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30 Day Challenge, Day 03/30
I did 7 approaches. I decided that if I was going to go through this 30 day challenge I needed an edge. So I decided that I would stop masterbating and watching porn for a total 30 days. So far one thing is is clear, I have much more drive to approaching women. I’m like a horny batman or something
Today I approached 7 women just because I was horny as hell. I was so horny that I felt like my approach anxiety got overwritten. and the next thing I knew I was a machine when it came to approaching. Hell I used to take naps during the day, I haven’t taken a single one since I started this...weird.
Approach nr 1.
Me and my wing were about to cross the street when this hot latina chick walked across. I turned and jogged after her, the problem was she walked passed this huge group of people so I figured I would approach her after she passed them (I was nervous that they would hear me)
Maybe I waited too long, because she got kinda far. I jogged to the side and I side,
Me: “hey you’re cute I had to talk to you”
She kept walking looked at me like quizzically and said
“no, sorry” just then a bike messenger hit her arm as she was walking, “FUCK” she yelled and starting swearing to the guy getting really into it. I thought fuck, and bailed from the set before she turned her wrath towards me.
approach nr 2.
This cute blonde girl was sitting at this bench sipping a smoothie. I sat right next to her and asked how much the smoothie cost.
Her: “it’s x amount”
Me: “cool,what kind is it?"
Her: “Raspberry with banana"
Me: I usually buy the vanilla banana kind”
At this point she was kinda looking at me like why am I sitting here.
I asked her what she was doing.
Her: “I’m waiting for my brother”
Me: I pointed towards my wingman and said “I’m hanging with me buddy, but he’s over there having a fight with his gf on the phone, a little too much info there” (made shit up)
Her: she smiled and said “yeah it is”
Me: “I should head out, take care” I gave her a high five (don’t ask)
Approach 3
I saw this hot chick with black hair that I as I was walking by I said “hi” she put up her hand and kept walking.
So far I had approached 3 women. And Torstein (wingman) had done none. Which is weird considering he got an instantdate from doing this a couple of days ago. You would think that he would be anxious ‘not to’ approach.
I spotted this blonde woman
“Hey, you’re really cute. I had to talk to you” She stopped and looked confused. To make her loosen up I said. I know it’s pretty random a guy appraching you like this. You’re probably like hey, this never happens.”
This made her smile
she said that she was late for her flight that she was leaving for spain. She seemed like she was in a rush so I said “hey, why don’t you give me your number and when you’re back we’ll go for coffee."
I started to grab my phone, maybe I did it too prematurely? Should have maybe waited until she said yes?
Her: “ummm...I don’t know. I can’t, bye”
The last approach:
Redhead milf. My wing was gonna approach but he chickened out. So I ran over to her and said the old spiel. I slowed down my speech as I was talking, which made all the difference.
Me: “Hey, do you know where starbucks is?"
Her: “Umm... I don’t know."
Me: “Before you go, I have to tell you something.. You’re very cute, and I had to come over and talk to you. Then I introduced myself."
She said “thank you” she introduced herself. I maintained perfect eye contact (don’t think I even blinked)
Me: “What do you do?"
Her: “I work at a daycare."
Me: “Oh wow, I thought you might be a doctor, because of those nerdy glasses”
she smiled even more. That’s when I said.
Me: “Why don’t you give me your number and we’ll go out for coffee sometime?”
Her: “I have a boyfriend”
Me: “Damn it, why are the good ones never single?” said in a playful fun way.
Her: “I don’t know”
Me: “We’ll I can’t ask out someone who’s seeing someone. Kinda goes against my morals."
that’s when I bailed.
Torstein (wingman) did 3 approaches, I did 7. The goal was to do 5.
That’s pretty much all I remember.
Things I did well:
Got better at maintinaning eye contact.
Slowed down my speech.
Had good posture
Didn’t lean in
asked for the number
asked for a date
I used statements that’s definitely working. I’m on something here.
Things I could have done:
Banter a little bit more.
Flirt, make jokes.
maybe kinoed?
Questions:
What do I do when she says she has a boyfriend? Give up?
Anything you guys wanna add?
I did 7 approaches. I decided that if I was going to go through this 30 day challenge I needed an edge. So I decided that I would stop masterbating and watching porn for a total 30 days. So far one thing is is clear, I have much more drive to approaching women. I’m like a horny batman or something
Today I approached 7 women just because I was horny as hell. I was so horny that I felt like my approach anxiety got overwritten. and the next thing I knew I was a machine when it came to approaching. Hell I used to take naps during the day, I haven’t taken a single one since I started this...weird.
Approach nr 1.
Me and my wing were about to cross the street when this hot latina chick walked across. I turned and jogged after her, the problem was she walked passed this huge group of people so I figured I would approach her after she passed them (I was nervous that they would hear me)
Maybe I waited too long, because she got kinda far. I jogged to the side and I side,
Me: “hey you’re cute I had to talk to you”
She kept walking looked at me like quizzically and said
“no, sorry” just then a bike messenger hit her arm as she was walking, “FUCK” she yelled and starting swearing to the guy getting really into it. I thought fuck, and bailed from the set before she turned her wrath towards me.
approach nr 2.
This cute blonde girl was sitting at this bench sipping a smoothie. I sat right next to her and asked how much the smoothie cost.
Her: “it’s x amount”
Me: “cool,what kind is it?"
Her: “Raspberry with banana"
Me: I usually buy the vanilla banana kind”
At this point she was kinda looking at me like why am I sitting here.
I asked her what she was doing.
Her: “I’m waiting for my brother”
Me: I pointed towards my wingman and said “I’m hanging with me buddy, but he’s over there having a fight with his gf on the phone, a little too much info there” (made shit up)
Her: she smiled and said “yeah it is”
Me: “I should head out, take care” I gave her a high five (don’t ask)
Approach 3
I saw this hot chick with black hair that I as I was walking by I said “hi” she put up her hand and kept walking.
So far I had approached 3 women. And Torstein (wingman) had done none. Which is weird considering he got an instantdate from doing this a couple of days ago. You would think that he would be anxious ‘not to’ approach.
I spotted this blonde woman
“Hey, you’re really cute. I had to talk to you” She stopped and looked confused. To make her loosen up I said. I know it’s pretty random a guy appraching you like this. You’re probably like hey, this never happens.”
This made her smile
she said that she was late for her flight that she was leaving for spain. She seemed like she was in a rush so I said “hey, why don’t you give me your number and when you’re back we’ll go for coffee."
I started to grab my phone, maybe I did it too prematurely? Should have maybe waited until she said yes?
Her: “ummm...I don’t know. I can’t, bye”
The last approach:
Redhead milf. My wing was gonna approach but he chickened out. So I ran over to her and said the old spiel. I slowed down my speech as I was talking, which made all the difference.
Me: “Hey, do you know where starbucks is?"
Her: “Umm... I don’t know."
Me: “Before you go, I have to tell you something.. You’re very cute, and I had to come over and talk to you. Then I introduced myself."
She said “thank you” she introduced herself. I maintained perfect eye contact (don’t think I even blinked)
Me: “What do you do?"
Her: “I work at a daycare."
Me: “Oh wow, I thought you might be a doctor, because of those nerdy glasses”
she smiled even more. That’s when I said.
Me: “Why don’t you give me your number and we’ll go out for coffee sometime?”
Her: “I have a boyfriend”
Me: “Damn it, why are the good ones never single?” said in a playful fun way.
Her: “I don’t know”
Me: “We’ll I can’t ask out someone who’s seeing someone. Kinda goes against my morals."
that’s when I bailed.
Torstein (wingman) did 3 approaches, I did 7. The goal was to do 5.
That’s pretty much all I remember.
Things I did well:
Got better at maintinaning eye contact.
Slowed down my speech.
Had good posture
Didn’t lean in
asked for the number
asked for a date
I used statements that’s definitely working. I’m on something here.
Things I could have done:
Banter a little bit more.
Flirt, make jokes.
maybe kinoed?
Questions:
What do I do when she says she has a boyfriend? Give up?
Anything you guys wanna add?
