?

Go out, approach, write field reports.

Do nothing and pout.

Your choice. Strength or weakness? Courage or cowardice?

A good book that helped me when I was stuck in the quicksand of self-pity and victim mentality was "The Traveler's Gift" by Andy Andrews.

Hope to see you take action in the right direction.

-Rob

Thanks man. I've approached 11 girls since last month. Before that I was sorta going through a hermit lifestyle. Yeah you're right, I need to do something otherwise I'm in the same spot as always. Yeah I'll post field reports.
I'll checkout the book
Thanks Rob.

 

[nexus321]

I'd like to thank everyone for commenting. I've read every reply at least 4-5 times. Sorry if I came off across as weak, I was having a moment of weakness.
I know I need to be better. I need to learn to believe in myself. I'm not gonna give up, I'm going to keep trying until I figure out how to succeed in this.
Most people never even try pickup, at least I have I just need to try harder until I become good at it.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

I'd like to thank everyone for commenting. I've read every reply at least 4-5 times. Sorry if I came off across as weak, I was having a moment of weakness.
I know I need to be better. I need to learn to believe in myself. I'm not gonna give up, I'm going to keep trying until I figure out how to succeed in this.
Most people never even try pickup, at least I have I just need to try harder until I become good at it.

Congratulations: you just died.

Remember this for the rest of your life. When you're watching your cum drip out of a supermodel as she looks back at you in reverence, know that this was the moment you began crafting the man she worships.

RIP, old Nexus.

Novus Nexus, welcome to the world. Grab a helmet and a condom.

- Hector

 

[killerman]

nexus you need to watch this, it will definitely help you out! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_UJt8pgt0o

 

[HellAtlantic]

Holy crap that's the first time I saw something by RSD Tyler. Haha that's what he looks like?! That's what he sounds like??? Haha holy crap I'm in the wrong business. Listen, he's got confidence and boldness, I'll give him that, and I'm no Brad Pitt circa Fight Club, but let me put it this way - if I were to stand right next to him while he tried to seduce he'd never keep the girls attention.

This goes to show you, OP, that confidence and boldness go a long way, or in the case of a cake eating schlub like Tyler it goes a verrrry long way. Holy crap this is ridiculous.

If I were to follow a guy like Tyler I would get motivation not so much from his actions but the fact that he looks and sounds like that and has success. Like I would say "if this schlub can do it so can I".

Your turn, OP, go out and get it!!

 

[GeneralFap]

@Hellatlantic I'm pretty sure tyler rsd would run circles around you mate. Have you seen his infield videos? He's beast. He's been doing this for more than a decade so I'm pretty sure he's miles ahead of most people here too

 

[HellAtlantic]

@Hellatlantic I'm pretty sure tyler rsd would run circles around you mate. Have you seen his infield videos? He's beast. He's been doing this for more than a decade so I'm pretty sure he's miles ahead of most people here too

How many of his videos show his failures? Lol I don't watch anyone's infield videos, I just read GC articles and field reports.

If you saw a video of someone making insane trick shots in basketball you would say "that's nice but what about all the trick shots he didn't make?", right? You would say "how many times did it take for him to make that shot?". There's a perception in the PU community that the experts have a 100% success rate. That's far from the truth. It leads to guys like the OP lamenting not even having kissed a girl because they perceive everyone else as being masters at seducing and really the only difference between an expert is maybe they score with 10% of their approaches and average to unskilled guys maybe score on 1%. So it's about a 9% difference between an expert and an unskilled guy (of course 10% of 1000 approaches is a different number than 1% of only 100 approaches so the fact that PU is a numbers game is never really appreciated enough). So these infield videos of that soft-voiced dough-boy means nothing to me. Let him show all the misses too. And let me tell you - a guy that looks and sounds like him is going to have *a lot* of misses lol.

 

[GeneralFap]

I'm not saying hes some sort of god at pickup, but I think its reasonable to assume that he is better than most people here, since hes been in the game far longer than most. And he does have videos showing him getting rejected and telling his students that its not a big deal. Of course, youre never going to know unless you actually watch his videos. And I dont think people like OP care if others are masters at seduction as much as he cares about just having his first success.He sees other guys (not talking experts here) who have gotten laid and reached success relatively quickly and he hasnt despite all his work. So he starts thinking "damn, maybe I'm really a lost case; I'm probably not good enough to get women, this seduction shit is useless." Its learned helplessness. He just wants to have his first success so he can prove to himself that he is able to get girls. The good thing that Tyler RSD does is to tell noobies like him to stop comparing themselves to regular guys who needed less work to get girls. Some guys here were actually naturals or social guys before they even started in GC, so if someone like OP starts comparing himself with them hes going to feel bad about himself. Tyler is an inspiration to many because he was a depressed ginger with OCD and still able to get hot girls....it just took him a longer time than most.

 

[killerman]

Nexus you need to listen to this. Half black, half Indian guy who's now good with girls. You can be that guy too. Just don't give up! We're all with you man. https://www.girlschase.com/content/girls ... liam-gupta

 

[JaegerBeta92]

i'm 24 and never had a girlfriend either, it sucks, and there are times i get angry, bitter, resentful, frustrated, that us guys are always expected to approach and make the first move, be the initiator, but i figure thats because i don't have a reference, a reference would mean an ex-girlfriend or a hot hook-up, and i'm sure when you have a reference, or especially the reference you want, the more references, then the more a guy learns to accept and deal with this gender role.