So it's the end of semester at uni and I've been trying to smash this HB 10 in one of my classes all semester. Just a background: She's a sorority, party girl, but it works out well because I am also pretty social. First few invites were just asking her to hang out, but she is very big on social proof so that didn't work out. I decided to just get cool with her and we ended up being friends and helping each other out with class. I stopped asking her out on dates (asked her maybe 3x) and just allowed her to validate me via social media (I work in nightlife and she's a party girl so this works out). After a while I was able to build up momentum by lightly flirting with her in class, teasing her, utilizing the 'asshole' personality, and light text message game. Text message game wasn't really text message game per say but more establishing a frame via texts. She would text me something about class, then I would change the subject to something somewhat interesting to her, and then stop replying ('leaving her on read'). This works with her because she is used to guys putting her on a pedestal, whereas I'm putting her in a 'chase' or just making myself seem too busy for her. All of this built up well and now she actually set up a study date with me instead of me asking her. Have this set up at my place for tomorrow.
Girl 2: This was sort of last minute but I've had a crush on this girl for a while. Anyways we ended up making convo on snapchat and she asked me what my plans were for the day. She was underage and I was going to a venue where they were strict on underage. I told her I was able to get her in, and I picked her up as her house was nearby the spot. My friend and I were in the car and the three of us were just having small talk, passing around some alcohol. I tried flirting with her lightly which she quickly shut down and gave off a cold vibe, trying to friend zone me. However once I got her into the bar and we had a few drinks she was very open and had a good energy about her. Her friends joined us and they were also cool. My friend was talking with one, and the other one had her bf with her so this allowed me more time with her. We ended up hooking up at the bar (usually a big no in my book) but she was going somewhere afterwards, and I had a different venue I had to head to as well. I already set up a date with her for next weekend. The social proof (getting her into the bar) helped me out in this situation a lot, but I also gamed her well as she was very closed off in the beginning of the night.
Girl 3: She's basically my FWB for now and she's a HB7. I took her on about 2 dates and also was able to get her into a difficult venue for date 3. After a night of drinking we went back to my place and had sloppy sex. I usually don't text her much as I don't need to, she grew an attachment to me based on the fact that I took her virginity. I didn't know she was a virgin until the drunken night we had sex and she told me after we fucked. We're both in finals mode, so once the holidays finish we'll hang out again. I plan on dropping this girl soon though as I am worried she will grow too attached which is a conflict. This girl and Girl 2 have mutual friends, her best friend lives with Girl 2. They have met before and she is aware that myself and Girl 2 were hanging out. Girl 2 also had me all over her snapchat the night we hung out which I'm sure she saw.
All in all, these girls were all won over via social proof, but also through game. I stood patient on Girl 3 (usually never do more than one date) but at the time I was in a cold point in terms of getting laid and I was bored. So I was gaming her for practice, Girl 1 was also a slow game I had to patiently wait out. Girl 2 was more of a last minute thing but I hope to establish an FWB relationship with her for the winter as I like her more than the other 2 girls.
More updates coming to you soon GC!
Girl 2: This was sort of last minute but I've had a crush on this girl for a while. Anyways we ended up making convo on snapchat and she asked me what my plans were for the day. She was underage and I was going to a venue where they were strict on underage. I told her I was able to get her in, and I picked her up as her house was nearby the spot. My friend and I were in the car and the three of us were just having small talk, passing around some alcohol. I tried flirting with her lightly which she quickly shut down and gave off a cold vibe, trying to friend zone me. However once I got her into the bar and we had a few drinks she was very open and had a good energy about her. Her friends joined us and they were also cool. My friend was talking with one, and the other one had her bf with her so this allowed me more time with her. We ended up hooking up at the bar (usually a big no in my book) but she was going somewhere afterwards, and I had a different venue I had to head to as well. I already set up a date with her for next weekend. The social proof (getting her into the bar) helped me out in this situation a lot, but I also gamed her well as she was very closed off in the beginning of the night.
Girl 3: She's basically my FWB for now and she's a HB7. I took her on about 2 dates and also was able to get her into a difficult venue for date 3. After a night of drinking we went back to my place and had sloppy sex. I usually don't text her much as I don't need to, she grew an attachment to me based on the fact that I took her virginity. I didn't know she was a virgin until the drunken night we had sex and she told me after we fucked. We're both in finals mode, so once the holidays finish we'll hang out again. I plan on dropping this girl soon though as I am worried she will grow too attached which is a conflict. This girl and Girl 2 have mutual friends, her best friend lives with Girl 2. They have met before and she is aware that myself and Girl 2 were hanging out. Girl 2 also had me all over her snapchat the night we hung out which I'm sure she saw.
All in all, these girls were all won over via social proof, but also through game. I stood patient on Girl 3 (usually never do more than one date) but at the time I was in a cold point in terms of getting laid and I was bored. So I was gaming her for practice, Girl 1 was also a slow game I had to patiently wait out. Girl 2 was more of a last minute thing but I hope to establish an FWB relationship with her for the winter as I like her more than the other 2 girls.
More updates coming to you soon GC!
